Watery Eyes

[PiHiPlaya]

Hey, move this if it is "Anything Else" but it happens in the HS Halls so here is my question.

Ok when I am in the hall and I make eye contact with girls i don't know my eyes tend to start watering. Almost to the point that it looks like i'm either crying or stoned. This doesn't happen when i'm with my boys.

Does anyone have any tips on how to keep my eyes from watering up? Or why it is caused?

Thanks

 

[Hot Ice]

The top seeecret key is...



To blink more often!

 

[DarkfalconIV]

Your forcing your eyes open blink god damn it. Your not making good enough eye contact if your eyes are blinking or watering. If eye contacts natural you won't even think about blinking You'll get a feeling. Look in a mirrior and focus on your eyes and talk to yourslef. Your eyes will get used to it and the water should go awauy

 

[icepick]

It is all in your head: psychosomatic.

Whenever I am not feeling on top of my game, I turn beet red when I talk to hot chicks. Some people can still seem calm at 90% or 80% or less but I am one of those guys who has to be 100% at all times, or else it is VERY obvious.

Just work on your confidence, get used to messing with girls, and be consistent with it. A while back, I had a few months in a row where I felt really good, and I thought I was "free" from all this stuff. I stopped meeting so many girls, deciding to "take it easy" for a while. When I realized that I was loosing my motivation (no chickies around to pump me up) and decided to get back in the game, I realized that I was doing all this nervous stuff again.

So, starting from square one, I had to get out there and get used to expressing my personality all over again. Pretty soon, that kind of stuff (eyes watering, flash-tiredness, blushing, sweating, twitching, etc.) becomes less and less, and ceases to be a problem that people notice.

As far as I know, though, this kind of stuff will always happen once in a while. (Although it may be noticable only to you and a real insightful girl.) I am not content to live with that, however, so I will not stop until I have gotten rid of this kind of thing for good.

 

[PiHiPlaya]

Yeah i think i was just nervous from like 50 hot girls in one place at the Orientation today. I noticed i was having a hard time keeping eye contact...

O well, when school starts on tuesday I guess I should read some inspirational posts before it starts.

Thanks for the advice guys