Well guys, I will finally...

[Duke]

I know that your first inclination will be to totally ignore this post, because it seems like I "have it made" so to speak, but I ask you to be mature enough to read and reply with what you think.

I finally have the chance to fukk a hot girl and I'm not sure if I want to. Thing is, she is sorta a ho. She lost her virginity last year and has slept with 8 other guys since. I am still a virgin. I have the chance to fukk her this week, but I'm not sure if I want to. I haven't met her face to face, just seen a bunch of pics. She said she got tested and she's clean. The thing that's bothering me is that Sarah is also a virgin and I think I still might have a shot at her, but I will blow it to hell if I sex this hot girl.

Now, I know I'm going to be asked if I'm looking for Ms. Right or Ms. Right Now... Thing is, I have found both Ms. Right AND Ms. Right Now. If I screw Ms. Right Now, I might ruin my chances with Ms. Right, but then again I might not EVER get to screw Ms. Right and I will regret NOT screwing Ms. Right Now.

Anybody been in this situation before? I am all ears.

 

[Duke]

That's true, but I wanted to lose my virginity to another virgin, ya know? If I DID end up getting Ms. Right in the sack, I wouldn't want to lie to her and tell her she was my first... It's a big morality thing, and I feel like a pvssy for thinking about it at all, but that's the way I feel.

 

[PEPE LE PIU]

WTF... we search and find this site because we need more women and when we get them we get lost in options? If you don't know what path to choose, go in the midle. More simple

But seriously. Why don't you fvck them both individually. One doesn't have to know about the other.

 

[Shot Callin]

Dude I don't think you should. You are 17, so you are still ok, you don't need to fvck right away. I stay away from hoes period, bad news, bad times. You wanna catch something you could have for the rest of your life? Is it really worth it? She has slept with 8 known dudes in a year?

I don't know, maybe you can get a blow job out of it, but I wouldn't fvck her.

 

[NewMan]

Only you know the answer.

My thoughts.

Have fun and bang Mrs right now.

Reality - Mrs Right? Your 17 - believe me the probability is she's not. Plus the last thing you need right now is an LTR. Go out there, meet women - have fun, enjoy.

They both don't need to know about each other.

Meet Mrs Right now. If you get the chance bang her. She's hot. Don't waste this opportunity.

 

[MadTyteYo!]

Originally posted by NewMan
Meet Mrs Right now. If you get the chance bang her. She's hot. Don't waste this opportunity.

i agree get the experience and be safe.

 

[Imaginary Player]

WTF ? I couldn't even get through reading this garbarge, take this $hit to the highschool forum. "I....I, might have a chance to fvck her" PLUH LEEZ!

 

[madgame]

Dude I don't think you should. You are 17, so you are still ok, you don't need to fvck right away. I stay away from hoes period, bad news, bad times. You wanna catch something you could have for the rest of your life? Is it really worth it? She has slept with 8 known dudes in a year?

I don't know, maybe you can get a blow job out of it, but I wouldn't fvck her.

True, but Id rather try and use a condom and **** her than getting a BJ (most likely without a rubber if shes a hoe).

If you really wanna hook up with "Mr. Right" (which she probably aint cuz u only 17 man...on the other hand my best friend has been with his first g/f for over 6 years and they`re still together, but thats pretty rare i guess) do it..if it doesnt work out u might still be able to bang that hot chick?

You could also **** mrs. right now though and still hook up with mrs. right. They dont have to know about each other, and in case they will you havent done anything wrong cause you dont seem to be too close to a relationship. Besides..maybe it'd even make her want u more (unless shes the princess-type maybe)?

 

[Duke]

Thanks for all the replies (with the exception of Imaginary Player)...

"Ms. Right" aka Sarah IS the princess type, so I don't think she'd take it well if she knew that she wasn't my first.

What I'm thinking of doing is going for Ms. Right Now. This will not hurt me in any way unless I let society and religion mindfukk me. Conversely, it will benefit me by:
-Increasing my confidence
-Killing desperation
-Killing feelings of inadequacy with women
-Giving me sexual experience

Chances are that I AM infatuated with Sarah, and I may not ever end up boning her. On the other hand, I am guaranteed a FB in Ms. Right Now. If I keep waiting for Ms. Right now, then I might end up not having sex until I'm married or at least a couple years from now. My motto has always been "Carpe Diem" "Sieze the Day" , so I'm not sure why I found myself backing up.

This all comes down to my being brainwashed by a feminized society and a Catholic upbringing. Virginity is just a concept. There is no magical entity called "virginity" that comes and goes. People naturally want to have sex, but somehow feel that they are "superior" if they have an emotional, spiritual connection to the person they're fukking. While I'm sure that having that connection is fulfilling, it isn't always practical.

Back in the day of Kill-Or-Be-Killed-- hunting game, forraging for food, building huts, etc., men didn't have time to build a "connection" with a woman to fukk her. He just wanted offspring to carry on his survival, so he fukked most fertile female he could find.

