One of the girls I recently started seeing turned out to be a real freak. Takes it in any hole without question and has really opened up to me about her past. HB8+. She's late 20s. Partied (coke) a lot in early 20s, did 3some, 4some, is bi (yes!), so fairly liberal. I like. I planted the seed a little bit, saying I don't mind other female involvement, but from what I've heard it's the girl who needs to be the initiator so it's 'her idea'? Our schedules clash a lot so we don't see each other much (~1/week), but we will have a couple Saturday nights coming up where we can go out to some busier clubs and get a little wild. I'm thinking that's a great opportunity for her to pull another girl (and for me to do the same). Any suggestions?
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Ways to initiate a threesome? (seed planting)
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scrouds
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I'm going to blow this out my ass, so take it with a grain of salt.
If you want it, go for it. Make it happen. If you want to hit the clubs and find a third, make it a game, a bit of a challenge, see who can pull the hottest chick quickest for a romp.
Feel out any other plates you have, get in their heads and tease out what their fantasies are. If you find one that would work in this place, invite both other and see what you can make happen.
If you want it, go for it. Make it happen. If you want to hit the clubs and find a third, make it a game, a bit of a challenge, see who can pull the hottest chick quickest for a romp.
Feel out any other plates you have, get in their heads and tease out what their fantasies are. If you find one that would work in this place, invite both other and see what you can make happen.
This woman screams cluster B. Be careful. But to answer your question, if you want to get a threesome going, bisexual cluster B women can make it happen easily for you.
I dated a BPD stripper and we'd go out to bars together. She had a knack for finding threesomes with attractive women. She happily facilitated 3 different threesomes for us over the course of a few months. Fun times, but not for the emotionally weak.
In short, tell her what you want, she'll make it happen.
I dated a BPD stripper and we'd go out to bars together. She had a knack for finding threesomes with attractive women. She happily facilitated 3 different threesomes for us over the course of a few months. Fun times, but not for the emotionally weak.
In short, tell her what you want, she'll make it happen.
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About last week, I introduced myself to 2 girls near the dance floor. One of them offered to buy me a drink. Soon after we took turns buying drinks, I could feel the other one, DD getting a little jealous. So, I would make small talk with her with kino. Towards the end of the night I was too tipsy to drive home, so they took me back to my place.
I told the DD, since she didn't had much to drink, why not come in for a shot? The other chick said amusingly agreed it was a good idea. I brought them upstairs into the master bedroom, dimmed down the lights and turned on some electric dance. Told them I would be right back to get the drinks. This allowed them to check out the environment and about me. Thanks to whoever posted this tip, I use it religiously.
So, I come back with the bottle and sit in the middle of both. If I felt I was giving too much attention to one, I would send it back to the other while occasionally touching their legs. Good song comes on after a few drinks, grab both their hand without saying a word and we start grinding. Both of them had their paws under my shirt and on my thighs, so I hopped on my bed and asked which one gave the best lap dance. All it took was one of them to take off their top and the other did the same. When I sense it was starting to calm down, I took them both pushed them on my bed and returned the favor. Positioned my knees between both legs and started to massage while slowly taking off my shirt. They were licking my nipples and I could feel moistness through their jeans. I slowly unbuckled my belt and allowed them to do the rest as I fingered them through the jeans and unzip theirs.
The next morning, I woke up with 2 chicks naked in my arms, life is good.
I told the DD, since she didn't had much to drink, why not come in for a shot? The other chick said amusingly agreed it was a good idea. I brought them upstairs into the master bedroom, dimmed down the lights and turned on some electric dance. Told them I would be right back to get the drinks. This allowed them to check out the environment and about me. Thanks to whoever posted this tip, I use it religiously.
So, I come back with the bottle and sit in the middle of both. If I felt I was giving too much attention to one, I would send it back to the other while occasionally touching their legs. Good song comes on after a few drinks, grab both their hand without saying a word and we start grinding. Both of them had their paws under my shirt and on my thighs, so I hopped on my bed and asked which one gave the best lap dance. All it took was one of them to take off their top and the other did the same. When I sense it was starting to calm down, I took them both pushed them on my bed and returned the favor. Positioned my knees between both legs and started to massage while slowly taking off my shirt. They were licking my nipples and I could feel moistness through their jeans. I slowly unbuckled my belt and allowed them to do the rest as I fingered them through the jeans and unzip theirs.
The next morning, I woke up with 2 chicks naked in my arms, life is good.
I like the idea of making it a game, I just want to do it with tact. Something like 'let's see who can pull the hottest girl' sounds good, can't really lose. I just want to be careful with her perceiving too much that it's 'just about the sex' (although it mostly is) as she alluded to it recently.
As for BPD etc, it doesn't bother me. I've handled it before and I'm not looking for a serious relationship (I've had to let a few solid prospects loose in the past year for this reason), so as long as it's fun it's all good.
