I told her I didn't want a relation ship or anything else to do with her and now she say's she wont let me see the child or have any part of it, do you guys know if she can do this. It is a very strong probability that it is mine since she conceived in march and this is when I was laid off and we were together all the time & her ex is fixed....
I know she is a nutcase cause of all the crap she is doing but I do want to do what is right for the baby and that is be it's father but know she wants to make it hard for me and told me I'll never see it.... I will have a paternity test done when it is born....
I re-posted my earlier post for the ones who haven't read it..
Thanks to everyone for the help
I have been going out with a girl on and off for about 11 months now and it has been a rollercoaster ride for sure, she is still married but seperated, I broke it off with her 2 months ago and stayed away from her with no contact but she came up to me a month ago and told me she was pregnant with my child, (her ex is fixed)and she wanted me to be around for her and the baby, then two days later she say's she's not pregnant and quits her job and go's to her dads in Kentucky and stays for 2 weeks she came back and searced me out and then calls me and asked me to come over to her house and tells me she was confused about the whole thing and thats why she lied to me, she practically begged me to forgive her and be with her and my child and to be there for the pregnancy so I took about a week of talking to her and doing some major thinking about it befor I gave in and gave my heart back to her so we have been together for 3 weeks and everything was great and we got along perfect and Sat. she spent the night and we watched movies and I cooked her a meal and snuggled on the couch it was great but Sun. after I took her home I came back over later in the day and she acted totally differnt towards me, Like there was no love or emotions at all, then on tuesday she tells me she dosen't want a relationship with me....I'm so confused she has done this in the past also but it seems if I'm away from her for a week or two she wanting me back so bad... I can't understand how she can tell me she loves me and I can't even be away from her for a day or she goes nuts without me and the next minuet she turns it off and acts like I'm not even there and acts like she dosent give a crap about me or my feelings.... I treat her like gold doing everything for her.... I know the baby is mine, I went with her to the ultrasound so I know for sure she is pregnant, she was seperated before we started dating and has 2 kids by her ex... I'm 35 and she is 28...Thanks
I know she is a nutcase cause of all the crap she is doing but I do want to do what is right for the baby and that is be it's father but know she wants to make it hard for me and told me I'll never see it.... I will have a paternity test done when it is born....
I re-posted my earlier post for the ones who haven't read it..
Thanks to everyone for the help
I have been going out with a girl on and off for about 11 months now and it has been a rollercoaster ride for sure, she is still married but seperated, I broke it off with her 2 months ago and stayed away from her with no contact but she came up to me a month ago and told me she was pregnant with my child, (her ex is fixed)and she wanted me to be around for her and the baby, then two days later she say's she's not pregnant and quits her job and go's to her dads in Kentucky and stays for 2 weeks she came back and searced me out and then calls me and asked me to come over to her house and tells me she was confused about the whole thing and thats why she lied to me, she practically begged me to forgive her and be with her and my child and to be there for the pregnancy so I took about a week of talking to her and doing some major thinking about it befor I gave in and gave my heart back to her so we have been together for 3 weeks and everything was great and we got along perfect and Sat. she spent the night and we watched movies and I cooked her a meal and snuggled on the couch it was great but Sun. after I took her home I came back over later in the day and she acted totally differnt towards me, Like there was no love or emotions at all, then on tuesday she tells me she dosen't want a relationship with me....I'm so confused she has done this in the past also but it seems if I'm away from her for a week or two she wanting me back so bad... I can't understand how she can tell me she loves me and I can't even be away from her for a day or she goes nuts without me and the next minuet she turns it off and acts like I'm not even there and acts like she dosent give a crap about me or my feelings.... I treat her like gold doing everything for her.... I know the baby is mine, I went with her to the ultrasound so I know for sure she is pregnant, she was seperated before we started dating and has 2 kids by her ex... I'm 35 and she is 28...Thanks
