Water Infection she says...

[Murk]

Ok listen to this guys, it's usually me pulling the UTI/Chlamydia stunts on these dumb broads but this girl I met from Bumble 2 weeks ago has just flipped the script.

We are due to meet tomorrow for dinner/me staying at hers. Let me know what you guys think to this exchange we just had over whatsapp:

[14:03, 4/30/2019] Her: Also more good news
[14:03, 4/30/2019] Her: I’ve got a water infection apparently so am on antibiotics now, which means no sex or alcohol
[14:03, 4/30/2019] Her: Totally get if you want to cancel tomorrow honestly
[14:05, 4/30/2019] Her: That’s why I feel a bit rundown
[14:09, 4/30/2019] Me: Great
[14:09, 4/30/2019] Her: Sarcasm
[14:09, 4/30/2019] Her: It’s so annoying, sorry
[14:11, 4/30/2019] Her: We can just do it another time if you prefer
[14:13, 4/30/2019] Me: Haha dont apologise
[14:13, 4/30/2019] Me: We can still
[14:13, 4/30/2019] Me: Oh look at you auto viewing my reply
[14:13, 4/30/2019] Me: Was gonna say we can still meet
[14:13, 4/30/2019] Me: Up to you and how you feel babe
[14:13, 4/30/2019] Her: You’re so nice
[14:14, 4/30/2019] Her: ^not even sarcasm
[14:14, 4/30/2019] Her: I feel ok and would still like to meet up tomorrow
[14:14, 4/30/2019] Me: It's what I do

She's not saying I have to go get checked meself or anything so I'm inclined to give her the benefit of the doubt that this is just a UTI.

Shall I get checked anyway?

Also - I now have to go on a date tomorrow after work that doesn't end in sex or involve drinking (cheaper for me I guess).

HOWEVER - I didn't want to seem like I only wanted a creampie so I played it very cute and prob made her want me even more.

Hi five *sticks hand in the air*

 

[AJ84]

Ok listen to this guys, it's usually me pulling the UTI/Chlamydia stunts on these dumb broads but this girl I met from Bumble 2 weeks ago has just flipped the script.

We are due to meet tomorrow for dinner/me staying at hers. Let me know what you guys think to this exchange we just had over whatsapp:

[14:03, 4/30/2019] Her: Also more good news
[14:03, 4/30/2019] Her: I’ve got a water infection apparently so am on antibiotics now, which means no sex or alcohol
[14:03, 4/30/2019] Her: Totally get if you want to cancel tomorrow honestly
[14:05, 4/30/2019] Her: That’s why I feel a bit rundown
[14:09, 4/30/2019] Me: Great
[14:09, 4/30/2019] Her: Sarcasm
[14:09, 4/30/2019] Her: It’s so annoying, sorry
[14:11, 4/30/2019] Her: We can just do it another time if you prefer
[14:13, 4/30/2019] Me: Haha dont apologise
[14:13, 4/30/2019] Me: We can still
[14:13, 4/30/2019] Me: Oh look at you auto viewing my reply
[14:13, 4/30/2019] Me: Was gonna say we can still meet
[14:13, 4/30/2019] Me: Up to you and how you feel babe
[14:13, 4/30/2019] Her: You’re so nice
[14:14, 4/30/2019] Her: ^not even sarcasm
[14:14, 4/30/2019] Her: I feel ok and would still like to meet up tomorrow
[14:14, 4/30/2019] Me: It's what I do

She's not saying I have to go get checked meself or anything so I'm inclined to give her the benefit of the doubt that this is just a UTI.

Shall I get checked anyway?

Also - I now have to go on a date tomorrow after work that doesn't end in sex or involve drinking (cheaper for me I guess).

HOWEVER - I didn't want to seem like I only wanted a creampie so I played it very cute and prob made her want me even more.

Hi five *sticks hand in the air*

It’s only a matter of time before you get herpes or something worse. Any girl who willingly lets a fucboi raw dog her likely has a habit of letting other guys raw dog her. You are dipping your d**kn into every guy she had unprotected sex with.

Sorry Murk but these girls seem low value to me, and you don’t seem to respect yourself enough to prevent a permanent infection that will impact your health and sex life.

Why do you have such little regard for these things lol.

 

[Murk]

It’s only a matter of time before you get herpes or something worse. Any girl who willingly lets a fucboi raw dog her likely has a habit of letting other guys raw dog her. You are dipping your d**kn into every guy she had unprotected sex with.

Sorry Murk but these girls seem low value to me, and you don’t seem to respect yourself enough to prevent a permanent infection that will impact your health and sex life.

Why do you have such little regard for these things lol.

I told her I haven't been on an OLD date for like 6 months, kinda true except that girl I met in Feb who I smashed 2nd date, bareback for 5 min before I had to get a rubber (see, she was a classy girl!).

Also, she just came out of a 7 year relationship in November and been on 4 dates since, I don't she's been running round town taking creampies from all angles. Am I supposed to be wearing rubber all the time? I'm very convincing and persuasive, it's unfair to say these girls are trashy, why can't it be I'm just irresistible and very skilled?

Look, all 3 girls have been tested recently as have I. I have not had an STD since the famous Chlamydia-gate scandal from this time last year. I've only had the Clammy twice before that - both from the same girl. 3 times in 30 years, that's not bad considering. I'm NOT banging disgusting slags that live in dustbins and crack dens... these are presentable intelligent women that like unprotected sex with me, just like millions of other people are doing, just like your mum and dad did, and you too, because you're a mother are you not?

The answer to your question is I just don't believe the risk is high enough, I'm not gonna catch HIV/AIDS/HERPES no matter how much you people will it on me.

