What can my inspiration to get laid NOW be?

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ElStud

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Alright, I know the topic kind of sounds weird, but let me explain. I'm at my friends house where as usual there are ghetto acting girls, but one of them is fine enough that I don't even care about that. And yeah, I'd like to f*ck the girl. But tell me, what motivates you guys to game her THAT NIGHT and not just say "Oh, I'll talk to her the next time we come here".

See the thing is, is that if I'm not really horny or something, it's hard for me to get motivated to actually talk to a girl. It's kind of like I feel "Yeah, I might be able to get her, but do I REALLY want to get laid tonight?". It's like being in a situation where getting laid just isn't enough motivation to game her.
 

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you think you can actually pull that chick on that night? cuz i dont think you can......












theres your motivation ;)
 

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284th thread of yours. You never learn, do you?
 
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Well you could always go with the extreme motivation. This can surely get your blood pumping and make you determined to not sit around on ya ass.

Firstly, you'll need to look up some sick porno's: sex with animals.

When you've seen a few hot girls getting nailed by some small-di<ked pet dog and having it blast it's load all over her, you'll wise up. I mean if a labrador can get some HB 8 pvssy, then there's no reason you can't. If an ugly dog is getting more pvssy than you, and it doesn't need any game whatsoever to get it, you have to step up and wade in.

Realize that you're worth more than a dog, a horse, or even a pig. Say to yourself that your not gonna let the next ghetto girl go home and get fvcked by her dog.

This might be weird, but think about it for a minute. Don't picture her going home with another guy, cause he may be better than you right? And that can limit you. Instead picture her going home to her pet dog. Now i don't know about you, but i'll be damned if a stinky hairy mutt is gonna get some action when it aint had to work for it. It doesn't need to beg, or talk or any other stuff. It just humps and unloads. You have so much more that a dog has...........so use it.

You don't want sloppy seconds to a lower mammal do you, so there is no next time. Man up and wade in. :box:
 

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every thread i see of yours always has to do with ghetto girls
 

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Jesus this forum is like trollmania. You guys should be going out instead of TROLLING the topic of a guy who's actually TRYING to do sh*t. How about this, unless you actually have some ADVICE to give, get out. The board needs less KBJ's.

Seriously, get a freaking life you losers. You might improve yourself if you stopped hating on people who DO have lifes and actually tried to get one.

It's sad that the board has degraded itself to this, but whatever.

In the end, just figuring it out myself would be better than taking advice from KBJ trolling losers who have never once talked to the opposite sex.
 

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why are you picky about girls acting 'ghetto'. Why are you being picky at all?

face it man the problem is you not the girls.

And there is no such thing as 'talking to her next time', thats basically saying 'i dont have the balls to do anything right now'. Throw yourself in at the deep end and stop being so scared about it.

Yeah, I might be able to get her, but do I REALLY want to get laid tonight?". It's like being in a situation where getting laid just isn't enough motivation to game her.
When are you going to realize that the reason you arent 'motivated' or u arent getting laid is because your scared. You didnt have the balls to game the girl. Who are you to call other people losers, the others are jsut trying to get through to you because your so wrapped up in your own fear and self pity!

face it, if you arent gona do something about it then your gona be stuck at the very start no matter how many threads you make or girls you see.
 

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ElStud said:
Alright, I know the topic kind of sounds weird, but let me explain. I'm at my friends house where as usual there are ghetto acting girls, but one of them is fine enough that I don't even care about that. And yeah, I'd like to f*ck the girl. But tell me, what motivates you guys to game her THAT NIGHT and not just say "Oh, I'll talk to her the next time we come here".
The fact that your life is ending one minute at a time usually works for me.

See the thing is, is that if I'm not really horny or something, it's hard for me to get motivated to actually talk to a girl. It's kind of like I feel "Yeah, I might be able to get her, but do I REALLY want to get laid tonight?". It's like being in a situation where getting laid just isn't enough motivation to game her.
Then you're a bucket of douche.

Save your protective "You guys are trolls, I'm doing things, You don't talk to girls, but I haven't had sex" routine, its old. You've come to a website, offered opinion, asked for advice. Quit your b1tching.

Advice? Stop making excuses.
 

