What a day What a day...(please read...long)

B.Love

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Today had to be the worst day of my life...This girl I had been dating for about 2 months seemed like she was the one for me.LTR material hell even marriage material. Well anyways for the past previous days she was telling me about her cousin and her friend hooking up with 2 dudes and she was saying negative things about them and how she would never date any one of those guys.

Today, we where supposed to hookup and she was gonna be with me.So I called twice to let her know that I was on my way but her brother told me she was outside. I allways call before I come but this time I came anyway. When I got there Her cousin and her friend saw me pull up and their eyes got big and walked off and
I saw my(ex)girl outside with some guy.I got kinda suspicious(sp?)l. She usually greets me with a kiss and a hug and would introdce me,but today she greeted me with a" WHAT?"Like she didn't know I was coming. I had talked to her like an hour before I came so she knew I was coming but she just didnt know when.


So I was looking at her motioning for a hug and she gave me this look and she said "What" again. So I got mad and asked her why is she acting like this towards me and I asked who is that shes sitting with. She froze and had this look on her face like oh **** i'm busted. Then she said I would probably get mad if she told me. So the dude sitting down askes me who I am I told him I her boyfriend and he was like ohh and he seemed cool about it. I was riding with two of my friends and my (girl) cousin.



Her and my cousin are best friends. Anyways my friends hop out the car and was about to fight the guy but I told them it's cool then the guys friend jumps out of the car and was like "whats going on? we dont want any trouble and he told us what was going on. It turns out that her cousin was never talking to the other guy It was her the whole time. I'm like cool man I don't have time to be with somebody thats gonna play games with me and I was ready to leave.


Everybody wasn't ready to leave yet so I stayed in the car. My cousin and my ex went walking and talking about what happend. My cousin got back and starting talking to me defending her,then I got to thinking maybe I overreacted. Then I asked my cousin now I bet if I ask this guy did he ask her did she had a boyfriend he would tell me she said no. As I got up to ask the guy her cousin and her friend tried to stop me from asking him and he told me "it wasnt even like that, they where all over there talking and joking" and her cousin out of the blue says "you know you asked her that question and I said yes she did and she said no she didn't.

I look at dude and hes like "well I didnt say anything about it but somebody was talking about it". I'm like cool so she was gonna try to cheat on me then. I don't know why her own cousin ratted on her but I'm glad I know what I know.I admit I'm hurt but I gotta move on. There are plently of more women out there for me. I was so good to her...And women wonder why they cant find mr right...

NEXT...
 

B.Love

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please post your thoughts....

Please post your thoughts or what you would have done in a situation like this.
 

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Yup...NEXTing time. You've at least got the right attitude...don't waste your time with her when she, for whatever reason, isn't interested in the vast wealth of experience you have to offer her.

Marriage after 2 months, though? And calling repeatedly to tell her you're coming over? Sounds like you might've needed a NEXT there. But once again, the situation is probably far more detailed. How old are you, by the way?
 

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You did the right thing mate forget her and move. If she calls tell her your busy if you see her around say hello if she says hello, but dont chat to her much and get hold of some next girl. Infact to wind her up pull her friend instead use your DJ suduction skills.
 

htemorp

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Wrong forum, high school drama is the other forum.
 

B.Love

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=/

I'm not saying I was ready for marriage but i'm saying she coulda been the one I woulda married years down the line. We had so much in common.We have been out to eat and she'd pay sometimes she bought me things made me feel good. She would go out of the way and do things for me. The first girl that I could honestly say I had strong feelings for.BTW I'm 19 and she's 18.
 

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Why don't you just wear a big sign that says "I AM AFC"
 

B.Love

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heh

Becuase your store was closed. Dude i've probably made some mistakes but who are you to judge me? This girl has been calling me all day crying and beggin for me back.
 

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Re: heh

Originally posted by B.Love
Becuase your store was closed. Dude i've probably made some mistakes but who are you to judge me? This girl has been calling me all day crying and beggin for me back.
And you're not gonna take her back are ya? Like you said, "there's plenty more other chicks out there for you" and you don't need to spend time on one who's playin' stupid games. And if you don't take her back she might just learn something too (I doubt it, but ya never know)
 

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Of course not...

Of course not. I made my mind up and thats the way it's gonna stay.
 

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a little advice, in the future DO NOT Call girls ahead of time, no 'I'll be there in ten minutes after i park the car" no "Are we still on for tonight", Get past all that BS. You said you usually call TWICE to let her know you are on your way. Once is too much. From my point of view and what you wrote, you set yourself up for this Drama.
 

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I think you did admirably well in the situation. A lesser man would've have gotten into a fight, and I'm glad to see that you're not taking her back.

It sucks to have trust betrayed like that, but it just makes you that more experienced for the next relationship, so you might have a better chance of protecting yourself.
 
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