callmemister
Don Juan
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as allways sorry for my english and please dont mind the CAPLOCKS i use it only for underlining the point.
let me begin by telling you that i am asocial or antisocial person.
at this point i really do not know if i want to change it or not.
what first made me come to the sosuave and other message boards like MM,is that simply
I WANT girls without emotional attachment,only to fawk.
that and THE GAME.and with sincerity i must thanks neill strauss for introducing me to this experimenting
underworld.
so i appasionated my self with social comunications between boys and girls,
and with comunications in general.
i even dusted off my social comunications schoolbook,to learn about non verbal and
paraverbal comunications.
WHAT I LEARNED THAT IS USEFULL:
1-3 second rule(allways try to speak and dont wait more than 3 sec) by mystery????
2-by friendly and smile by common logic
3-25 rules of bodylanguage by tyler durden
4-****y and funny lines by de angelo
5-eft
6-nlp techniques
7-anchoring(in all honesty i will try it today if the time permit)
8-SMILE,YOU FAWKER,DONT BE THE TOUGH GUY WHEN YOU APROACH PEOPLE TO MAKE FRIEND
IN DISCO,BE ONLY TOUGH GUY WHEN YOU GOD FORBID ARE TO BE ATTACKED BY SOME A$$
9-a friendly neg
OF COURSE I HAVE A LOT TO LEARN AND WILL STAY ON THIS SITE.
i did not arrive yet,still on my journey to better life.
sooooo nooooow theeeeeee stooooorrrrryyyyyyyy beeeggggiiiiinnnnnnn
yesterday with my group of friends,we went out and i wanted to field test those things i learned.
1-AS SOMEBODY SAID,ALL THE DJ BIBLE IS USELESS IF YOU DONT FIELD TEST IT
2-YOU DONT HAVE TO WAIT UNTIL YOU GET THE PERFECT LINES TO APPROACH (MY WERE COMICAL AT THE BEST
BUT I HAD FUN APPROACHING PERSONS AND MAKING SMALL TALK)
3- V E R Y I M P O R T A N T
I DID NOT GO OUT EXPECTING TO SCORE WITH GIRLS BUT TO CHANGE MY SOCIAL AWKWARDNESS (sp??)
AND FIND SOME NEW FRIENDS
so we end up in a goth discoteque because one part of my group listens to the david bowie
and cure type of music and others trance type.
offcourse i saw the most gorgeous (sp??) girls dressed in black miniskirts, and the ugliest
and fattest chicks that made me become very gay.
we meet other group of boys and introduced to them, BUT UNLIKE OTHER TIMES I TRY TO MADE
MYSELF MORE SOCIAL THIS TIME.
-i started a ****y funny and friendly neg with a girl that i know 3 months
she was defending herself (qualifying)jokingly, and kicked me in my butt friendly.
-i imediatelly introduced myself to a girl,and not waiting as usual about half hour to ask
question,and started to neg her friendly about being asleep.
she did not mind and was in a good mood
(YOU CAN LIGHT NEG EVERYBODY YOU KNOW IF IT IS IN JOKINGLY WAY AND WITH SMILE)
-VERY IMPORTANT- I FORCED MYSELF TO TALK TO A LOT OF PERSONS
THERE IS A LARGE PERCENTAGE OF PERSON,BOYS OR GIRLS THAT ARE HAPPY TO EXCHANGE A SMILE
OR A FEW WORDS.
i asked a bloke about what kind of music is it
i complimented somebody about his t shirt and he thanked me (really great t shirt
it was not a fake compliment)
i spoke with a girl in the restrooms
I FORCED MYSELF NOT TO WAIT TO BE INVITED TO DANCE,BUT TO GO AND DANCE WITHOUT
ALLWAYS HAVING TO BE ASKED (do the first step)
even pushed half of my friends to dance
VERY IMPORTANT
there were a time when i acted like a "tough guy"in the discoteque (not picking fights)
and never danced,only watched people dance.
now,when i started to dance i realised,man what a sad things,those people going to the disco
and never dancing,standing alone with a glass of beer,and watching others dance.
if you are in the disco dance,if not go to the pub.
NOBODY IS GOING TO JUDGE YOU IF YOU ARE A BAD DANCER,BECAUSE NOBODY NOTICES IT
AND IT IS PERFECTLY FINE TO DANCE ALONE.
i on the other hand started to dance with girl that i was lightly negin,without
waiting for a written invitation,just started dancing.
afterall if the girl does not like you she will turn the back or go to dance somewhere else,
if she likes you she will dance with you.
