What do/did YOU do when you hit a big slump/feeling down?

[FCB]

You seem quite comfortable with this. Can I ask, how long have you been aware of "the game"?

I've been aware to varying degrees since I was 17. I figured certain things out talking with my friends and experimenting and learning about girls but I never felt the need to have a girlfriend, lots of guys were desperate for womens validation but I never was from a very young age, I wanted them but I didn't need a girlfriend or need their validation. Even though I figured some things out on my own and I'd do great approaching girls in bars or in isolated times, when I was sober or at school I just didn't/couldn't, the possiblity of rejection in a broad social circle was not something I feared.

When I was in a LTR I still banged other girls and maintained my attractiveness to girls and connections with friends, from the beginning I straight up told my girlfriend I liked her but I'd leave in a heartbeat if she got out of line and that I wouldn't ditch my friends for her. She was completely in love with me and submissive to me, I had a high social value and could do a lot for her, then we moved away I lost my social circle wasn't really working in a standard 9-5 job, was working from home and she was making more money then I was. I went complete AFC, and the roles changed and I was on the outs not knowing what to do. For a while I was completely ignorant to the game after, it was like baby steps I had to re-learn everything I knew when I was younger and build on that as well. I'd have some breakthrough's but then still set backs, and I'd still freeze up with girls that I thought were high value and had long term potential. It takes a while, and you have to practice, and keep re-learning and looking back and overall working on you. Luckily I am super competitive and have lots of goals and other things going for me that I focus on. The biggest change was just learning to be suave, I never really was past a short period of time or a drunken nigh at times I would be and would talk to girls online or through text and knew how to be descriptive and stimulate their mind sexually, but I completely went away from that and was trying to be blunt and not easing things along outside of that. I think recently I put it all together, and realized looking back how many girls were disappointed because I was just like "lets do sex" and I'll be affectionate then just turn it off, I expected it to be spontaneous but you have to build it up in women, you have to plant the seeds and be patient. Always keep that in mind, women want the process, so at first especially you have to realize they want to be seduced, they want to feel open and not be judged sexually and experience that but you have to be subtle about it and dance around it piquing their interest. Then, once they put you in the frame of a guy who gets it, who will be considerate to their needs (in their mind) who will lie to them and make them feel good in the right ways (lets be honest all women want that above honesty and frankness) and let them be a "slut" without feeling or being judged as a "slut" then they'll give themselves to you. Women who date or accept guys who are just good looking laugh at them behind their back and joke about them with friends, guys who get it, regardless of how they look physically will get gushing reviews by girls, because you've latched onto the ability to understand what women want, you understand and play the game which is primarily at the psychological/social level.

 

[blind_one]

No, just based on the huge gap in how good that relationship was (for the most part) vs. every other relationship.

Admittedly I'm pretty broken up so am not thinking 100% logically, but based on past experiences i would predict there is a likelihood that this was what those old men refer to as "the one that got away"

Or who knows, i could look back and laugh in 3 months. Just venting here, lurking here for x years I told myself I'd never be one of those guys coming on here whining (god knows IRL I don't.) but here I am. Ironic really.

You do realize there are gazzilions of women out there, and every other woman might like you even more then the previous one ? I have recently met a girl who has most good qualities of my ex but no bad ones so far.

Improve in the mean time. PUMP SOME IRON. It is always good, if only for your mental health.

 

[FCB]

One of the biggest things I can say though is if/when you date girls younger then you, you need to keep them in mentality that they are younger and inexperienced and you are going to lead them, and do not let sex hold power over you. I gave that away a ton of times because I dated almost exclusively younger girls and acted too AFC after the initial courtship. If I would have just not been lazy and checked them on **** tests I would have had a ton of success and given them what they wanted, an older more established lead in the relationship.

 

[blind_one]

you are going to lead them, and do not let sex hold power over you.

