lol you guys are so helpfull.
A good method of controlling your thought process is to actually write down on a piece of numbered paper your goals... for example mine would prolly look something like.
1. Financial independance
2. Attain good credit
3. Attend acredited university
4. start my own company
5. make my first million
6. go sky diving
7 fly a plane
you get the idea then once you have it down (notice I didnt put women on the list because they dont really matter)
just try to take a snap shot of it with your mind once you get a good picture of the list in your head repeat it a couple of times and every morning remember to picture your list and how you are going to attain these things in your head.
This is a good way to create positive decision strategies.
Hope it helps.