what do I respond to this?

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"Are you looking for sex or something serious? "


I am tempted to say sex haha but I feel this is a trick. I feel like anything I say will make me lose. Any toughts?
 

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I hate those bullshıt "what do you want" questions! It never works out with girls who ask that. That's gotta be one of the nastiest questions to paint you into a corner. I'd love to see some of the guys' replies to this. 2 from me:

"I'm looking for some serious sex!"
"What's the difference?"
 

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Yeah that question just killed my mood tbh. I like the second one, however I am replying with the first one just cuz hehehe. Thanks for your input.
 
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"I am looking for a woman not a girl, Nice talking to you though ;)!"
 

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Girl: "Are you looking for sex or something serious?"

You: "No that's not all I'm looking for, unless that's all you've got." or something like that!

most girls are boring and they have nothing really interesting going on for them so they know that the most powerful weapon they got to conquer you is sex. but this is a really good strategy to see who is the real deal and who is the wannabe.

you know that you got your game together when you pass this kind of sh!t tests like a boss.
 

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Turn it on her, "you don't think sex is serious?"
 

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AJ: I'm going with the flow, whatever happens happens. You seem cool and I like your vibe so let's see where it goes.
 
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om1xr said:
Girl: "Are you looking for sex or something serious?"

You: "No that's not all I'm looking for, unless that's all you've got." or something like that!
Ha ha this is perfect!
 

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Sex? Who said anything about sex? Your going to have to wine and dine me first. All you women these days, you think you can just treat me like a piece of meat or something.
 

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AriMamba said:
"Are you looking for sex or something serious? "


I am tempted to say sex haha but I feel this is a trick. I feel like anything I say will make me lose. Any toughts?
She's baiting you bro, can't answer that.

"I'm looking for whatever you want me to look for."
 

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AriMamba said:
"Are you looking for sex or something serious? "


I am tempted to say sex haha but I feel this is a trick. I feel like anything I say will make me lose. Any toughts?
Say one of the following

1) Accuse of a Freudian slip and her question implies that she only wants you for your body.

2) Say, "Why do ask?" She'll give some b.s. answer then say "Oh, I thought you were interested in deflowering me." She'll "What," or something to the effect of your being a virgin?, Then you'll say, "I thought you wanted to take my virginity." She'll wonder if you are indeed a virgin, but you'll neither confirm or deny your virginity. When she presses you, you'll say, "Do you think that I'm a virgin?" Whether she answers yes or no, you response with, "Okay, I'll be that today." Then it becomes an ongoing joke.

3) Say I want a a combination of both, serious sex.

4) Tell her that you only have sex with women that you have a certain connection with and she has a long way to go before that connection is even made.
 

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AriMamba said:
"Are you looking for sex or something serious? "


I am tempted to say sex haha but I feel this is a trick. I feel like anything I say will make me lose. Any toughts?
Just say you are looking to make new friends and have fun. If the girl is ok with it not leading anywhere, she will play along.

If she wants something serious, she will bail. Theres nothing wrong with that. There are plenty of women out there looking for casual fun. No need for games, silly overthinking answers or any crap. Just be forthright. I havent had a problem telling a girl straight up I just want to have fun. I even bring it up myself usually in order to avoid drama. And if the chick is the type who is gonna fall hard for me after sex, I usually just move on without pursuing her just to avoid issues.

Good luck.
 

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This is an obvious sh*t test. She's trying to frame you. Dodge the question and put the focus back on her. Refuse to play her stupid tests, don't answer her question in any serious way, instead, say something like this:

"Why do you ask? Did you plan on just using me just for sex and you're afraid you might hurt my feelings?"

"That depends on whether you're serious girlfriend material. Do you think you are?"

"I just go with the flow. Where do you hope this will go?"


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thunder_god said:
Sex? Who said anything about sex? Your going to have to wine and dine me first. All you women these days, you think you can just treat me like a piece of meat or something.
^
That one is also REALLY good. Chapeau.
 
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