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Weird behavior by a plate and a friend!

kronreiff

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I've been spinning this plate for 8 months now. She comes to my place once a week. We go across the street to play cards with a friend and his girl and then back to my place and fvck all night and she leaves the next day.

She came over Saturday and 15 minutes after she arrived I had an emergency IT work call that I had to address immediately due to a service contract. I got back about 4 hours later. My buddy was sitting in his vehicle parked in front of his girl's house. His girl was in D.C. on business and he was stopping by to check on the place as he always does when she's out of town. So, I walk over to shoot the breeze with him and he has a chit eating grin and seemed stoned. Then I notice the plate walking down the street towards my house. She walks by without saying one word to either one of us. So, I said "hey, wtf, can't you say hi", so she says hi without looking our way and walks into the house. My buddy just sits there with this chit eating grin. Him and I were supposed to go dirt biking the next day on Sunday, but he flaked at the last minute with a lame text.

Anyway, I go back to my house and the plate is watching tv and being very quiet, not much talk. So, I go to my room and take a shower as we had plans to do take out and watch a movie and fvck all night as usual. She falls asleep during the movie, and not much talking before hand. So I get up and proceed to get ready for bed. I come out of the bathroom and she's in the living room. She comes back to my room all sexed up and ready to go. I said no way. You're acting like an a$$hole today, so go to sleep or leave. She persisted for almost an hour wanting to get it on. Finally I told her to GTFO. So, she starts with the water works while getting her things into her over night bag and says, "I'll see you next week". To which I said, "don't bet on it". She's been profusely texting, emailing and calling since, but I ignored all her attempts. What's bothering me is the feeling of disrespect from her and my buddy as well as the possibility that I would of had sloppy seconds due to the fact that I was out on that IT job for 4 hours and their combined weird behavior. Any thoughts fellow DJ's before I send her to the gallows?
 

icantgetlaid

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You handled this well. I would trust your instincts on this one .. your intuition is usually right. If she's just a plate though i wouldn't care. Enjoy the sex/spin plates. If it bothers you that much, then next.

I don't see the dilemma.

Now if it was a girl you were in a committed relationship of sorts with then it's a different story.
 

kronreiff

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The reason I wrote this thread is that I have no tolerance for disrespect. Whether it's a plate, girlfriend, buddy or whoever.
 

icantgetlaid

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The reason I wrote this thread is that I have no tolerance for disrespect. Whether it's a plate, girlfriend, buddy or whoever.
What exactly was the point of posting this though ? Is there some kind of advice you are seeking .. or is this just a "field study" that you are sharing ?
 

kronreiff

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I posted this as a field study and also to share an example of disrespect and the flakiness of plates and friends. Also thought someone could relate. If it bothers you, I'll yank it.
 

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I think you are right in this case. I'd let her go.

Does your buddy and her get a long well? Any signs that you may have missed before?
Does your buddy have any other girls? How desperate is he for female attention?
 

kronreiff

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@Howiestern. Yeah, they get along ok, just like I get along ok with his girl. The only sign I can remember is the last couple of times we all got together to play cards, she wore a mini skirt almost to the crack of her a$$. No big deal, I don't own her, nor do I want to. My buddy has his own girl right across the street, and they seem fairly tight since they are in a committed relationship as far as I know.
 
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