Slippery Sam
Don Juan
im sorry in advance if this is a stupid question, but i don't kno the answer so im gonna ask. here's the situation: my gf and i are going fine until one day she calls me and i dont pick up because i am at work. i call her on my break and the conversation is not going too well so i am suspicious that something's up. she says that she'll call me later and she does, but i dont pick up either time because im competing at a swim meet. i call her like 11:30 when i finally am in my bed just to see whats up. she tells me that she's done some thinking and has "realized" that even though she wants to be with me she doesnt want to because we will be going away to college and if we stay together now, it will be hard to separate later. i tell her, not really thinking, that she's 18, im 17 we're not really in a serious relationship, and lets make it last because we're only young once. she doesnt really say anything except that she still wants to be friends. i keep talking to her just to see if she's serious about this bullshyte or not and the convo is pretty normal, until she just blurts out that she's now celibate. to tell you the truth, im not even sure what celibate means but i am pretty sure that she just doesnt want sex anymore. i tell her playing around that "that sucks" and she just gets really quiet. i feel pretty awkward so i tell her its pretty late, im gonna go. in school i saw her in one of my classes and she was trying to be friendly but i just ignored her. i didnt start talking to her to be friends, i started talking to her because i wanted a gf. my moodiness got the best of me, but i did not want to give the wrong impression that i was okay with just being friends. i am pretty sure that she is now either angry or sad but i still want to be with her, so what do i do?
