What about her feelings?

[J.kelly]

Hey DJ's need advice...

This girl I've been talking to has feelings for me, and I take full advantage of it. She pulls out the LMR all the time when we do stuff. How do I keep her as a f-buddy? if she already has feelings for me..

 

[zerocelcius]

Some People will not allow you to keep them at bay. If she is laying down the line than there is only two options. 1. Decide to move further with her, or 2. Cut her loose.

It is unfair to toy with her sincere emotions. In the game you have to play a lot of cat and mouse, but at some point it is unfair and uncouth. You really have to know if she is drawing the line or just playing. You are the only one that can really answer your question.

The choice is yours!

 

[Last Man Standing]

Hey DJ's need advice...

This girl I've been talking to has feelings for me, .................... How do I keep her as a f-buddy?

This is impossible -- if she has feelings for you then she will not be your free prostitute!!

 

[KontrollerX]

Well I'll give you a list of options...

Option 1- Scumbag choice

Just pretend to be her boyfriend and take what you want from her until you find a suitable girlfriend to replace her.

Option 2- Honorable man choice

Explain to her you are not looking for a serious relationship right now just a bit of fun and want to keep seeing her because you enjoy her company. If she agrees but cuts off the sex or its frequency you then make your exit.

Option 3- DJ choice

Do whatever it is you can live with to achieve your desired outcome.

 

[J-Bone]

Well I'll give you a list of options...

Option 1- Scumbag choice

Just pretend to be her boyfriend and take what you want from her until you find a suitable girlfriend to replace her.

Option 2- Honorable man choice

Explain to her you are not looking for a serious relationship right now just a bit of fun and want to keep seeing her because you enjoy her company. If she agrees but cuts off the sex or its frequency you then make your exit.

Option 3- DJ choice

Do whatever it is you can live with to achieve your desired outcome.

Agreed

 

[Adrian]

Once feelings are involved you can kiss the entire f-buddy thing goodbye.

 

[ValleyDJing]

Well I'll give you a list of options...

Option 1- Scumbag choice

Just pretend to be her boyfriend and take what you want from her until you find a suitable girlfriend to replace her.

Option 2- Honorable man choice

Explain to her you are not looking for a serious relationship right now just a bit of fun and want to keep seeing her because you enjoy her company. If she agrees but cuts off the sex or its frequency you then make your exit.

Option 3- DJ choice

Do whatever it is you can live with to achieve your desired outcome.

I'll take option number 1