First off, I would like to thank everyone on this site. Without this site, I wouldn't have gotten together with my gf, whom I have been dating for 4 months now, at the exceptional circumstance where I met her. Anyways, since then, I have come to reflect on my interaction with various other ladies before and after I met my gf. I am sad to say that, although virtually every other woman in the world would disagree with me, we really have figured out what women want.
Before everyone starts disecting my post line by line, hear me out. After reading quite a few informative posts on this site, it has occured to me that everything on this site is dedicated to the fact that to pick up a lady means impressing a lady on the socializing scale. I have come to realize that it should be expanded to impressing a lady on her terms. "On her terms" probably sounds vague, so let me paint a clearer picture.
Every girl has a picture of the perfect guy, and this perfect guy is the product of all conscious and subconscious desires in a guy. There are two type of these desires, the ones that count and the ones that don't. The ones that count are the ones that matter the most and determine whether or not you actually score, the ones that don't are just things that make very little difference, they're "icing" or "decorations" if you will that doesn't you with their pressence, but at the same time, doesn't increase your value. For example, a few of the ones that count including being witty, very good at socializing, humourous, careful, is socially presentable, brilliant and have a sharp and quick mind. Some of the ones that don't is whether or not you do martial arts, do you smoke, do you drink, can you cook and what your hobbies are.
Of course, many will debate that there are too many of the ones that count and that their combinations vary too much. However, reality is very much against that arguement. With the exception of mentally retarded women and a case similar to Anne Frank being stuck in an attic with just one guy and thus having no other choice, all women socialize. Since the beginning of recorded history, everyone socializes when they are not working or spending time with their favourite hobbies. All women also hate being bored, because they are part of the human race and I doubt that anyone would argue with me that the human race absolutely hates being bored. So other then work, sitting on the toilet or doing whatever else their daily life requires them to do and aside from hobbies, they socialize. Socializing is the only thing that human race does outside of their hobbies and lifestyle requirements, such as sleeping, going to work, taking a crap, etc. Therefore, socializing is the only medium in which we humans communicate with each other. Therefore, it is only reasonable to conclude that any impression that a girl can form on you is based on your ability to socialize.
Now this brings us to the obvious question, what is the best way to socialize that will score you the most points. To answer this question recall that the human race hates being bored. However, before we proceed, we must note that being bored is the end result of everything being predictable. Predictability is the root of all boredom. Therefore, our next step forward would be to be unpredictable while socializing.
However, there are many different ways of being unpredictable while socializing. These can be separated into two parts, being socially pleasing and displeasing. Socially pleasing and displeasing are dependent upon the environment that you are in, so if you are in a Nazi bar, racism towards Jews would probably be considered as socially pleasing while being socially displeasing in a Jews bar(No racist remarks intended). Which will the lady choose? Socially pleasing to the environment that she often hangs out at. Why? Because if you are not socially pleasing to the ones where she hangs out at, then you will be considered an outcast and she might be outcasted along with you.
So now we have a more simplified answered, to pick up a lady, we must be unpredicably, socially pleasing, depending on the environment. Of course, our answer can undergo one further refinement. The question of how unpredictably, socially pleasing one can get. It is obvious that everyone wants the best thing they can get their hands on. The definition of "the best thing" is the thing that measures the highest on a list of criteria. Therefore, what all women want is the most unpredicatable and socially pleasing man that they can find.
Please feel free to rebuttal as warrented.
ChunLi
Before everyone starts disecting my post line by line, hear me out. After reading quite a few informative posts on this site, it has occured to me that everything on this site is dedicated to the fact that to pick up a lady means impressing a lady on the socializing scale. I have come to realize that it should be expanded to impressing a lady on her terms. "On her terms" probably sounds vague, so let me paint a clearer picture.
Every girl has a picture of the perfect guy, and this perfect guy is the product of all conscious and subconscious desires in a guy. There are two type of these desires, the ones that count and the ones that don't. The ones that count are the ones that matter the most and determine whether or not you actually score, the ones that don't are just things that make very little difference, they're "icing" or "decorations" if you will that doesn't you with their pressence, but at the same time, doesn't increase your value. For example, a few of the ones that count including being witty, very good at socializing, humourous, careful, is socially presentable, brilliant and have a sharp and quick mind. Some of the ones that don't is whether or not you do martial arts, do you smoke, do you drink, can you cook and what your hobbies are.
Of course, many will debate that there are too many of the ones that count and that their combinations vary too much. However, reality is very much against that arguement. With the exception of mentally retarded women and a case similar to Anne Frank being stuck in an attic with just one guy and thus having no other choice, all women socialize. Since the beginning of recorded history, everyone socializes when they are not working or spending time with their favourite hobbies. All women also hate being bored, because they are part of the human race and I doubt that anyone would argue with me that the human race absolutely hates being bored. So other then work, sitting on the toilet or doing whatever else their daily life requires them to do and aside from hobbies, they socialize. Socializing is the only thing that human race does outside of their hobbies and lifestyle requirements, such as sleeping, going to work, taking a crap, etc. Therefore, socializing is the only medium in which we humans communicate with each other. Therefore, it is only reasonable to conclude that any impression that a girl can form on you is based on your ability to socialize.
Now this brings us to the obvious question, what is the best way to socialize that will score you the most points. To answer this question recall that the human race hates being bored. However, before we proceed, we must note that being bored is the end result of everything being predictable. Predictability is the root of all boredom. Therefore, our next step forward would be to be unpredictable while socializing.
However, there are many different ways of being unpredictable while socializing. These can be separated into two parts, being socially pleasing and displeasing. Socially pleasing and displeasing are dependent upon the environment that you are in, so if you are in a Nazi bar, racism towards Jews would probably be considered as socially pleasing while being socially displeasing in a Jews bar(No racist remarks intended). Which will the lady choose? Socially pleasing to the environment that she often hangs out at. Why? Because if you are not socially pleasing to the ones where she hangs out at, then you will be considered an outcast and she might be outcasted along with you.
So now we have a more simplified answered, to pick up a lady, we must be unpredicably, socially pleasing, depending on the environment. Of course, our answer can undergo one further refinement. The question of how unpredictably, socially pleasing one can get. It is obvious that everyone wants the best thing they can get their hands on. The definition of "the best thing" is the thing that measures the highest on a list of criteria. Therefore, what all women want is the most unpredicatable and socially pleasing man that they can find.
Please feel free to rebuttal as warrented.
ChunLi
