Weird IoI's from married milf customer :o

[TheGambino]

Guys im a salesman at a luxurious sofa store.

A married couple with their little baby bought two sofas from me a couple of weeks ago after some visits.

The woman is a hb7 blonde and about 34 years old. When we were sitting on the sofa having a conversation she gave me lots of eye contact with flirty smiles. When I smiled back she laughed akwardly to me. I saw in her eyes she liked me, every time I smiled she just starred at me with a smile. She touched me a lot during the convo, she looked quite shy also. I just saw in her eyes that shes interested in me, made some lame jokes and she laughed her as off.

Anyway customers can take materials with them for the sofa to check colours at home. She came by alone 5 times during the weeks before they bought and after they bought. Everytime at the end of the day. She came by again last week at the end of the day but I was busy selling with other customers. She just sat down and waited until the customers left and told me she wanted to change colours again, with lots of eye contact, smiling and non verbal flirting. She told me ill come back to confirm with a signature next week and smiled. It just felt like she likes me and was shy like a little girl in her appearing. She also told me another seat was too expensive for them and she wanted more advice about colours and a carpet for her home. So she wanted to come by alone again.

I told my collegue that she wanted to change colour for the sofa 'again' a day the next day. She sent her an e-mail that we could handle it true e-mail, it wouldn't be nessesary for her to come by again but she didn't reply. Im pretty sure she wants to come by the store again to see me.

Ok you guys know what up. It's my job, I think shes married and has a little kid with the dude. What would you guys do, ofcourse shes hot in my opinion and if I wasn't at work I would for sure number close to just check out what happens maybe she can contact me later if she doesn't like her man anymore.

I got a feeling she's bored in her relationship and life. I can see in her eyes she wants to have fun with new young male. Her appearing towards me just showed me shes bored at the moment. I feel big attraction from her because I don't know much about her life and she doesn't know anything about mine accept my job and that im a student.

I just don't know what I should do and if I can take a risk at work number closing or giving her my card with my private number, shes coming again this week im sure. And shes married I think..... (not sure)

I got a feeling I could be dominant have fun with her and tell her to come over to my home sometime to give her private advice lol

what do you guys think

 

[Tictac]

Doing married women is for beta schlubs.

Too much collateral damage.

 

[TheGambino]

I mean I could just give her a small hint or card that im open for a casual appointment in the future and see what she does.

But collateral damage, in what way, refering her relationship and son and my job you mean?

 

[Tictac]

Yep.

 

[way2smart]

Doing married women is for beta schlubs.

Too much collateral damage.

I am not against doing married women, that's because if she doesn't sleep with the OP, she will definitely sleep with someone else. So might as well be the OP than the other guy. Anyway, that's my logic. Sluts are gonna sloot no matter what.

 

[Yewki]

I am not against doing married women, that's because if she doesn't sleep with the OP, she will definitely sleep with someone else. So might as well be the OP than the other guy. Anyway, that's my logic. Sluts are gonna sloot no matter what.

But with a kid? Def not worth. To me that's like saying if you see a bag of sh*t on the ground, you might as well pick it up because if not then some other guy might go for it. Uhh, no actually let the other guy pick it up. I'm OK with that.

 

[dutchmaster]

If u think she's hot and it won't get u fired then fvck her

 

[way2smart]

But with a kid? Def not worth. To me that's like saying if you see a bag of sh*t on the ground, you might as well pick it up because if not then some other guy might go for it. Uhh, no actually let the other guy pick it up. I'm OK with that.

I agree I wouldn't have done it personally, but I see no problem from the moral perspective. If she was a 9/10 I would have done it, otherwise no.

 

[TheGambino]

How can I know if it will get me fired? It always could result to that point if I somehow ask for her # or set up a date and hook up with her. If her man finds out or she tells on what happened theres a chance he comes to the store and tells my manager about the whole situation.

Im a student its just a side job but yet it would be embarassing, Im trying to build a good reputation within the company and don't want to put my carreer in line for a hook up with a 34 year old woman.

Do you guys have a suggestion to give her my number or get hers or make a casual appointment without big risks. Because she keeps throwing chances at my feet to do something by coming to the store every time flirting with me.

