What do you after getting a girl's #

[Ringleader41]

I waited 2 days and texted her and I can really tell her irl is high. I always **** up after this part though.

 

[r0cky]

Ask her to meet up

 

[teacha]

I waited 2 days and texted her and I can really tell her irl is high. I always **** up after this part though.

What do you wanna do? Just invite her along to do whatever it is that you like doing.

You always mess things up because you analyse stuff way too much. Leave that to girls.

 

[Diaforetikos]

Set up a date or a meet up. Ask her if she's free that week. Make sure you have something planned before you even contact her.

When you mention the event, ask her if the event sounds fun instead of asking her if she wants to go. So for example, "There is this awesome Mandarin restaurant that I we should try. They have this grilled shrimp glazed with honey. Doesn't that sound good?"

It does sound good, so she will say yes. Then say when and where, and you'll see her there. Don't give her the opportunity to say no. Obviously she may be genuinely busy, so don't keep pushing for something that won't happen. But you should have filtered her availability when you asked if she was busy this week.

Don't over think. This isn't the only way to do this. You need to just go for it. If it doesn't work out, move on. There are other women.