Correction, this applies always and to every woman, not just the ones younger than you. Unless she is older and still hot she might give you HUUUGE IOIs if you are still not acting upon the situation but rarely f-close if you do not take the lead. Every situation is different

 

[9asus2]

I've been aware to varying degrees since I was 17. I figured certain things out talking with my friends and experimenting and learning about girls but I never felt the need to have a girlfriend, lots of guys were desperate for womens validation but I never was from a very young age, I wanted them but I didn't need a girlfriend or need their validation. Even though I figured some things out on my own and I'd do great approaching girls in bars or in isolated times, when I was sober or at school I just didn't/couldn't, the possiblity of rejection in a broad social circle was not something I feared.

When I was in a LTR I still banged other girls and maintained my attractiveness to girls and connections with friends, from the beginning I straight up told my girlfriend I liked her but I'd leave in a heartbeat if she got out of line and that I wouldn't ditch my friends for her. She was completely in love with me and submissive to me, I had a high social value and could do a lot for her, then we moved away I lost my social circle wasn't really working in a standard 9-5 job, was working from home and she was making more money then I was. I went complete AFC, and the roles changed and I was on the outs not knowing what to do. For a while I was completely ignorant to the game after, it was like baby steps I had to re-learn everything I knew when I was younger and build on that as well. I'd have some breakthrough's but then still set backs, and I'd still freeze up with girls that I thought were high value and had long term potential. It takes a while, and you have to practice, and keep re-learning and looking back and overall working on you. Luckily I am super competitive and have lots of goals and other things going for me that I focus on. The biggest change was just learning to be suave, I never really was past a short period of time or a drunken nigh at times I would be and would talk to girls online or through text and knew how to be descriptive and stimulate their mind sexually, but I completely went away from that and was trying to be blunt and not easing things along outside of that. I think recently I put it all together, and realized looking back how many girls were disappointed because I was just like "lets do sex" and I'll be affectionate then just turn it off, I expected it to be spontaneous but you have to build it up in women, you have to plant the seeds and be patient. Always keep that in mind, women want the process, so at first especially you have to realize they want to be seduced, they want to feel open and not be judged sexually and experience that but you have to be subtle about it and dance around it piquing their interest. Then, once they put you in the frame of a guy who gets it, who will be considerate to their needs (in their mind) who will lie to them and make them feel good in the right ways (lets be honest all women want that above honesty and frankness) and let them be a "slut" without feeling or being judged as a "slut" then they'll give themselves to you. Women who date or accept guys who are just good looking laugh at them behind their back and joke about them with friends, guys who get it, regardless of how they look physically will get gushing reviews by girls, because you've latched onto the ability to understand what women want, you understand and play the game which is primarily at the psychological/social level.

Thanks for this, I do appreciate you taking the time to write this out.

 

[9asus2]

You do realize there are gazzilions of women out there, and every other woman might like you even more then the previous one ? I have recently met a girl who has most good qualities of my ex but no bad ones so far.

Improve in the mean time. PUMP SOME IRON. It is always good, if only for your mental health.

Hi,
Yeah I realise that on paper, it's my own skewed reality that I'm desperately trying to crawl back from. Had a little success the other night (see my journal) so that's SOMETHING I guess.

Re: lifting. That's the one area I excel at. For all my "faults", my body is great and I'm OK saying that. It is good advice for others though. I've realised on it's own a great body doesn't do much for you, but it definitely acts as a multiplier if there's attraction already there.

Based on my recently very small sample size anyway. :S

 

[FCB]

Correction, this applies always and to every woman, not just the ones younger than you. Unless she is older and still hot she might give you HUUUGE IOIs if you are still not acting upon the situation but rarely f-close if you do not take the lead. Every situation is different

Agreed, the statement is in the sense of a slump buster, younger girls will have a inferiority complex in many areas already built in, so its easier to learn the roll of leading and realizing **** tests/how they'll use sex to try and control you and see how you react. Older women who are more secure in their lives it may be more difficult especially if you are finding your way and learning, I'd suggest to guys who are trying to find that balance and are learning the dynamic to use that with younger girls, even older guys who aren't suave or now what they are doing will get the benefit of the doubt because of age, older women are more likely to sniff that **** out right away and are more likely to discard or try and takeover right away.

