Ofcourse you are insecure as hell about this.
You can't even take her home. So what, you wanna "impose your dominance " on her and other men untill you did all the dishes and got a tv?
There's a saying that says: as you do 1 thing, yoi do anything. That means if you are nonchalant about such things it will show up in your overall character. Perhaps your clothes are also dirty ect.
Your priority should be changing this side of yourself. In these cases the woman acts like a mirror amd she'll highlight what's lacking: in this case basic shyte like manners and personal hygiene, and basic funding for a everyday thing like a tv. What's up with your bed? Is that presentable? The sheets. Everything. Fridge filled up. Tiolet spotless .What about this and that and this?
Lets not even focus about the fact she likes dudes from your heritage and that he was exactly that. You, my friend, must focus on growing up because yes, she will definitely lool for a real man. Stop playing yourself.