What are Good sites and books that teach you how to be a PUA..

Ken785

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ok this sitte teaches you how to be a DJ right? but my conclusion is a DJ has some of the characteristics of a PUA and use some of the same strategys...but the DJ lifestyle is somewhat different. the DJ is a more mature man and the PUA..well...just wants the bed as many women as possible usuing these tactics....

for example this site teaches you some stuff but where can i learn to be a full flegged PUA (PICK UP ARTIST) Neil Strasses but only tells stories but not going into detail. and im not paying no $2000 for a workshop.

i want to learn these like opener examples, attract,DHV...etc.

General frame:

•Eye-contact (MAVEC)
•Alpha-BL
•****y&Funny
•Being the Prize
•She wants me
•Dominant tonality
•Playful and in a fun state!
•Confident KINO
•Be a gentleman


Openers:

•Who lies more?
•Jealous girlfriend
•Wanna fight?
•Two-part-kiss opener
•Wheelchair opener
•Would you sleep with Jesus?
•Tattoo opener
•Email-privacy
•G-string opener

Attract:

•C vs. U-shaped smiles
•Give her points (Don’t tell her what they are for!)
•Push/pull
•Nickname(s)
•Tease her and make fun of her
•Paraphrase stuff she says into a sexual context
•MAVEC
•Qualify her

DHV:

•Give bull**** answers
•Don’t accept bad behavior
•Backturns, active disinterest, react to her signals
•Storytelling
•Social proof

Rapport:

•The cube
•Three smiles
•Three things I like about you
•Cold reads
•Avoid feminine rapport. Don’t be a gf
•Trust test

Fun,Games and Tests:

•The lying game
•Fvck-marry-kill
•Masturbating in the shower
•ESP-test
•4 different orgasms

Escalation:

•Strawberry fields
•Are you adventurous and spontanious?
•Craziest thing you’ve done?
•“I have never...” (game, but use to escalate into sextalk)
•Smell her, touch her face and hair


Closing:

•Mystery’s kiss-close
•Kissing-school
•Evolution phase-shift
 

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Someone read up on fastseduction.com

To answer your Q, it really depends on your style. Swinggcat has the most similar method to my natural game, but that was just due to my personality. But maybe Juggler or Stylelife or Mystery Method or Speed Seduction might work better for you.
 

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isn't that kinda like going to a bar and asking where you can get a good drink?
 

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Yea, op. Have this idea. PUA is not a technique or two, it is a state of mind. It is presented to in such a way so that AFCs understand it to be something you could do to get women.

It is not.

It's not about techniques or anything like that. It's is you.

Google gunwitch, and read it. Read about bruce lee's theory he talks. That's what you aim for. Nothing in particular, but everything all at once.

You will go ahead and transform yourself to a DJ, once you're there you'll know. Techniques and such will be with you, but they will be a natural part of you, such that you're not playing, you're just being yourself. Chicks know what's up, try to go to one and play with what you already know, you won't get sh1t. Because it's all in your head, and you can change that easily and become what you want.

In gunwitch guide you have to be absolutely hot to get women. It is at that point that I stop reading it some months ago and start getting hot. Now I'm hot. So it's a very good motivator to get in shape. I was DJ before that, but now, it's so much better.

I recommend David DeAngelo things, books and videos. He also recommends books, read those. Basically, it's just a good read. You won't understand it. Understand of all of this things comes from practice. In your head things are one way, and to understand you must change them. Once you see that something is true or this way and not the other way, then you learn. You do this through practice.


When you sarge a girl you're being yourself. That's what the b1tches want. Just be yourself. Thing is, you gotta change to yourself that's absolutely hot to a b1tch. So, it's theory, practice, and time. You'll transform, and it's not about b1tches like you think. It's about you.

To tell you the truth, I don't even want to live with a b1tch. I rather live with a guy, an AFC who can cook well. That's my thing. :cool:
 

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Ken run a google search on the bristol lair, it has basically every thing you're talking about within its archives. Very easy to navigate aswell.

However you're better off ignoring those completely and taking the advice you'll get here.

three12
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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