What do you do when you have a gf but not satisfied?

[froznie]

I'm in the situation where I have a good looking girlfriend but I got so accustomed to having sex with her so now I don't really get all that excited anymore because I've had her many times already so the novelty is gone.

Should I break it up? We've been together for a few months and I don't want to hurt her but I feel the relationship is kind of doomed already and it would be worse if I keep it lagging longer. When I have sex with her I'm always imagining other girls, but she makes me feel better physically than most other girls I've been with so I'm on the fence. I have a good looking girlfriend but I still feel jealous when I look at other couples, maybe that means there's something wrong. Maybe I need a harem with a few uncommitted **** friends instead of being in a relationship but I'm very much afraid of getting STDs.

Any suggestions?

 

[DannyM]

How old are you?

 

[froznie]

Late 20s.

 

[pdx1138]

start dating other women...if you find one that you like better, break up with her. Until then, stay with her.

 

[Jaylan]

start dating other women...if you find one that you like better, break up with her. Until then, stay with her.

^stupid and selfish advice.

OP, if your gut feels it is a doomed relationship and the sex feels stale to you, then just bail. Do it as best you can to not hurt her too much, but let the girl go.

You gota find a girl who will make you feel the way you said you see other couples feel.

Dont be a cheater or go behind her back to date other women, because imagine if she does it to you. Youd feel like crap if a girl you really fancied did that, right?

Good Luck

 

[HalfAddict]

I agree with Jaylan, if you are unhappy, you should break it off and save you both heartache in the future. If she is doing something wrong tell her what is bothering you if you still feel like it can go somewhere. If you feel it will go no where do not hesitate to break it off, cleanly and for keeps, no caving when she cries. What I told my last girlfriend when I broke up with her was do you really still want to be with me if I am not happy in the relationship? Would we not just be wasting time? She got the message left and never contacted me again and I have never contacted her again.

 

[froznie]

I agree with Jaylan, if you are unhappy, you should break it off and save you both heartache in the future. If she is doing something wrong tell her what is bothering you if you still feel like it can go somewhere. If you feel it will go no where do not hesitate to break it off, cleanly and for keeps, no caving when she cries. What I told my last girlfriend when I broke up with her was do you really still want to be with me if I am not happy in the relationship? Would we not just be wasting time? She got the message left and never contacted me again and I have never contacted her again.

She's not doing anything wrong, afaik... it's really more of an emotional thing. I don't hate her but I feel that she likes me much more than I like her, and it makes me feel bad. But she does so many things to please me that other girls don't do, I don't know why I feel the way I do. **** I'm talking like a damn teenager now.

I'll probably tell her I need a week or two apart maybe, see how my feelings evolve during that time if I start missing her. I rarely ever stay platonic with just one girl for more than a couple of months so I'm not used to real relationships... I'm really just accustomed to being with people without much commitment.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

It sounds like you're just over the stage of infatuation with the girl. This happens in all relationships. Try and get a little freakier in the bedroom. role play fantasies you two have had or something to that extent.

 

[FairShake]

start dating other women...if you find one that you like better, break up with her. Until then, stay with her.

You're a ****head! I love it! LoL.

Anyway, if you want to make it work you have to make it fun. Get a little creative.

But if nothing works it's not meant to be.