Or is it possible that some people may not have as strong a desire. I mean when you're young,and horny,and you just wanna do it all the time. Like the want is there,but perhaps the drive isn't. Know what I mean? That feeling of just wanting to fvck everything. I am also concerned if this is a problem for me,it could be caused by some sort of shyness or lack of confidence. I reas tucker max's board,says first thing you need is confidence. I don't know of any special skills or talents I have. I mean,something that really makes you stand out. I have not been developing any over time.