DiegoSantori
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What's up,
I'm (24 yo) attending an institution of higher education/academy which is divided in classes and I'm starting to like one of my female classmates (21 yo). The first time she talked to me, she was getting real close to me and gave me a look as if I was Enrique Iglesias.
We both started to spend time together when we were both single but I wasn't that attracted to her at that time, plus, I wanted to avoid that classroom drama/gossip thing, so I decided to just treat her as a friend. She's like a female version of me, same interests, same character traits, always happy and vivacious, that's why I enjoyed spending time with her.
The more time we spent together, the more attractive she became in my eyes. I once asked her if she thinks I'm good looking (I know, I know, a real man should avoid approval-seeking questions...), and she immediately replied 'yes' but at the same time she didn't hide the fact that she was chatting with other boys.
In the classroom, I did a lot of KINO, just naturally, not on purpose, and there was this tension between us that everybody around us could sense. When I mentioned my new girlfriend, she was very interested in details, but she didn't seem jealous.
I then more or less ignored her for a while because I was focused on my gf and she had a new boyfriend so the tension was cooling down.
Now the tension is back, and it seems to be even stronger than before. I tease and neg her all the time, she teases back, I KINO more than ever before. She playfully punches me on the shoulder and says that I am sexy. We go to the gym together, she almost always has time for me but she isn't jealous nor does she hide details about when she meets her boyfriend.
She once said that she only goes for black guys (and I'm the Mediterranean Italian type), her boyfriend is black too. But she also has pics on her phone of non-black dudes that she finds attractive. And she obviously is physically attracted to me too.
I know it's a long text but it's the first time in a long while that I'm attracted to a woman because of her personality. My gf has a nice personality too, but damn, that other woman's charisma is simply amazing.
Does she only use me for attention? What would you do?
I'm (24 yo) attending an institution of higher education/academy which is divided in classes and I'm starting to like one of my female classmates (21 yo). The first time she talked to me, she was getting real close to me and gave me a look as if I was Enrique Iglesias.
We both started to spend time together when we were both single but I wasn't that attracted to her at that time, plus, I wanted to avoid that classroom drama/gossip thing, so I decided to just treat her as a friend. She's like a female version of me, same interests, same character traits, always happy and vivacious, that's why I enjoyed spending time with her.
The more time we spent together, the more attractive she became in my eyes. I once asked her if she thinks I'm good looking (I know, I know, a real man should avoid approval-seeking questions...), and she immediately replied 'yes' but at the same time she didn't hide the fact that she was chatting with other boys.
In the classroom, I did a lot of KINO, just naturally, not on purpose, and there was this tension between us that everybody around us could sense. When I mentioned my new girlfriend, she was very interested in details, but she didn't seem jealous.
I then more or less ignored her for a while because I was focused on my gf and she had a new boyfriend so the tension was cooling down.
Now the tension is back, and it seems to be even stronger than before. I tease and neg her all the time, she teases back, I KINO more than ever before. She playfully punches me on the shoulder and says that I am sexy. We go to the gym together, she almost always has time for me but she isn't jealous nor does she hide details about when she meets her boyfriend.
She once said that she only goes for black guys (and I'm the Mediterranean Italian type), her boyfriend is black too. But she also has pics on her phone of non-black dudes that she finds attractive. And she obviously is physically attracted to me too.
I know it's a long text but it's the first time in a long while that I'm attracted to a woman because of her personality. My gf has a nice personality too, but damn, that other woman's charisma is simply amazing.
Does she only use me for attention? What would you do?
