Went to club with a girl and she disappeared without notice

[Who Dares Win]

Not a rant, actually I felt it coming after few minutes I met her in our club date.

Before someone ask while I would take my date to a club, the reason is that she is not my date but a simple fvck buddy and I decided to meet at the club for the reason that in case of a flake that was the place where I would have go anyway.

So basically we somehow agreed that we drink togheter, she can dance with other guys since she likes attention and I dont like to dance, then at some point later in the night we leave and go to my place, happened like this already twice and raw dogged her both times in my place.

Of course I started to gauge her interest while we were drinking and noticed mixed signal, plenty of eye contact (about 90% of the talking), light kino but resistance from her when I tried to kiss her or grab her ass for longer than few seconds, we had some dirty talking (which I know see as a bad sign basing it on my experience) untill it came that line which is basically a deal breaker "we are not gonna have sex tonight".

At that point I realized it was almost sure a red light, didnt bother so much since I didnt pay a single drink (drunk part of hers) nor invested any mental energy in her, I proceed according to our original plan and taken care of my own business while she went to dance.

After a couple of hours since we split up, I started looking for her and sent her a sms to know where she was, no reply and didnt bother to find her anymore.

I left the club with some flirting with girls I dont care about and a couple of numbers which are probably not leading anywhere, tomorrow I'll go in a restaurant where a hot flirty girl work, probably will open a thread about it tomorrow for suggestions.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I am out of the game right now, man this looks so damn complicated, I am too old for this hahaha.

We begun with phone numbers having a meaning, then we arrived a point where a phone number meant sh1t, we begun to a point where banging a girl meant something and now we reached a point where even sticking your c0ck inside her is not a sure sign of interest anymore.

In few years we will have kids with women and still keep it casual.

 

[mangotot]

Last time I went to a club a guy is there with an attractive girl
They get into conversation with a couple of guys. Before you know it, one of the guys is kissing and getting off with her while the "date" is standing there chatting to the other guy. A well truly beta of massive proportions. He was a young guy hopefully he improved with age.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Last time I went to a club a guy is there with an attractive girl
They get into conversation with a couple of guys. Before you know it, one of the guys is kissing and getting off with her while the "date" is standing there chatting to the other guy. A well truly beta of massive proportions. He was a young guy hopefully he improved with age.

It was low interested to begin with, why would a girl start chatting with two other guys if she liked the guy she was with.

Probably he was already friendzoned level 100 even before stepping in the club.

Except for this fvck buddy I never had club dates but picked up girls while in the club, those who liked me were virtually unpenetrable from other people while others which was clear didnt like me just waited me for leaving a couple minutes to start chatting with other guys.

Nowadays the only sure thing we can do is gauge their interest and act accordingly, the less interest felt the less the investment should be.

 

[mangotot]

It was low interested to begin with, why would a girl start chatting with two other guys if she liked the guy she was with.

Probably he was already friendzoned level 100 even before stepping in the club.

Probably but I am sure the guy went there with hopes of getting into her pants.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Probably but I am sure the guy went there with hopes of getting into her pants.

Agree on that

 

[marmel75]

1) you are an idiot for setting up a club date...you basically set this up on a platter for her.

2) She obviously has low to no interest in you.

3) meet other women at the club.

 

[Who Dares Win]

1) you are an idiot for setting up a club date...you basically set this up on a platter for her.

Already banged her many times, I think I know how it works with that particular girl, thats why no investment and invited her to join me in the place where I would have go anyway, I even imagined a potential flake to begin with, as I explained

2) She obviously has low to no interest in you.

As I hinted in the beginning of the post

3) meet other women at the club.

Done, flirted and got numbers as you can read yet didnt call any of them yet

 

[foreverAFC]

I am out of the game right now, man this looks so damn complicated, I am too old for this hahaha.

yeah i cant deal with this nonsense either, id rather just sit home and jack off to internet porn in my dark lonely room like i do every night anyway

 

[Tenacity]

Who Dares,

This is just shyt you deal with operating in this market of women. I think it's one of the main reasons why I have just lost a lot of passion for dating/screwing women in general because honestly....at the end of the day....women are nothing but a big waste of time/resources.