I DID NOT TRY TO KISS HER OR SOMETHING LIKE THIS, I WAS DOING IT ONLY TO SHED MY
SOCIAL AWKWARDNESS AND TO HAVE FUN.
thats all folks
callmemister alex
let me begin by telling you that i am asocial or antisocial person.
at this point i really do not know if i want to change it or not.
what first made me come to the sosuave and other message boards like MM,is that simply
I WANT girls without emotional attachment,only to fawk.
that and THE GAME.and with sincerity i must thanks neill strauss for introducing me to this experimenting
underworld.
so i appasionated my self with social comunications between boys and girls,
and with comunications in general.
i even dusted off my social comunications schoolbook,to learn about non verbal and
paraverbal comunications.
WHAT I LEARNED THAT IS USEFULL:
1-3 second rule(allways try to speak and dont wait more than 3 sec) by mystery????
2-by friendly and smile by common logic
3-25 rules of bodylanguage by tyler durden
4-****y and funny lines by de angelo
5-eft
6-nlp techniques
7-anchoring(in all honesty i will try it today if the time permit)
8-SMILE,YOU FAWKER,DONT BE THE TOUGH GUY WHEN YOU APROACH PEOPLE TO MAKE FRIEND
IN DISCO,BE ONLY TOUGH GUY WHEN YOU GOD FORBID ARE TO BE ATTACKED BY SOME A$$
9-a friendly neg
OF COURSE I HAVE A LOT TO LEARN AND WILL STAY ON THIS SITE.
i did not arrive yet,still on my journey to better life.
sooooo nooooow theeeeeee stooooorrrrryyyyyyyy beeeggggiiiiinnnnnnn
yesterday with my group of friends,we went out and i wanted to field test those things i learned.
1-AS SOMEBODY SAID,ALL THE DJ BIBLE IS USELESS IF YOU DONT FIELD TEST IT
2-YOU DONT HAVE TO WAIT UNTIL YOU GET THE PERFECT LINES TO APPROACH (MY WERE COMICAL AT THE BEST
BUT I HAD FUN APPROACHING PERSONS AND MAKING SMALL TALK)
3- V E R Y I M P O R T A N T
I DID NOT GO OUT EXPECTING TO SCORE WITH GIRLS BUT TO CHANGE MY SOCIAL AWKWARDNESS (sp??)
AND FIND SOME NEW FRIENDS
so we end up in a goth discoteque because one part of my group listens to the david bowie
and cure type of music and others trance type.
offcourse i saw the most gorgeous (sp??) girls dressed in black miniskirts, and the ugliest
and fattest chicks that made me become very gay.
we meet other group of boys and introduced to them, BUT UNLIKE OTHER TIMES I TRY TO MADE
MYSELF MORE SOCIAL THIS TIME.
-i started a ****y funny and friendly neg with a girl that i know 3 months
she was defending herself (qualifying)jokingly, and kicked me in my butt friendly.
-i imediatelly introduced myself to a girl,and not waiting as usual about half hour to ask
question,and started to neg her friendly about being asleep.
she did not mind and was in a good mood
(YOU CAN LIGHT NEG EVERYBODY YOU KNOW IF IT IS IN JOKINGLY WAY AND WITH SMILE)
-VERY IMPORTANT- I FORCED MYSELF TO TALK TO A LOT OF PERSONS
THERE IS A LARGE PERCENTAGE OF PERSON,BOYS OR GIRLS THAT ARE HAPPY TO EXCHANGE A SMILE
OR A FEW WORDS.
i asked a bloke about what kind of music is it
i complimented somebody about his t shirt and he thanked me (really great t shirt
it was not a fake compliment)
i spoke with a girl in the restrooms
I FORCED MYSELF NOT TO WAIT TO BE INVITED TO DANCE,BUT TO GO AND DANCE WITHOUT
ALLWAYS HAVING TO BE ASKED (do the first step)
even pushed half of my friends to dance
VERY IMPORTANT
there were a time when i acted like a "tough guy"in the discoteque (not picking fights)
and never danced,only watched people dance.
now,when i started to dance i realised,man what a sad things,those people going to the disco
and never dancing,standing alone with a glass of beer,and watching others dance.
if you are in the disco dance,if not go to the pub.
NOBODY IS GOING TO JUDGE YOU IF YOU ARE A BAD DANCER,BECAUSE NOBODY NOTICES IT
AND IT IS PERFECTLY FINE TO DANCE ALONE.
i on the other hand started to dance with girl that i was lightly negin,without
waiting for a written invitation,just started dancing.
afterall if the girl does not like you she will turn the back or go to dance somewhere else,
if she likes you she will dance with you.
I DID NOT TRY TO KISS HER OR SOMETHING LIKE THIS, I WAS DOING IT ONLY TO SHED MY
SOCIAL AWKWARDNESS AND TO HAVE FUN.
thats all folks
callmemister alex