I've been going out with this girl for 4 months now and it was going strong but things started to change. She started to test me left and right and spend less time with me. Almost cold and distant.
The girl is very passionate and when we are combined we are unstoppable but just lately it seems shes been caught up in college work that she seems to have lost her passion. Thus she lost alot of respect for me.
She keeps playing mind games with me, going hot and cold.
We broke up 2 days ago out of the blue. Like i was talking to her about how i would rip her bra off with my teeth when i saw her that night, i said this over AIM. She instantly got pissed off, turned off the webcam and went weird on me.
Then she said "This isnt working out" and im like ok so lets be friends. Before you know it we are friends. And she shows no ounce of emotion. Crazy as hell. I'm hurt and i couldnt take it so i said "look i cant talk to you anymore, once a lover never a friend... I cant see you anymore"
She started to get scarce about this. Started to worry that she'll lose me forever. We talked and because im good with words i reunited her with her passions and after she felt this surge of passions, she was begging me to come back to her. So i tell her we will do this but the next time she ****s me around im gone.
I cant get my head around this girl. She was perfect 2 weeks ago but now shes changed completely. It feels like she could drop me at any moment and believe me if i didnt have that passion talk with her, i knew she wouldnt of cared. Either she doesnt care or she acts tough. But shes playing these mind games.
I think my problem is i was always too available. She could always get ahold of me. I was always online everytime she was. I was always a call away to meet her. I was always there. This was my mistake.
So now i've not text'd all day and she hasnt texted me. Isn't like her she usually texts me. I came online for a second by accident and she popped up and said.
Her: hey you, i was just about to go back to sleep and eat something, but how are you
Me: do it im busy... gotta go bye
And now i guess im looking for advice. Do you think i should cut contact for awhile? How does one walk away? And whats with this girl?
The girl is very passionate and when we are combined we are unstoppable but just lately it seems shes been caught up in college work that she seems to have lost her passion. Thus she lost alot of respect for me.
She keeps playing mind games with me, going hot and cold.
We broke up 2 days ago out of the blue. Like i was talking to her about how i would rip her bra off with my teeth when i saw her that night, i said this over AIM. She instantly got pissed off, turned off the webcam and went weird on me.
Then she said "This isnt working out" and im like ok so lets be friends. Before you know it we are friends. And she shows no ounce of emotion. Crazy as hell. I'm hurt and i couldnt take it so i said "look i cant talk to you anymore, once a lover never a friend... I cant see you anymore"
She started to get scarce about this. Started to worry that she'll lose me forever. We talked and because im good with words i reunited her with her passions and after she felt this surge of passions, she was begging me to come back to her. So i tell her we will do this but the next time she ****s me around im gone.
I cant get my head around this girl. She was perfect 2 weeks ago but now shes changed completely. It feels like she could drop me at any moment and believe me if i didnt have that passion talk with her, i knew she wouldnt of cared. Either she doesnt care or she acts tough. But shes playing these mind games.
I think my problem is i was always too available. She could always get ahold of me. I was always online everytime she was. I was always a call away to meet her. I was always there. This was my mistake.
So now i've not text'd all day and she hasnt texted me. Isn't like her she usually texts me. I came online for a second by accident and she popped up and said.
Her: hey you, i was just about to go back to sleep and eat something, but how are you
Me: do it im busy... gotta go bye
And now i guess im looking for advice. Do you think i should cut contact for awhile? How does one walk away? And whats with this girl?
