wats going on?

[wvpimp00]

me and a female ha been frineds for 8 months, and she liked me that whole time but we acted liek we were sorat dating but i nevr aksed her ot be my g/f and she always blew me off on weekends excpet when i got mad and confronted her about it, well she straightend up an on month 9 i asked her ot be my g/f and thinsg went well for 2 weeks, then all of a sudden she started making reasons to not to talk to me and this went on for 2 months but i broke it off like a week after she started that stuff, but she still sent me emails and stuff saying she knew she had lost me and how i was alway busylately and i coudlnt coe see her, i was just ignoring her..

well one night 2 weeks ago i went and saw her at her house and she hugged me and we talked and flirted pretty heavily, well at the end of teh night she walked me to my car and asked me if i was goign to kiss her and I did.. she told me in a emial sh ekissed me because she had missed me and really needed a kiss from me..
i sorta still like her ad cant ge her out of m head, what should i do>? she told me that like 2 weeks after we broke up she mssed around with a girl.. and im not sure wo o feel about that an her all of a sudden wanting to get back wiht me after like 2 months.. she did keep in touch and told me she wasnt sure what she wanted thats why se started avoiding me.. what should i do?
i liek ehr but if she keeps up her BS, shes gonna hit the rad.

 

[wvpimp00]

wow, i type really bad.. i was in a hurry when i typed that. sorry but if you gusy can read this and help me i woudl really apreciate it.. because i need some new opinions and ideas..

 

[Walden]

Wow , great, someone who'se typing is almost as bad as mine .

Dude she sounds like hard work.

I'd just set her up as a playbuddy, it sounds like that might be what she wants anyways.

 

[wvpimp00]

i need more advie guys.... come on.. anything is welcome..

 

[squirrels]

For this 8 months was there ever any sexual tension? A kiss, making out, anything?

Cuz it sounds like you were DEEP in the friendzone. You would get mad that she wasn't spending weekends with you? She was probably out screwing other guys. "Sorta dating" sounds like "We were hanging out together, and I liked to think of it as dating, even though we both knew it wasn't."

"I'm not sure what I want" sounds to me like "I know you're the nice guy who'll give me whatever I want and I feel bad for not being exclusive with you, but you just don't turn me on like REAL men." I'd say you're being used as rebound material because she doesn't have anyone else right now.

This is all contingent on the assumption that you weren't "getting any" this whole time. If you were, the situation is probably different, but I still think you're being used in this situation. Either way, the situation reeks of one-itis. Stop b!tching when she stands you up on the weekends and go out and find other women instead.