went out with girl 6x's , found out she might have bf during the ti

[joe45]

went out with girl 6x's , found out she might have bf during the time we met-she never told me
not sure what happen but here goes:
met this girl off a social meetup group and i emailed her without knowing her"hey wassup, nice pic how are you liking meetup, want to meetup for coffee sometime" ttyl"
i met up with her and we hung out 4x's once for coffee, another movie and dinner and 3rd time just walking around univ campus, eat out. of all the 4xs i paid-she paid for movie once
i don't hear from this girl for 2 months-i ask her to hang out via email but she says shes busy, till yeseterday she emailed me saying how i am and lets meetup-finally she initiates
we go out and eat cheesecake -i pay. she says we are just friends ,but even i still pay and i see she expects it too-
i go home on facebook and sees her pictures and i see shes very close to this other older guy 40 year old chubbier guy -they are hugging , holding hands...etc--i am guessing this is her bf. she never told me she had a bf, but we still went out for like 5x's. they went to states together.

so why she go out with me 5x's and not tell me this. did she go out with the guy for 2 months and they broke up and then she goes back to me since i am backup guy. the fourth time i tried to hold her hand she rejects me,but with this guy i guess she allows it. lol weird
basically she went out with me like 5-6x's but never told me she had a bf . i just found out on facebook while looking at the pics

 

[KarmaSutra]

You are begging for a slap in the face and a kick in the c0ck.

Time for some long overdue Karmic tough love:

You're a b1tch. You took time to take a girl out six fvcking times and all you have to show for it is a skinny wallet, some cheesecake and a t-shirt stating," I'm her girlfriend."

Throw in a Facebook stalker to boot. It's hard to wonder why she's banging every guy on campus except you.

Use this little b!tchslap as a reckoning and let your other ball finally drop.

Your self worth should never be determined by what "she" thinks.

 

[SandHawk]

You got served, and you got served big time. Maybe you should start out by reading the basic rules of DJ'ing:
- Never pay for her food or drinks. Anyone can buy her dinner!
- Find out quickly if she has a boyfriend by asking indirect questions!

I never take a girl on a date if I'm unsure wether or not she has a boyfriend. If just poke around. I usually do this by asking her where she lives. "So, how do you live? Do you live with your parents, alone or together?". This weeds out the girls that are living with their bf without them actually having to mention their bf in a way where they try to blow me off. It's safe for them, and for me it's a way to quickly weed out the girls not worth investing in. And there are more strategies to this, I bet you can think of a few.

Next time you go out with a girl, just go for the "Alright, I'm not very rich, so how about you pay for this round, and I'll take the next one?". Of course, that does mean you'll have to go for a 2nd round if you wanna date her a 2nd time, or if she has to leave, you offer to pay the next date(which allows you to set up a 2nd date as well).

So next time, when a girl expects you to pay up for a date, be a man and put her in her place. And now you should just ask her wether or not she has a boyfriend.

 

[trent81]

okay you dumb fuvk, you are 27? and you let this girl do this to you? Stop paying for ****t. For a cheesecake, I expect at least a hand job. She doesn't even hold your hand? Is this for real? Are you writing this so that my ulcers act up? You need an ass kicking. Are there guys like this? If I got a hold of that princess of yours I would finger her assholve and make her taste it. BE ASSERTIVE, SAY NO. Why would a woman ever get a job when there are men like this?

 

[shaunuk]

Mate.......you've been out with this girl six times and she won't even hold hands with you. She doesn't like you. Pull your head outta your arse and sort yourself out -- you're not a kid

 

[joe45]

well i was thinking why she got out with me in the first place then if shes not intersted then hey. she never told me she has a bf till i checked out her facebook page and shes pretty close and holding and together with this guy-fat guy too-and its not her brother for sure as they look so different.

i asked if she has a bf today on email and she said no, but i think shes a liar . she thinks about stuff before she answers like the time in the coffee shop.

i think i am really going to learn from this experience. thats why some of my co workers even date girls they jsut split the bill

i went out with this girl 6 xs asked her if she saw me as anything more and she said no and still looks at me to pay for her when we go out. ---yes i am dumb

 

[joe45]

You got served, and you got served big time. Maybe you should start out by reading the basic rules of DJ'ing:
- Never pay for her food or drinks. Anyone can buy her dinner!
- Find out quickly if she has a boyfriend by asking indirect questions!

I never take a girl on a date if I'm unsure wether or not she has a boyfriend. If just poke around. I usually do this by asking her where she lives. "So, how do you live? Do you live with your parents, alone or together?". This weeds out the girls that are living with their bf without them actually having to mention their bf in a way where they try to blow me off. It's safe for them, and for me it's a way to quickly weed out the girls not worth investing in. And there are more strategies to this, I bet you can think of a few.

Next time you go out with a girl, just go for the "Alright, I'm not very rich, so how about you pay for this round, and I'll take the next one?". Of course, that does mean you'll have to go for a 2nd round if you wanna date her a 2nd time, or if she has to leave, you offer to pay the next date(which allows you to set up a 2nd date as well).

So next time, when a girl expects you to pay up for a date, be a man and put her in her place. And now you should just ask her wether or not she has a boyfriend.

what happens if she lies to me and says she has no bf ,but she does and u see some guy with her very close together on facebook. i mean i think she kind of lies to me too. shes thinks stuff before she answers it. what can u do then if she lies. i think she just lies or never mention her bf since then she can get away with getting dinner, movie.....etc whatever she can get on a date-considering i am not rich at all

 

[GrimPhallic]

Dude wtf!? You need to review all the documentation on this website for real. DONT GO OUT WITH ANOTHER GIRL UNTIL YOU DO SO. She was interested in you at first bro, but you fvcked the fvck out of that and got put in the fvcking friend zone. Yes you couldve fvcked her probably, but your personality ruined it.

Oh and news flash, 99.9% OF GIRLS LIE...! ABOUT EVERYTHING!

Austin