What does it feel like to be cheated on for a DJ?

[b305d]

I want to hear all your stories.

Don't brag about helping a woman cheat, those stories are a dime in a dozen.

We all know what it's like during those AFC days, but that **** has got to disturb you just a little bit even if you're a DJ.

Maybe I'm just getting older, but I've started to notice signs of cheating everywhere.

That sh1t is seriously disturbing, son.

It is the highest form of deception and it can put grown men to ruin.

Yesterday I had a flashback.

My aunt once drove me to another city to see me off and go on a business trip to pick up merchandise for her company.

Her little 10 year old son, my nephew, complained, asking why she took one of her male employee with her. She said it was just for fun.

I could see something in that little boy's eyes but at the time, it was just a trivial moment. I didn't think much of it.

Years later after much experience, I realized that she was probably cheating on my uncle.

I thought, what else had I missed all those years?

Maybe there's a reason why my father always randomly call home during work asking where my mom is lol.

Not forgetting to mention college, I know girls who cheat on their boyfriend with multiple guys, saying they felt bad later and still be able to smile and say "I love you" to the poor bastard's face later.

Think how disturbing it is when that girl kissed the guy. How many ****s that lip has been on. How many drops of *** dripping off it.

And you know, they're probably going to get married lol.

I want to believe that not all women cheat.

My grandmother left her husband after their last child had grown up to become a nun.

3 decades later, she still comes to his house everyday to clean and cook for him.
And no, he does not support her financially.

Those kind of women are long gone. They're just never going to come back.

 

[Vice]

My girl cheated on me last month. I was excited because it gave me a pretext to dump her before I moved to a new city with total abundance.

Sometimes I get mild pangs of emotional pain from it though, usually when I'm dealing with serial flaking, no responses, and poor nights in a row. It gets better over time though.

 

[expos]

I want to hear all your stories.

My story has been told over and over again...so I'm not going to type it all out again.

It is obviously the worst thing that has ever happened to me and I've had some rough things in my life. Everything from watching my brother getting hit by a truck, to getting jumped by five guys in Chicago, to having a gun pulled on me, to getting almost sexually assaulted by juvenile delinquent who lived down the street as a child.

The thing is with cheating is that it's almost impossible to prevent. You sometimes cannot control another person no matter how much you try. It leaves you with a profound sense of emptiness, and makes you believe that aren't good enough. You are seen be your peers as someone weak who couldn't keep his woman in check. It makes lose all faith in women, that they can exchange vows with someone in front of 400 people in a church, and 3 years down the road they can't even stand hugging you and they are getting pounded by some dude that isn't you. The problem is, you love this person and you made an investment in them and they have no problems disregarding your feelings or hurting you.

Imagine you are in a competition to build something amazing. You buy all the materials which are costly, you use your own bare hands to hammer, weld, and construct something as wonderful as the Eiffel Tower. You are emotionally attached to your labor, and you grow excited when it's near completion and everything has gone to plan. Your work is beautiful. Meanwhile, someone else has constructed a small lego house with very little effort. Judgement time comes, and the lazy lego house wins over the masterpiece. Then, a judge comes and decides to take a wrecking ball to your work. How does that make you feel? All that effort, for nothing.

In my case, I did everything in my power to be the best possible person for myself and my wife. At age 33, I could still run a 4:35 mile, made a base salary that bought us a beautiful house in the suburbs, was accomplished and lauded in my career, was attentive to her needs, disciplined her like an alpha when she was out of line, brought her on vacations, she had a $5000 wedding ring, I was loved by her parents, and none of that stopped her from wanting to be with her co-worker who made marginally more money than me and lived with his mom.

It's not like I had my chances to cheat either, I worked with some ridiculously hot females who I managed and they would flirt extensively with me during work hours. I blew them all off, because I really did love my wife.

It takes a long time to overcome a betrayal, and in some ways it scars you for life. I have found a better woman now, and I'm just about out of the fog. But I must strsss the importance of screening your woman, because a really bad one can kill you.

 

[Turuwal]

It is impossible for my girls to cheat as I am in open relationships with all of them.

One time, one of my girls played a desperation move for monogamy. I said no. In the debrief, in response to my own honesty about my own sexual partners, she admitted that she was seeing another person at the same time as she started angling for monogamy from me. I found this definitely worth a chuckle.

Another time, in response to some arrogance on my part, a girlfriend of four years asked me how I would feel if she slept with someone else. My response was something like: Why should I worry about something I can't do anything about anyway?

In a world with cheap paternity testing, who really cares if a woman cheats or not? Date multiple women and wear a condom.

;-)

 

[thelastmanonearth]

I don't even consider it cheating unless you are married to them or they gave birth to her/your crotch trophy. It's basically a get out of jail free card if you catch them really.

 

[donking]

In my case, I did everything in my power to be the best possible person for myself and my wife. At age 33, I could still run a 4:35 mile, made a base salary that bought us a beautiful house in the suburbs, was accomplished and lauded in my career, was attentive to her needs, disciplined her like an alpha when she was out of line, brought her on vacations, she had a $5000 wedding ring, I was loved by her parents, and none of that stopped her from wanting to be with her co-worker who made marginally more money than me and lived with his mom.

A wife should not work outside the home. She should be making your home fit for you, the king.

 

[SamTheHobit]

I don't believe I've been cheated on as I've never been in a "meaningful relationship".

But if a girl cheats on you she is directly communicating to you that you are worthless in her eyes, and so much so that she had to fvck another man to get her point across.