SomeRandomGuy
Don Juan
I never thought I would ever be posting but hey I need help.
I don’t live in the states, I live in the Caribbean and for some odd reason I find it easier to get American girls than people of my own culture.
Anyway point is I met this person. Its really hard to find this person and like I saw her about 2 times in the whole freaking year before I spoke to her on Thursday. It was a good conversation and nothing seemed to be out of place. I was able to get her name and some information but since I was late for my next class I had to leave before I got the chance to say my name. After that I didn’t talk to her on Friday but today (Monday) I did and i said my name and bladibladiblah. Everything was going fine and I even taught her how to do some of my art and gave her a packet of my razors so she could practice it(I do an odd art). Then somewhere in the conversation she said "yeah well I get stressful but I normally go out a lot you know....people invite me and I go, helps to keep the mind off things(in Spanish)". Now this Saturday I’m going to the movies with my best friend so I thought "ahh what the heck let me invite her" and I did but the way i did was in a frendly "want to come along" matter. Now the problem that comes here is the way she reacted. Instead of a no or a yes she just looked surprised and stayed quite then I said that I was serious and if she wanted to go and she said that she'll see(and that answer most of the time means bad things for me). After that I went to my class with her and she told me she liked a guy in one of my classes and she knew he was gay, after that I just went in my class and let her go her own way.
Should I drop the whole girl and NEXT her(which I can do but would prefer not to) or should I keep trying?
Note: The girl is extremely hard to find and to talk to her since I can only talk to her when 1 of my teachers misses and the rest of the time she disappears.
I don’t live in the states, I live in the Caribbean and for some odd reason I find it easier to get American girls than people of my own culture.
Anyway point is I met this person. Its really hard to find this person and like I saw her about 2 times in the whole freaking year before I spoke to her on Thursday. It was a good conversation and nothing seemed to be out of place. I was able to get her name and some information but since I was late for my next class I had to leave before I got the chance to say my name. After that I didn’t talk to her on Friday but today (Monday) I did and i said my name and bladibladiblah. Everything was going fine and I even taught her how to do some of my art and gave her a packet of my razors so she could practice it(I do an odd art). Then somewhere in the conversation she said "yeah well I get stressful but I normally go out a lot you know....people invite me and I go, helps to keep the mind off things(in Spanish)". Now this Saturday I’m going to the movies with my best friend so I thought "ahh what the heck let me invite her" and I did but the way i did was in a frendly "want to come along" matter. Now the problem that comes here is the way she reacted. Instead of a no or a yes she just looked surprised and stayed quite then I said that I was serious and if she wanted to go and she said that she'll see(and that answer most of the time means bad things for me). After that I went to my class with her and she told me she liked a guy in one of my classes and she knew he was gay, after that I just went in my class and let her go her own way.
Should I drop the whole girl and NEXT her(which I can do but would prefer not to) or should I keep trying?
Note: The girl is extremely hard to find and to talk to her since I can only talk to her when 1 of my teachers misses and the rest of the time she disappears.
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