In that light, choosing to go for Ms. Right Now is biologically healthy. When I pierce through foggy, blinding emotions, it is clear to me that the best objective choice is to go for the available sex from the hot girl. Sure, I have some qualms now, but I think that they will be laid to rest after I see this girl a few times and realize that I made the right decision.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Fvck the hot chick. You don't want to lose your virginity to another virgin, sounds like a disaster waiting to happen... 8 guys in a year is not slutty.

 

[trevor2003]

Give it to her man!!! If she wants it then let her have it!!!

If you don't then some other guy will, then you'll want her back but she'll ignore you because you already had your chance!!!!

 

[Duke]

Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
Fvck the hot chick. You don't want to lose your virginity to another virgin, sounds like a disaster waiting to happen... 8 guys in a year is not slutty.

Yeah I guess 2 virgins would be kinda unsatisfactory. I'm hoping I can learn a thing or two from this chick. What's slutty to you, btw?

Originally posted by trevor2003
Give it to her man!!! If she wants it then let her have it!!!

If you don't then some other guy will, then you'll want her back but she'll ignore you because you already had your chance!!!!

True, she'll find somebody else to fill her needs if I don't act. I really think that getting her as a FB would be benficial to me. I have to forget what people think--stigmas about sluts that I thought I was totally done with, and I also have to rearrange my expectations of what a first time should be like.

It's all mental shyt.

 

[trevor2003]

Originally posted by Duke
True, she'll find somebody else to fill her needs if I don't act. I really think that getting her as a FB would be benficial to me. I have to forget what people think--stigmas about sluts that I thought I was totally done with, and I also have to rearrange my expectations of what a first time should be like.

It's all mental shyt.

Who cares how slutty she is!!
As long as she doesn't have any STD's then your in the clear!!!

 

[MVPlaya]

Stay away from e-sluts, specially at that age, might have some weird issues and shyt. Anyway, its your call. Wear a condom tho.

 

[pulchritudinous chum]

dewd!!

This same **** happened to me!! I didn't have a hot ass girl to lose my virginity to at that time though, so f*ck that hoe and wait for the other girl- just don't get serious with her! I lost my virginity to a girl who had f*cked 8 guys and I didn't realize how dirty that was and the reputation it gave me. Of coarse 8 isn't bad when you're older, but in high school that kind of thing will ruin you.

The only benefit is if you're planning on being a future DJ, that slutty girl will teach you a good lesson or two and make you into a better person in bed, though the first time is a disaster that won't last for more than a good 5 minutes, because those experianced girls will make a virgin go "pop". You could seriously poke someones eye out.

Do it American Pie style if you ask me and get the slut to teach you some tricks, then show that virgin what you're made of.

 

[Satan Psycho]

First of all, you've got a naive notion that you will blow your chances with Sara if you sleep with the hot slut. Your rational: Guys who get laid don't get laid because chicks don't go for guys who get laid.

Second, you are unfairly condemning this 'slut' for nothing more than being a sexual creature with enough independent free will to overlook social taboos. Society teaches girls to repress their sexuality. As for men, we condemn a girl for not giving it to us (a tease) or giving it to anyone else but us (a slut). How many times must I miss out on sex because she doesn't want you *******s to think she's a slut?

Third, if you think you can find "Ms Right" at your age, you will find yourself divorced in your mid 20s, paying alimony and child support, working a job that does not exploit your full potential.

Also, you must consider this. And keep in mind I say it with utmost maturity. Sex is better with a girl who is 'into' it. One girl obviously loves sex while the other has suppressed herself into a-sexuality, just as she was taught, and has successfully avoided sexual conduct her whole life.

Finally, there’s no guarantee she’ll give it up to you no matter who you choose. She may remain a virgin for a long, long time.

 

[Satan Psycho]

...Not to mention the DJ factor. By even debating this you are

1. Putting a girl on a pedestal,
2. Being far to available for her than a desirable man would be, and
3. Not living your own life and denying yourself of pleasures that you know you want, and generally acting and thinking like an AFC.
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   It's none of Sara's business what you do before you and her are involved. Jeez, you're a virgin and you're holding back because you think you have a chance. And I assure you that being a virgin who is saving himself just for her will only hurt your chances with Sara.
   
   This is a wake up call. When I was 17, I was an AFC and a virgin and it would be years before there was even anything close to a site like this. Don't second guess what you've learned here about Challenge and go out there and make us all proud, Tiger.

 

[Duke]

Very provocative things I'm hearing

Chum: I plan on keeping this between the two of us as much as possible. No one has to know. So hopefully my rep won't get fukked. And yes, I plan on learning from her.

Satan Psycho: You really put things in perspective for me. You're right--nobody should be condemning girls who EMBRACE sex. On top of that, I was letting Sarah influence my decisions too much. I have much more confidence in my decision now: I'm going to meet up with "Ms. Right Now" (from here on known as Savannah) and have the time of my life. I cringe when I think of myself being pissed at Sarah for mindfvcking me while I jack to some tired old porno instead of seizing the opportunity I have with Savannah.
Very AFC of me to have the mindset of "Oh no! What will Sarah think???"
If I'm looking into my own self-interest, then having fun with Savannah is clearly the way to go.

Thanks, ya'll.