Another important point - I'm still trying to figure out the 'perfect' balance for me in terms of emotional giving vs. sexual taking (I provide emotional satisfaction, she provides sexual satisfaction). What I mean is girls who I see multiple times want a relationship with me QUICK. I guess it's a good problem to have, except I don't want a relationship. At the same time, I have to give them some morsels of commitment to keep it going. I've lost some plates going too far in either direction (total nonchalance = she's no longer interested because it's not going anywhere besides simply ****ing, emotional investment = she wants a relationship and I don't so she bails). I can sense already with this one that she wants to be more, which is BAD NEWS when it comes to sexual exploration with other girls. So I need to find the fine line of enough lovey dovey emoshuns vs. idgaf marathon sex.
I'll definitely make it known when we're in a logistically convenient situation that I want to involve another girl, just want to do it optimally.
As for BPD etc, it doesn't bother me. I've handled it before and I'm not looking for a serious relationship (I've had to let a few solid prospects loose in the past year for this reason), so as long as it's fun it's all good.
Another important point - I'm still trying to figure out the 'perfect' balance for me in terms of emotional giving vs. sexual taking (I provide emotional satisfaction, she provides sexual satisfaction). What I mean is girls who I see multiple times want a relationship with me QUICK. I guess it's a good problem to have, except I don't want a relationship. At the same time, I have to give them some morsels of commitment to keep it going. I've lost some plates going too far in either direction (total nonchalance = she's no longer interested because it's not going anywhere besides simply ****ing, emotional investment = she wants a relationship and I don't so she bails). I can sense already with this one that she wants to be more, which is BAD NEWS when it comes to sexual exploration with other girls. So I need to find the fine line of enough lovey dovey emoshuns vs. idgaf marathon sex.
I'll definitely make it known when we're in a logistically convenient situation that I want to involve another girl, just want to do it optimally.
Some development on this:
Last night during post-sex pillow talk we went over a few subjects. She asked me 'what my thoughts are on fidelity' (I called it!) and I think I parried it quite nicely. Long explanation but basically amounts to I don't have an opinion on it, I just see what is - and this is actually how I 'feel' about it.
Anyway, I brought up her bringing another girl into it and she told me that 'if it's an important relationship to me I don't want to jeopardize it but if it's not then I have no problem'. I've heard similar things before in so many words from another girl I dated.
It's almost like once they get attached a certain amount to you, they no longer want to be as adventurous. I told her it wouldn't compromise anything, etc. I feel I may need to subtly backtrack a little though to keep her at arm's length if this is going to happen. I don't want to press the matter, but I want her to come to the conclusion on her own to be a little more 'open' again (bear in mind she's been with girls before and has had a threesome).
I definitely need more experience in these subtle matters. My 'problem' with a girl I'm really into (physically) is a sort of sex-duplicity. I'm very dominant in bed and outside of it, a little cruel by most standards, but chicks dig it. On the other hand, after we're done I'll get very affectionate which has 2 consequences: 1) it gets them attached to me QUICK and 2) I feel it accelerates the relationship too much. At the same time, I've lost girls by not giving them enough of that luvduv feeling afterwards. I need to fine tune.
Also she did open up a little more about her level of pain tolerance and one of her 'rough sex' relationships, so I'm gonna experiment a little more with her next time, maybe go 'extra dom' and give her less luvduv afterwards. I want this fvcking threesome.
Any suggestions? I didn't say 'I want you to bring another girl into this', but I did say 'if you want to bring another girl into this, I'm all for it, we can share, you can have your time with her, and it won't compromise anything'. Maybe I should have just said 'I'd like to bring another girl into it'. I dunno ... this is new territory for me.
Last night during post-sex pillow talk we went over a few subjects. She asked me 'what my thoughts are on fidelity' (I called it!) and I think I parried it quite nicely. Long explanation but basically amounts to I don't have an opinion on it, I just see what is - and this is actually how I 'feel' about it.
Anyway, I brought up her bringing another girl into it and she told me that 'if it's an important relationship to me I don't want to jeopardize it but if it's not then I have no problem'. I've heard similar things before in so many words from another girl I dated.
It's almost like once they get attached a certain amount to you, they no longer want to be as adventurous. I told her it wouldn't compromise anything, etc. I feel I may need to subtly backtrack a little though to keep her at arm's length if this is going to happen. I don't want to press the matter, but I want her to come to the conclusion on her own to be a little more 'open' again (bear in mind she's been with girls before and has had a threesome).
I definitely need more experience in these subtle matters. My 'problem' with a girl I'm really into (physically) is a sort of sex-duplicity. I'm very dominant in bed and outside of it, a little cruel by most standards, but chicks dig it. On the other hand, after we're done I'll get very affectionate which has 2 consequences: 1) it gets them attached to me QUICK and 2) I feel it accelerates the relationship too much. At the same time, I've lost girls by not giving them enough of that luvduv feeling afterwards. I need to fine tune.
Also she did open up a little more about her level of pain tolerance and one of her 'rough sex' relationships, so I'm gonna experiment a little more with her next time, maybe go 'extra dom' and give her less luvduv afterwards. I want this fvcking threesome.
Any suggestions? I didn't say 'I want you to bring another girl into this', but I did say 'if you want to bring another girl into this, I'm all for it, we can share, you can have your time with her, and it won't compromise anything'. Maybe I should have just said 'I'd like to bring another girl into it'. I dunno ... this is new territory for me.