What are some good ways to get out the house more?

[RazorRambo24]

My situation is an odd one.. And unlike any of my friends.. Im self employed and have alot of free time on my hands..

My week goes as follows: Monday: creates ocial media posts for business, look at some analytics, make some small updates to inventory if needed, cardio excercise, maybe go out to eat, workout, hang with bro , maybe go play basketball, lift weights, watch youtube videos, sleep

Tuesday: similar but hang out with one of my plates , order food, have sex, talk or chill , have more sex , say goodbye, -- spend time on computer, (still doin cardio/weights, usually rest days between heavy workout days, where ido smaller/ancillary workouts but cardio stays consistent)

Wednesday: similar to Mondays-- but no one to really hang with so i spend alot of time just on the net or making phone calls to old friends while doin sht around the house, still workout, etc but spend alot of time wasting time

Thursday: see another plate (my fav plate) , hangout, sometimes let her stay the night, but mostly just hangout , have sex , talk, usual sht-- once in a while might go out to a mall or bring her with to run errands or do groceries.. sometimes we do kizomba, some formal dance we've been learning together.. play chess, etc (yea i know it sounds corny but ay shes a baddie and she put me on to some sht i never did b4 so its cool)

Friday: I see my other plate (yes abundance is such a pain in thne ass .. not, lol) We hangout, workout together, watch some cookin bullsht, like to cook together since its a hobby we both enjoy.. I also take her grocery shopping sometimes cuz she knows exactly what i want.. sometimes shell go without me and do my groceries for me... def bae material too but my 2nd fav plate

Saturdays: usually hang wit the boys on Saturdays .. Not always but maybe twice a month.. My main friend is out of town quite often for work.. We usually watch whatever fight is on, ufc, boxing, or just hang out and invite some ppl over and have a good time or hit the clubs

Sunday: spend time with mom.. the true queen of my heart.. eat good homecooked meal , etc

As you can see, if im not hanging out -- I'm usually just working out and spending time on the computer.. Theres not much else that goes on in my life

I'm sure some of you can understand why having a lifestyle like this is very condusive to becoming a sex addict.. and why i felt sex addicted at one point.. Sometimes you just feel like staying home and having sex all day long.. and its f-ing nuts .. it makes u feel crazy .. yes its gratifying af, but thats the problem.. Its like what Alistair Crowley ended up doing the remaining 20 years of his life, jus being at home with his harem and f-ing all the time.

When I was in college, it kept me busy.. When I had a job, it kept me busy.. but now its just like what to do?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Man sounds like you need a break from the city, not just the pad. Get out in nature, take a road trip/camping trip and try to do it without the laptop, take a break from work if you can.

Too much wifi exposure could be a factor, but you need the earth's energy as well as wifi avoidance. If you can't do this, at least try to walk barefoot on grass for a couple of minutes a day.

Basically, you may be vibrationally imbalanced. And a lack of scenery change with too much downtime.

If you're in a colder climate this may be the accumulation of seasonal affective disorder. Check your vitamin D levels if so.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

It could be worse, you could be this guy

 

[RazorRambo24]

Man sounds like you need a break from the city, not just the pad. Get out in nature, take a road trip/camping trip and try to do it without the laptop, take a break from work if you can.

Too much wifi exposure could be a factor, but you need the earth's energy as well as wifi avoidance. If you can't do this, at least try to walk barefoot on grass for a couple of minutes a day.

Basically, you may be vibrationally imbalanced. And a lack of scenery change with too much downtime.

If you're in a colder climate this may be the accumulation of seasonal affective disorder. Check your vitamin D levels if so.

100% Nature is always a good equalizer for me. The winter just kinda hinders us from enjoying nature out here in Chicago.. Weathers getting nice again though.. Def gonna go soak up some nature energy. I honestly should travel more often, but I never been too big on traveling alone.. maybe its something I need to get into..

 

[ManFromTartarus]

My situation is an odd one.. And unlike any of my friends.. Im self employed and have alot of free time on my hands..

creates ocial media posts for business, look at some analytics, make some small updates to inventory if needed,

When I had a job, it kept me busy.. but now its just like what to do?

Just some food for thought cause the rest sounds like a pretty full and vibrant mackish lifestyle.

