What are 'Sparks' for a woman?

[Don Serbe]

Many of the time we hear women say that with such and such a guy they fill sparks are flying while with others nothing.

What i do not thoroughly understand is what are sparks and what does it feel like for a woman and can a man relate.

Are sparks woman speak for falling in love with someone?

Are sparks a feeling of excitement for a woman?

Are sparks merely a sensation that says 'ok i am not in love yet but this guy has something?'

Are sparks a rise in a womans adrenalin?

If anyone has a good definition and explanation it would be good.

 

[squirrels]

"Sparks" means she wants to have sex with you.

Only she can't say that, cuz that would make her seem like a slut, so she justifies it by saying there's some kind of magical electricity between you.

 

[DankNuggs]

You know that feeling you get when your around a gorgeous girl and you feel electric? Its that, and its because you want to rail them....Same for girls, Squirrels is on...They just can't admit their sexuality...

 

[xblitz44x]

Nope. You guys are off again. The desire to have sex is the RESULT of the spark. Same with you guys. If you could peel your ego's out of the equation for just a few minutes and not be so concerned with "fvcking them" right away you'll see that there actually IS a connection there. And sex is just something that comes along with that.

 

[squirrels]

But you can have "sparks" with someone at very first sight, before you know a damned thing about them besides how they look.

 

[DankNuggs]

I agree with squirrels again...You can have a connection with a person with whom you have great chemistry in conversing, yet without the sexual component your just a 'good friend.'

'Sparks' are a sexual reference pure and simple. You can have sparks at first sight, or after conversing and making a connection on an intellectual/emotional level. However, without the sexual aspect, there are no sparks.

"The desire to have sex is the result of the spark." ---This is just BS semantics, it isn't a cause and effect scenario...

Thats like saying, "the result of me seeing a real hot girl results in me wanting to have sex with her." Its a primal emotion that is not distinguishable by cause and effect.

Maybe I'll agree that is doesn't necessarily mean she wants to copulate instantaneously, but it means your in the zone as long as you don't screw up the antislut defenses and pass her tests.

 

[xblitz44x]

Yep. I agree with you. Yet you still make a list of perceptions without even realizing it. "I bet she fvcks good, I bet she smells nice, I bet she's got her shyt together, I bet she is wild, I'll bet she is...." You probably dont' even realize it because we get so consumed with how hot she is. The connection and spark is behind the scenes and build soley from perception in the beginning. The desire to have sex is derived from that connection.

It's why the "spark" in a relationship dies off after 3 months usually...the perceptions that once fueled it have dissolved and you are now seeing the person for who they are.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Sparks=Intense Attraction.

Do agree that she is interested sexually, but it does precede her feeling that "she absolutely must have you NOW!" It would be more like "I would sleep with him, if he keeps making me feel this way" which is the step before sex.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
Sparks=Intense Attraction.

Do agree that she is interested sexually, but it does precede her feeling that "she absolutely must have you NOW!" It would be more like "I would sleep with him, if he keeps making me feel this way" which is the step before sex.

Feel WHAT way, though?

Wet in the panties.