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Your question is "How do I stop procrastinating talking to a girl". How bout stop being a ***** and just talk to her? Do you really need to ask this question?
 

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ElStud said:
Alright, I know the topic kind of sounds weird, but let me explain. I'm at my friends house where as usual there are ghetto acting girls, but one of them is fine enough that I don't even care about that. And yeah, I'd like to f*ck the girl. But tell me, what motivates you guys to game her THAT NIGHT and not just say "Oh, I'll talk to her the next time we come here".

See the thing is, is that if I'm not really horny or something, it's hard for me to get motivated to actually talk to a girl. It's kind of like I feel "Yeah, I might be able to get her, but do I REALLY want to get laid tonight?". It's like being in a situation where getting laid just isn't enough motivation to game her.

ElStud-

Alright, here is some motivation.

Realize that when you're not horny you have a very clear, stable mindset. Use this to your advantage in bed. Take your time, focus on different areas, take more, take more time yet. Let your lack of horniness turn you into a great lover.

You won't be rushed, anxious or too eager. You'll be relaxed and take your time, which the ladies appreciate.

What this means is you're likely to perform better than ever. Give her that expereince. :up:
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It sounds like you're just afraid to be rejected Elstud. I know that's not what you said and that it's probably not even what you're thinking, but I bet that's what it is at the core. What other explanation is there? You're a guy, your instincts scream at you to find attractive females and have sex with them.

Somehow the idea of a guy who's just too lazy to have sex with an attractive woman doesn't make any sense.
 

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ElStud said:
Jesus this forum is like trollmania. You guys should be going out instead of TROLLING the topic of a guy who's actually TRYING to do sh*t. How about this, unless you actually have some ADVICE to give, get out. The board needs less KBJ's.
Dear Idiot,

I have tried on numerous ocassions to educate you. You did not listen. You called me a hater. We were all jealous of your your 'success'. You continued to run your 'game' with pride meanwhile completely oblivious to the fact that its not working.

I guess you finally realized that you know nothing. Now you come here asking for advice. People give you the same advice, but you still do not listen.

Until you pay attention and open up that mind, no one can help you.

Now go on your merry way, idiot. Go with your pride. You're not here for advice. You're here to vent. Do it elsewhere.

Yours truly,
Alle_Gory

It's sad that the board has degraded itself to this, but whatever.
Ironic how its actually your presence here which degrades the board.
 

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Rhoto said:
The fact that your life is ending one minute at a time usually works for me.



Then you're a bucket of douche.

Save your protective "You guys are trolls, I'm doing things, You don't talk to girls, but I haven't had sex" routine, its old. You've come to a website, offered opinion, asked for advice. Quit your b1tching.

Advice? Stop making excuses.
You're an ass.

And by definition you are trolls. Who else talks about their nasty beastial fantasies in a topic but trolls? YOU need to face that some of these guys are pure trolls.

People who aren't trolls post stuff that has to do with the topic. So get out with calling it a protective routine. It's true. And I'm a bucket of a douche? Wow, you're an ass, did your girlfriend break up with you or something? Just don't know why you feel the need to flame someone you hardly know.

And yes my life is ending every minute because yes, you know everything about me. You should stop stalking me son or atleast stalk women.

Dear Idiot
Hmm, you guys have taken your being an ass pills today. Seriously, what makes you so damned mad that you flame someone ONLINE. You've got much more problems to take care of before you can "educate" someone on girls and life.

Don Juan does not equal prick who flames and makes assumptions about people on forums. That's more of a jerkish bully.

I don't care HOW many freaking girls you have. You have problems. People who are normal don't come on boards flaming, bullying and trolling for no reason. You should work on yourself before giving advice, that's all I'm saying.
 

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When you're in a place where you find it hard to get motivated, anger can usually do the trick. That was an extreme example to motivate that i gave, it's purpose is to anger you into action. I'm sure that some people understand where i was coming from, and what i was trying to do. What i was doing was trying to help, with a bit of humour added.

Don't take offense to things spoken on here.
 

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Why aren´t you motivated enough? Here is my answer:

"Sour grapes!" exclaimed the fox loudly. I'll come back when they're ripe."

Source: The fox and the grapes

Or I could say because you know that you can´t bone them. You are fvckin´afraid of women.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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