What do you do when a girl puts you on a pedestool?
This girl that I am currently talking too is putting me on a pedestool. I’ve had girls do this to me a couple of times but probably not as bad as this. I mean like the way she talks makes me feel like a god to her for some reason. She’s always says things;
“Yea I didn’t think you were going to come talk to me but I can’t believe you did”
“god you are so ****y but I like that”
“I can’t take you anywhere where you know everyone”
“You’re cute and you know it”She also usually tells me to call her meaning she wants to see if I will actually call her. And I actually do just to show some interest and also if I feel her IL gets low ill be able to just take it away.
And on top of that sh*t she knows a lot of things about me. She heard everything from mutual people before we sort of started talking but the point is it seems like she has been after me for like 2 years. “yea don’t you remember when I saw you but you were always with some girls” “I heard you’re good in bed.” I think she tells her friends a lot of things about me too cause they come up too me and say things.
I don’t know she might just like blowing up guy’s heads to get them to like her and chase her. But I can kind of sense that she might be doing it also because she honestly can’t believe I'm talking to her. Last weekend I was in her bed and she said “oh my god I can’t believe your laying here with me I would’ve never pictured this” I was like wtf. she wanted to mess around but I was like I’m not some easy dude, guess this made me even more on a pedestool to her.
Right now I’m running some tests on her to see what she wants and is about. So I guess if she calls me then she wants something because I’m sure as hell not going to call her at all anymore. I contacted the last couple times to show her a lot of attention and then I am going to take it away from her and see what she actually does. I’m trying to push/pull her right now. How do I handle this? I’m trying to figure out why she is blowing up my head like crazy whenever I see her. Is she doing it to get me to chase her or does she genuinely want something with me. I guess ill find out this weekend and see if she calls me and if she doesn’t then I’ll just next her. Any other suggestions on how I should act about her blowing up my head and putting me on a pedastool?
This girl that I am currently talking too is putting me on a pedestool. I’ve had girls do this to me a couple of times but probably not as bad as this. I mean like the way she talks makes me feel like a god to her for some reason. She’s always says things;
“Yea I didn’t think you were going to come talk to me but I can’t believe you did”
“god you are so ****y but I like that”
“I can’t take you anywhere where you know everyone”
“You’re cute and you know it”She also usually tells me to call her meaning she wants to see if I will actually call her. And I actually do just to show some interest and also if I feel her IL gets low ill be able to just take it away.
And on top of that sh*t she knows a lot of things about me. She heard everything from mutual people before we sort of started talking but the point is it seems like she has been after me for like 2 years. “yea don’t you remember when I saw you but you were always with some girls” “I heard you’re good in bed.” I think she tells her friends a lot of things about me too cause they come up too me and say things.
I don’t know she might just like blowing up guy’s heads to get them to like her and chase her. But I can kind of sense that she might be doing it also because she honestly can’t believe I'm talking to her. Last weekend I was in her bed and she said “oh my god I can’t believe your laying here with me I would’ve never pictured this” I was like wtf. she wanted to mess around but I was like I’m not some easy dude, guess this made me even more on a pedestool to her.
Right now I’m running some tests on her to see what she wants and is about. So I guess if she calls me then she wants something because I’m sure as hell not going to call her at all anymore. I contacted the last couple times to show her a lot of attention and then I am going to take it away from her and see what she actually does. I’m trying to push/pull her right now. How do I handle this? I’m trying to figure out why she is blowing up my head like crazy whenever I see her. Is she doing it to get me to chase her or does she genuinely want something with me. I guess ill find out this weekend and see if she calls me and if she doesn’t then I’ll just next her. Any other suggestions on how I should act about her blowing up my head and putting me on a pedastool?
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