What are you interested to find out about people?

[ChalengeGuyFan]

First of all, about the girls you're interested in, and then about the other people.

Personally, I don't have any real desire to find out anything about them, except for keeping a conversation going.

 

[AAAgent]

i've gotten to the point in dating where i know exactly what i want but sometimes it's really frustrating when every girl you date doesn't fit what you want.

but mainly what i look for in girls is originality. Basically they have to be different from the majority of the population.

They have to have dignity and composure.

They have to be genuine and real/honest.

They have to be hardworking.

Most of the good girls are these things.

Oh and i like to see how these girls supplement their weakness's.

 

[Bobby Rio]

If you're not having fun in your conversations its because your boring.

Turn the conversation into anything you want it to become. Push the limits and entertain yourself.

 

[tebow1120]

You guys noticed when you 1st start talking to girls they always tell you how many guys want them.Why do they do that.

 

[Bobby Rio]

haha the same reason we tell DHV stories....

 

[dude04]

why don't people converse with me?

...its because your boring.

thank you rio

 

[S. Pryor]

In girls I just wanna know about her. It's like what Chris Rock said "you're not meeting them, you're meeting their representative" in the beginning. I wanna get past the representative and meet her. First of all, I wanna know about her dating past. Is there a pattern with the kind of men she dates? What kind of things she's good at. How does she feel about certain things. That kinda stuff. As for anyone else I'd just have to hang out with them to see. See if we like the same **** or how we can help each other out. Play it by ear I suppose.

 

[Voice]

If you're not having fun in your conversations its because your boring.

Turn the conversation into anything you want it to become. Push the limits and entertain yourself.

I agree with the second part, but I don't think conversations become not fun because YOU are boring. I think the girl is just as responsible. She has to contribute to the conversation. When talking to the girl, your goal is always to find out if she is good enough for YOU. If she's not saying anything interesting, then there's no reason for you to be attracted to her, so who cares if the conversation is boring? Obviously she's not good enough for you anyway. If you follow sosuave then you know asking about her and listening to her talk is the best way to talk to chicks. So if she's doing most of the talking, how is it your fault that the conversation is boring?

Always have the state of mind that you are testing her. You're trying to find out if she is good enough for you. You're the prize. That's why asking questions about her and letting her talk is so effective. YOU'RE the one who's the judge.

Ex 1)
Dude: So do you play any kind of sports?
Girl: No, I hate sports.
Dude: Wow, really? that's too bad because I play for the New York Yankees.

Ex 2)
Dude: So do you play any kind of sports?
Girl: Yeah! I love soccer. I played it in high school, (blah blah blah...)
Dude: Really? That's cool, I played baseball in high school. I miss those days don't you?
Girl: Yeah (blah blah blah...)

In the first example the girl didn't contribute anything interesting so I disqualified her. In the second example the girl said something I could relate to so I qualified her and continued the conversation and asked more about her.

 

[rusejery]

Hi to all.
New here. It is good to be here.
My hobbies are singing, playing latest PC games and collecting latest audio songs.

I am interested in people's thoughts regarding their own self as I do not think much what the other people are thinking about me, as I am self motivated person.

I like the discussions taking place here.

Thanks to all.