not that hard
I'm 43 years old! I've had no trouble ever getting an in with a woman of any age. For the past four years I've been exclusively seeing women who are 18 to 23 (preferably 19-20).
I'm 5'6" tall and bald with a beard. I look like an algebra teacher. I'm an Army vet of 18 years and have been damn near everywhere. I have three college degrees. I don't work -- don't have to anymore.
I dress very well, I rarely leave the house without a tie on. Never on a short-sleeved shirt and never anything but a quality silk tie.
I'm a real nerd! I'm typing this on an Alienware machine while watching my 52" HDTV flat panel with Bose surround. I play in a "band" -- but it's classical music.
I know their friends and some of their parents. In the past 25 years, I've slept with four women and their mom. Once, I slept with mom and daughter at the same time.
I never try to be the same as them -- if they want a 19 year old then they'll date one. I treat them like the adults I expect them to act like and NEVER like I'm their big-brother or worse, their dad. With the singular exception of one young woman who likes to play the daddy's little girl game.
I meet women at the university that I attend for no reason other than to meet women. It's the best place I know of to meet young women who aren't under parental control. [warning: all college girls are not over 18 and some lie.]
If they aren't into "older guys" then I don't push it. If I really want her then I'll find one of her friends that is into "older guys" and once the friends do it - it must be ok. I never talk bad about their same aged BFs to them, nor do I care if they have one. They NEVER hear me say a bad word about any other woman!
I open doors for them and I buy them little presents (it doesn't take much) and when they're in my bedroom,
I undress them.
What I have for them is this; and it's all you need:
1) I'm educated and able to converse at any level, even 18'ese.
2) I'm well travelled and can tell them stories of all sort of places they want to go. I can take them to many.
3) I'm well mannered and polished. They can be seen in public with me without embarrasment - even if I am old enough to be her daddy.
4) I have plenty of money. We don't go out to McDonalds and we don't ride in an '82 Buick Century that I think is "cool".
5) When she's with me, she's a princess. She's the only princess.
6) I perform in bed to their satisfaction. Their standards of performance can be pretty high. She gets four hours minimum that starts in the shower/bath.
7) I listen to their fantasies and we play them out. Does she want to play with a teacher? Is she wanting to play wedding dress-up? Does she want to be a "slut" without really being a slut? public, 3some, 4some, spankings, rope?... doesn't matter -- whatever she wants to try.
To those who prefer older women (beyond 18); good for you. I'll stick with my "little angels" as long as I can. They haven't been ruined by *******s yet.
To those younger guys that get pissed because your exGF is seeing an "old guy" -- if you'd have learned how to treat her like a woman she'd still be doing you...