My goal: Get some personal contact info from her or give them to her in a professional way so she can always contact me in the future. I don't see something real coming out of it I just want to keep my chances open for the future, she can decide herself if shes interested enough to call me someday.

 

[dutchmaster]

How can I know if it will get me fired? It always could result to that point if I somehow ask for her # or set up a date and hook up with her. If her man finds out or she tells on what happened theres a chance he comes to the store and tells my manager about the whole situation.

Im a student its just a side job but yet it would be embarassing, Im trying to build a good reputation within the company and don't want to put my carreer in line for a hook up with a 34 year old woman.

Do you guys have a suggestion to give her my number or get hers or make a casual appointment without big risks. Because she keeps throwing chances at my feet to do something by coming to the store every time flirting with me.

My goal: Get some personal contact info from her or give them to her in a professional way so she can always contact me in the future. I don't see something real coming out of it I just want to keep my chances open for the future, she can decide herself if shes interested enough to call me someday.

I think you're over thinking it then. If you are just a student it shouldn't matter. This chicks coming on pretty hard. I wouldn't offer the number right away, next time she comes in playfully ask her why she's here so much as if she's here to see you or something like that. Or just tell her you guys should get coffee to talk more about the "couch" or whatever she's buying and just take it from there.

If you're out for coffee and she's still giving you IOIs escalate and see where it ends up. For all you know her husband cheats on her too so she just wants to go out and get hers

 

[sylvester the cat]

If you go through op's threads you'll see a definite pattern. He claims these girls give him ioi's only for them to give him the brush off.

Try it on though. I'd love to see how this one turns out.

 

[TheGambino]

If you go through op's threads you'll see a definite pattern. He claims these girls give him ioi's only for them to give him the brush off.

Try it on though. I'd love to see how this one turns out.

I only post about start ups like these girls or the ones that actually brush me off when I take action or seem busy for a second date. Or girls that give mixed signals.

I dont post about the one(s) that are interested that already come to my house/ I date or lay because I don't need advice about these ones. Their interested, they want to date everything is ok. So that declares the 'pattern' you see I don't need feedback on a girl I already locked down. I only post about 'vague' ones that I just met or the ones that give me mixed signals like I said.

Thanks for your super useful reply, incredibly helpful.....

 

[sylvester the cat]

I have no intention helping you deprive an innocent baby of its family.

 

[TheGambino]

I have no intention helping you deprive an innocent baby of its family.

I actually think your right on the matter i wont initiate anything with this one thats the most loaded and True reply you could give on the matter. Case closed with this one for me

 

[Yewki]

I'm still confused why you were even considering a potentially married 7/10 with a kid if it could compromise your job? Hate to say it, but you had (have?) some oneitis sh*t going on there. Got a little too excited over the prospect of her liking you. Happens to the best of us.

 

[yoyoing]

Dude ...
A girl like This just want to get ****ed . The minute she touched you and you feel attraction you give her your phone number then tell her to call you later and you escalate very quickly .
I don't see no problem with banging her . How do you know about the kid ?!
IMO a you should not even care about that stuff she comes into your store and wants you .
You bang her and case close .
If LATER she wants more and become clingy you can always bail out. But at the. Moment lets just have fun plz. Her relationship is non of your business at this point .

 

[Atom Smasher]

Don't become a part of a family's destruction. There are other people involved.

I get hit on virtually every day by married women. I won't even consider going there. They are selfish, damaged goods IMO and earn my disdain just by the fact that they are disloyal to their husbands and children and willing to risk the annihilation of the family for a little selfish validation.

These are the scum of the earth and should be avoided.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Don't become a part of a family's destruction. There are other people involved.

I get hit on virtually every day by married women. I won't even consider going there. They are selfish, damaged goods IMO and earn my disdain just by the fact that they are disloyal to their husbands and children and willing to risk the annihilation of the family for a little selfish validation.

These are the scum of the earth and should be avoided.

Hmmm, where's Danger at when you need him. Danger, what are your thoughts on this whole scenario?

 

[YAboi]

It was just your ego talking OP. It just wanted to be stroked. Everyone wants to feel desired by the opposite sex but ask yourself ; at what cost?

 

[byrnie]

I would leave her well alone. As others have said you could be contributing to breaking up a family. There are plenty of free and single girls out there.