I don't know what your self employed business is but it doesn't sound like you have it as your core passion in life and more like a means of income that doesn't take a lot of energy, time or effort. If you have a lot of free time after doing whatever it takes to maintain it, maybe use that time to enhance it or find a true passion to invest yourself in. Think of Richard Branson who took his success with a record label and parlayed his skills, $$$, and time to several other successful endeavors (Virgin Atlantic, Galactic). The entrepreneur mentality and the philosophy of "what do you what to be known for?" might be something to adopt into your thought process.

I've had a tough time in life and love over the past decade and actually envy the success you have right now, but throughout these times I've maintained my music and songwriting, which has at least has given me a soul, a purpose, and sense of value, even if I don't have any hit songs.

Is your business who you are? Is there some other calling that will give you that passion? What do you want the world to know you are excellent at? ... and the question we've asked ourselves since childhood, What do you want to be when you grow up?

Passion and purpose is what I see as something to consider in your question to yourself.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Just some food for thought cause the rest sounds like a pretty full and vibrant mackish lifestyle.

I don't know what your self employed business is but it doesn't sound like you have it as your core passion in life and more like a means of income that doesn't take a lot of energy, time or effort. If you have a lot of free time after doing whatever it takes to maintain it, maybe use that time to enhance it or find a true passion to invest yourself in. Think of Richard Branson who took his success with a record label and parlayed his skills, $$$, and time to several other successful endeavors (Virgin Atlantic, Galactic). The entrepreneur mentality and the philosophy of "what do you what to be known for?" might be something to adopt into your thought process.

I've had a tough time in life and love over the past decade and actually envy the success you have right now, but throughout these times I've maintained my music and songwriting, which has at least has given me a soul, a purpose, and sense of value, even if I don't have any hit songs.

Is your business who you are? Is there some other calling that will give you that passion? What do you want the world to know you are excellent at? ... and the question we've asked ourselves since childhood, What do you want to be when you grow up?

Passion and purpose is what I see as something to consider in your question to yourself.

Hey I really appreciate this comment. It's super thought provoking. Yep 100% what I do is not my passion. My first business is a graphic design business. I lost passion for graphic design a while back but I keep it running for the money and employ designers in the Philippines to do the design work. Sometimes I jump in and take over some projects if I need to. But besides that, my Ecom business is def not a thing of passion-- I just do it based on money/whats in demand. The times that it does get a bit more involved and fun is like recently we created our new ad campaign and it was fun and alot more work.. But other than that it's not something that speaks to my life purpose or desires or anything.

Over the years I've become very complacent and comfortable. I relish on alot of simple creature comforts like food, sex, good music, going out to eat, having a coffee, watching videos/tv, hanging out , having conversations.. I mean it's not a bad life at all but I think that I might just be searching for something new because alot of this is all too familiar now.. its just like alot of the same stuff overa nd over, monotonous..

If i can go back in time I would have wanted to get into football and play sports growing up.. I know that much. But I was never too big into it, I got into sports late. Not even as a career path but just because I enjoy sports quite a bit.

As a kid growing up, I'm not too sure if I remember what I wanted to be.. I thought about stuff like being a boxer, a rapper, etc.. I also always enjoyed cooking and thought maybe I'll open a restaurant one day, or own a nightclub. But as time goes on, I felt like one of my goals would be to be a life coach/mentor to men all around the world and teach them /motivate them to live a healthy, happy life and push through any adversity and learn to be persistent and confident, talk about dating, etc.. But I know I'm far from perfect myself.. I still have demons from the past I still battle..

I've been thinking about moving to a new city and I think that might be a catalyst to kinda start over and start focusing more on cultivating a more fulfilling life. I definitely do want to become a content creator eventually and really focus on catering to the men out there who need guidance. Definitely not in an Andrew Tate type of way as I was never really a fan of him... despite resonating with some of what he said.. But, just being like a bigger brother/ friend to people that they can admire and be like wow this stuff really motivates me and helps me want to succeed or overcome my insecurities/ go out there and make sht happen. I've noticed that naturally throughout life, I'd meet people and I'd have a pretty big impact on them and just by them hanging with me and stuff, they'd develop more as a person, for some, I've been told that I helped them overcome their social anxiety.. For others, I helped them really find themselves and develop more of a personality.

But theres always a part of me that says "i just want to be rich and jus experience new things everyday, like travel the globe, go to all these nice restaurnts and clubs throughout the world, meet alot of beautiful women, make friends globally".. rather than really do a specific "thing".