BobCarlton
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Tony Robbins is someone I respect A LOT and I've followed for years. I know his son and brother in law, so I know a lot of personal things about him and all I can say is that he is the REAL DEAL.
Watch these two videos and let me know what you think:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iLtceOiHIug&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=07lQ2cpb0Vs&feature=related
Here are two great quotes from the videos that I wrote down:
"You have to bring PRESENCE to those moments when she's scared. You don't need a foundation, every woman needs to be reassured. Women need reassurance all the ****ing time. If you're in business and you're successful, when somebody rejects your idea, you wouldn't be in business unless you dealt with rejection after rejection after rejection and broke through. You have to do the SAME THING with a woman, at a level when you think there's no more you can do, there's ALWAYS more you can do! If you take that on as a man, then the next relationship you will be in will flourish at levels you can't imagine. But most men don't have those balls. They come up with a cognitive answer of why the woman is screwed up, and I'm so good, so they don't ever really break through. So don't leave rationalizing, leave playing at another level."
"What this woman is really looking for is for a man to come and sweep her off her feet, and be her hero, tear down the dragons and break open her heart. She's looking for that certainty, that level of presence that no matter what she does and doesn't give you feedback, you'll break through. Unfortunately there aren't a lot of guys like that in the world we're in today because most guys have been taught to be feminine, which is that if a woman doesn't reinforce them they take their energy some place else."
So what did I learn from these quotes?
One, that masculine energy is BREAKING THROUGH. Feminine energy is giving up and running away from the first sign of rejection. When you first meet a woman and she gives her number, she is INTERESTED. What is stopping her from seeing you again? Her fear, insecurities, conditioning, etc... What happens when you call her, text her and pursue her and she doesn't reply back? Most guys GIVE UP because they only keep pursuing when they get the positive feedback. What Tony is saying is that we need to have a PRESENCE and power that can keep going, despite no feedback, and break through her walls. Either way, continuing to pursue women despite the rejection or no feedback makes you stronger and will train you in your relationship to NOT GIVE UP and have the mentality of breaking through to her. It helps you grow balls.
Your thoughts?
Watch these two videos and let me know what you think:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iLtceOiHIug&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=07lQ2cpb0Vs&feature=related
Here are two great quotes from the videos that I wrote down:
"You have to bring PRESENCE to those moments when she's scared. You don't need a foundation, every woman needs to be reassured. Women need reassurance all the ****ing time. If you're in business and you're successful, when somebody rejects your idea, you wouldn't be in business unless you dealt with rejection after rejection after rejection and broke through. You have to do the SAME THING with a woman, at a level when you think there's no more you can do, there's ALWAYS more you can do! If you take that on as a man, then the next relationship you will be in will flourish at levels you can't imagine. But most men don't have those balls. They come up with a cognitive answer of why the woman is screwed up, and I'm so good, so they don't ever really break through. So don't leave rationalizing, leave playing at another level."
"What this woman is really looking for is for a man to come and sweep her off her feet, and be her hero, tear down the dragons and break open her heart. She's looking for that certainty, that level of presence that no matter what she does and doesn't give you feedback, you'll break through. Unfortunately there aren't a lot of guys like that in the world we're in today because most guys have been taught to be feminine, which is that if a woman doesn't reinforce them they take their energy some place else."
So what did I learn from these quotes?
One, that masculine energy is BREAKING THROUGH. Feminine energy is giving up and running away from the first sign of rejection. When you first meet a woman and she gives her number, she is INTERESTED. What is stopping her from seeing you again? Her fear, insecurities, conditioning, etc... What happens when you call her, text her and pursue her and she doesn't reply back? Most guys GIVE UP because they only keep pursuing when they get the positive feedback. What Tony is saying is that we need to have a PRESENCE and power that can keep going, despite no feedback, and break through her walls. Either way, continuing to pursue women despite the rejection or no feedback makes you stronger and will train you in your relationship to NOT GIVE UP and have the mentality of breaking through to her. It helps you grow balls.
Your thoughts?