What do women really think of older inexperienced guys?

[YP79]

What do women really think of the 36 year old who's never kissed a woman or the 40 year old virgin or the 43 year old who's never dated?

It's hard to get a straight answer from a woman. What do you all think? Do these guys stand a chance?

 

[Mike32ct]

Great question, but I don't have a good answer. I don't believe that it's a topic that most women would even be interested in discussing. Their attitudes are often one or more of the following:

a) He's lying about being an advanced age virgin in order to scam a pity F lol. Nobody could possibly be a 37 yo virgin.

b) I saw him or his picture. He doesn't have the looks. Too bad buddy. Suck it up and be a monk lol.

But to answer your other question, yes, there is definitely hope for such guys.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

They don't or that's really sad. If they are A-sexual then you might have something in common with them.

#1. It's none of there business if you've fvcked 0 or 100. They don't have to know!

#2. Who gives a fvck what they think man, just go get sum.

Pvssys great but it's also overrated at the same time.

 

[Alvafe]

serious don't mention, if you are really over 30 and never had sex and want to do, better step up your game.

don't mention, don't care and don't answers(its never asked anyway), just take the initiative, if she mention wow youa re doing this wrong the well I take some time to get used to a new girl or its been sometime last time I did this being too busy with my work/bussiness, jsut don't get suplicant or tell her she is is the one who will clean the web of your thing.

remember don't be too direct and be playfull,

and the reason for why is hard to get a straight answer from woman is, since when they give any straight answers anyway?

 

[Mike32ct]

This question gets asked way too often.

DON'T TELL THE WOMAN! And don't be worried about them "realizing" you're inexperienced. A good excuse can be:
-You're drunk
-It's been a few months since your last encounter (since life's been so damn busy, and you're making so much money!)


That's all I've got. Get creative. But really you should not explain yourself at all. If she likes you and you've gamed her well she won't care

Agreed.

I especially like the "dry spell" excuse (item no. 2). It's totally believable and plausible. A guy in a long dry spell could certainly be nervous or awkward during sex because he's "rusty" and/or his confidence is lower. I think plenty of ladies would be ok with a "dry spell guy" because the guy could be working a lot (and making $$) and/or just hasn't met the right person (or any "quality people") since his last gf.

For anyone curious, the reason such guys exist is often because time slips away. Some guys are shy and have strict parents, so they don't date through high school. Maybe they commute to college and never see the inside of a dorm, and/or they just remain shy and miss out in college. Plenty of these guys are highly intelligent and secure good jobs (often in STEM) after graduation. Then they work non-stop. Suddenly, he looks in the mirror and he's 30+ or 35+ and still hasn't fooled around with a female.

At any rate, the advice is the same. Get in shape. Get some new clothes. Do something with the hair (that remains lol). Get out there and interact with women. And play the dry spell card if you get too nervous when things get intimate.

 

[Supermann]

I know a 50 year old virgin. He's pathetic. spineless nice guy who gets walked all over and doesn't learn from it

 

[yuppaz]

They think it's pretty pathetic. Those men need to learn to go for what they want and not be so timid. Start off banging some ugly chicks or fatties, then move up.

 

[Supermann]

They think it's pretty pathetic. Those men need to learn to go for what they want and not be so timid. Start off banging some ugly chicks or fatties, then move up.

The 50 year old virgin I know couldn't get a fatty if his life depended on it. he's such a pathetic doormat.

 

[Bayne05]

Joke of a man, that's what they think. We men see a woman that's never been touched as a trophie but woman see a man that has no experience with woman as a problem, she'll be asking herself what's wrong with you and jump to a bunch of conclusions and run for the hills

If you failing with woman it means you've raised the bar way too high for you to handle, lower the bar a bit and as you progress start increasing it. If you really failing, hookers are available there's really no shame in getting one, you getting laid aren't you? Better than nothing.

 

[foreverAFC]

most women are used to having bad sex, so dont worry about it, no need to even tell them anything

The 50 year old virgin I know couldn't get a fatty if his life depended on it. he's such a pathetic doormat.

that guy should have learned how to get some from strippers and prostitutes a long time ago

 

[Supermann]

Joke of a man, that's what they think. We men see a woman that's never been touched as a trophie but woman see a man that has no experience with woman as a problem, she'll be asking herself what's wrong with you and jump to a bunch of conclusions and run for the hills

If you failing with woman it means you've raised the bar way too high for you to handle, lower the bar a bit and as you progress start increasing it. If you really failing, hookers are available there's really no shame in getting one, you getting laid aren't you? Better than nothing.

Joke of a man is what it is. This 50 year old virgin doormat won't go to a hooker.

 

[Supermann]

most women are used to having bad sex, so dont worry about it, no need to even tell them anything



that guy should have learned how to get some from strippers and prostitutes a long time ago

He doesn't learn. he puts females on a pedestal and does whatever they ask but he doesn't get anywhere, but she gets a free dinner.