So you fvck them, so what? Does pvssy do anything to help advance you in life?

So you have a plate full of women, does that do anything to help advance you in life?

It's why the plates I have, basically if I FEEL like being bothered with them then I make myself available, if I don't FEEL LIKE being bothered, then I make up lame excuses as to why I can't hang out.

I'm sorry, but women are really just a waste of fvcking time. I would love to meet a chick that actually stimulates my brain, actually stimulates my soul and actually is on the same wavelength as me. But then again, I would also love to meet Ronald Reagan and he's dead, so just like that's not going to happen, it's just as likely meeting ANY type of woman like this is also nothing but a pipe dream.

Instead of chasing women, if I were you, I would chase money and use women as friends w/ benefits when you need to get off. Once I turn about 45 - 50, I probably will look at just settling down into an LTR around that time because I'm looking to have built my passive income to the point where I will have more FREE TIME, which means I can use women for the "entertainment" aspect that they bring in terms of Sex Benefits and being a great Companion next to me on various adventures.

But until then, I'm just focused on making MONEY and using women as sex objects when I want to get off.

I know that's harsh but hey....women just don't bring much value to the table and I'm spending my time, resources, energy, etc. building my damn wealth.

 

[JohnChops]

We begun with phone numbers having a meaning, then we arrived a point where a phone number meant sh1t, we begun to a point where banging a girl meant something and now we reached a point where even sticking your c0ck inside her is not a sure sign of interest anymore.

In few years we will have kids with women and still keep it casual.

the most gloomy outlook that is generalized to be projected onto people who are not all the same.

 

[J Roc]

Already banged her many times, I think I know how it works with that particular girl, thats why no investment and invited her to join me in the place where I would have go anyway, I even imagined a potential flake to begin with, as I explained


As I hinted in the beginning of the post


Done, flirted and got numbers as you can read yet didnt call any of them yet

If you Know what you are doing then why even make a thread about a low interest slut?

 

[the_stig]

But until then, I'm just focused on making MONEY and using women as sex objects when I want to get off.

I know that's harsh but hey....women just don't bring much value to the table and I'm spending my time, resources, energy, etc. building my damn wealth.

It's not harsh because most women have no qualms using men for money, resources, shelter, etc, then dropping them once there's nothing left to shake from the tree or the better deal comes along.

 

[guru1000]

Don't take a dog to the yard and wonder why he took a shvt. That's just what dogs do.

 

[Who Dares Win]

If you Know what you are doing then why even make a thread about a low interest slut?

Because I believe there is always something to learn when it comes of everything, especially human behaviour.

If I had such approach in past I would have probably had more success in many cases, I strongly believe that many heads dont add to each other but multiply their outputs.

 

[loco]

The problem here was that you assumed she was not going to exercise the fb privilege in front or with you. You were wrong in thinking she herself thought you were more than just fb's. She is obviously one the smarter and slutier ones so there you go,next time exercise the fb rules and only use her for that purpose instead of a date.

 

[Mike32ct]

Of course I started to gauge her interest while we were drinking and noticed mixed signal, plenty of eye contact (about 90% of the talking), light kino but resistance from her when I tried to kiss her or grab her ass for longer than few seconds, we had some dirty talking (which I know see as a bad sign basing it on my experience) untill it came that line which is basically a deal breaker "we are not gonna have sex tonight".

My understanding is that FB's aren't really much into kissing and other physical stuff IN PUBLIC. It can feel more boyfriend/girlfriend/relationship to them and sometimes be a turn off. They ONLY like kissing, petting, etc. when it is in private and used as DIRECT foreplay leading to sex right there and then. In other words, act almost like friends in public, but get very physically aggressive behind closed doors before you bhang.

 

[SuckItUp]

Not sure what you expected with a girl you take to a club and you agree that she can dance with other guys.

 

[nismo-4]

You set your princess up to go to another castle.

Low interest? And you f**ked her? Just next her.

Case closed.