 

[SeymourCake]

Watching and listening to this is my therapy. You don't have to be a Nationalist/Socialist to appreciate this profound compilation of speeches therapeutic. Plus there's soothing background music.

(Watch with an open mind)

It puts me at ease knowing one day I may have to do public speakings as well.

 

[Eagle1]

Watching and listening to this is my therapy. You don't have to be a Nationalist/Socialist to appreciate this profound compilation of speeches therapeutic. Plus there's soothing background music.

It puts me at ease knowing one day I may have to do public speakings as well.

Nah, I am German and I actually do understand the words and this is pure evil and hatred, nothing else. It hurts my ears.

If you really want to recommend some WWII therapy speech/video, then watch this, and you will see real men fighting for a good cause. Your problems will seem insignificant compared to this.

[MEdia?youtube]

I usually watch all kind of good war movies when I am down, because you get to see real men (actors) in action and I am motivated to work out physically and mentally.

 

[SeymourCake]

Nah, I am German and I actually do understand the words and this is pure evil and hatred, nothing else. It hurts my ears.

If you really want to recommend some WWII therapy speech/video, then watch this, and you will see real men fighting for a good cause. Your problems will seem insignificant compared to this.

[MEdia?youtube]

I usually watch all kind of good war movies when I am down, because you get to see real men (actors) in action and I am motivated to work out physically and mentally.

You have been given the wrong impression of your own history.

 

[Eagle1]

You have been given the wrong impression of your own history.

So you are posting a quote of 20-year old JFK? People that age can be impressed easily.

Hitler was a drug addict who failed in everything he did in life. Not exactly the type of man people should follow. He was not even German-born, Austrian born and later naturalized. That's why I like the US Natural-born-Citizen clause:

„No person except a natural born Citizen, or a Citizen of the United States, at the time of the Adoption of this Constitution, shall be eligible to the Office of President"

 

[parkthebus]

Drug addiction comment is true. He was on at least 70 different drugs. Was very close to a quack.

 

[SeymourCake]

You have been given the wrong impression of your own history.

So you are posting a quote of 20-year old JFK? People that age can be impressed easily.

Hitler was a drug addict who failed in everything he did in life. Not exactly the type of man people should follow. He was not even German-born, Austrian born and later naturalized. That's why I like the US Natural-born-Citizen clause:

„No person except a natural born Citizen, or a Citizen of the United States, at the time of the Adoption of this Constitution, shall be eligible to the Office of President"

Okay, let us not derail this thread.

JFK was 46 years old when he wrote that in his diary after visiting Berlin. How did Hitler fail in everything he did in life when he made Germany debt free and brought some of the technological militaristic advances in a matter of years? How would you feel if nations falsely accused your country of initiating World War I when it clearly was not true? How would you feel if your country suffered from The Great Depression in which your people had nothing to do with it? The fact that you dismiss him because he was born in Austria shows you how indoctrinated you are to the propagandist education you received in school. Literally, the only difference between Austrians and German is that Germany is Catholic and Austria is Protestant. That is literally the only difference. They are genetically and culturally (aside from religion) the same people. The only minor difference is their dialect. Adolf saw pass that bull**** and wanted a unified Germany. Not to mention Adolf fought in the first World War under GERMANY.

Donald Trump is old enough. Are you saying Donald Trump is easily impressed?

Do you notice anything similar?


This thread is about what you do if you're feeling down and need some words of encouragement. Let's leave it at that. If you find inspiration of puppets in executive cabinet claiming victory over Germany to please their zionist overlords, then I have nothing to say in return. I'll respect whatever you find inspiring, and I expect the same in return. Just remember, no one loved, or will love Germany and Germans as much as Adolf Hitler did if you truly understood him.

As mentioned before, do not derail this thread. Stay on topic.