 

[AJ84]

I told her I haven't been on an OLD date for like 6 months, kinda true except that girl I met in Feb who I smashed 2nd date, bareback for 5 min before I had to get a rubber (see, she was a classy girl!).

Also, she just came out of a 7 year relationship in November and been on 4 dates since, I don't she's been running round town taking creampies from all angles. Am I supposed to be wearing rubber all the time? I'm very convincing and persuasive, it's unfair to say these girls are trashy, why can't it be I'm just irresistible and very skilled?

Look, all 3 girls have been tested recently as have I. I have not had an STD since the famous Chlamydia-gate scandal from this time last year. I've only had the Clammy twice before that - both from the same girl. 3 times in 30 years, that's not bad considering. I'm NOT banging disgusting slags that live in dustbins and crack dens... these are presentable intelligent women that like unprotected sex with me, just like millions of other people are doing, just like your mum and dad did, and you too, because you're a mother are you not?

The answer to your question is I just don't believe the risk is high enough, I'm not gonna catch HIV/AIDS/HERPES no matter how much you people will it on me.

I would never have unprotected sex with men who are actively sleeping with other women. It’s not my thing and I guess I don’t get why a seemingly intelligent woman would choose to have unprotected sex with a guy she’s knows is having unprotected sex with other girls. I don’t see how that’s smart, wise, or an intelligent or mature choice for a woman whose fertility can be ruined if she got an STI that she didn’t know she had. This isn’t a slight towards you Murk, as these women are making this choice and are not being forced to have unprotected sex. It’s just a dumb choice imo and for that I do question their value. To me, part of having value is caring about your health and well-being.

I can’t wrap my head around that to be honest.

Even saying that you only had an STI twice is something I’m failing to see as a good thing. It’s like saying ‘I only had two small strokes so I’m going to continue to smoke.’ Or, ‘I only overdosed once so I’m going to continue to shoot up.’

I work in healthcare so I guess my stance on this reflects that. I’m seeing it from that angle.

 

[redskinsfan92]

I would never have unprotected sex with men who are actively sleeping with other women. It’s not my thing and I guess I don’t get why a seemingly intelligent woman would choose to have unprotected sex with a guy she’s knows is having unprotected sex with other girls. I don’t see how that’s smart, wise, or an intelligent or mature choice for a woman whose fertility can be ruined if she got an STI that she didn’t know she had. This isn’t a slight towards you Murk, as these women are making this choice and are not being forced to have unprotected sex. It’s just a dumb choice imo and for that I do question their value. To me, part of having value is caring about your health and well-being.

I can’t wrap my head around that to be honest.

Even saying that you only had an STI twice is something I’m failing to see as a good thing. It’s like saying ‘I only had two small strokes so I’m going to continue to smoke.’ Or, ‘I only overdosed once so I’m going to continue to shoot up.’

I work in healthcare so I guess my stance on this reflects that. I’m seeing it from that angle.

I gotta agree with her on this one. There must be some doubt in your mind if you are posting this. You want someone to say, "Oh, you'll be fine"

 

[backseatjuan]

I've never had a bj with condom. 4ish years ago I fvcked a young new fresh prostitute and the condom split and I nut inside her. I only say young new fresh because her whole mannerisms were of a newbie who hadn't even been disenfranchised from selling her cvnt for money for months on end, was definitely a young trafficked Romanian, welcome to the UK.

I'm not gonna keep on banging on about the 26 diff chicks I banged last calendar year, Its 2019 bros!

I've smashed 7 different chicks this year (on target to beat last year) NONE, I repeat, NONE, have been with a condom.

I have no children and haven't had any STD/STI since early last year when I caught chlamydia.

You guys need to stop worrying and start living, if your frame isn't strong enough to convince a bird to abort thern this game aint for you and I don't advise my lifestyle. Wrap it up!

Nothing beats ther frantic pounding of nutting inside a warm wet vagina, i'm hooked!

 

[RickTheToad]

why a seemingly intelligent woman

Possible oxymoron in this case?

 

[Murk]

I would never have unprotected sex with men who are actively sleeping with other women. It’s not my thing and I guess I don’t get why a seemingly intelligent woman would choose to have unprotected sex with a guy she’s knows is having unprotected sex with other girls. I don’t see how that’s smart, wise, or an intelligent or mature choice for a woman whose fertility can be ruined if she got an STI that she didn’t know she had. This isn’t a slight towards you Murk, as these women are making this choice and are not being forced to have unprotected sex. It’s just a dumb choice imo and for that I do question their value. To me, part of having value is caring about your health and well-being.

I can’t wrap my head around that to be honest.

Even saying that you only had an STI twice is something I’m failing to see as a good thing. It’s like saying ‘I only had two small strokes so I’m going to continue to smoke.’ Or, ‘I only overdosed once so I’m going to continue to shoot up.’

I work in healthcare so I guess my stance on this reflects that. I’m seeing it from that angle.

They don't know I'm banging around, I'm not like "oh hey I'm Murk, I bareback anything that moves, welcome to the team!"

2 STI's in 30 years and countless sexual experiences is not bad. Lot's of people I know have had an STI’s - check the statistics in the western world - I’d say most here have had an STI/STD but it’s obvious most here are all talk, or you would know it’s a minor issue rather than acting like I’m gonna get AIDS. I know because in the real world most people shrug it off. Anyway you all keep judging me pretending you’re out here really living it’s really telling, no it really is.

 

[AJ84]

They don't know I'm banging around, I'm not like "oh hey I'm Murk, I bareback anything that moves, welcome to the team!"

2 STI's in 30 years and countless sexual experiences is not bad. Lot's of people I know have had an STI’s - check the statistics in the western world - I’d say most here have had an STI/STD but it’s obvious most here are all talk, or you would know it’s a minor issue rather than acting like I’m gonna get AIDS. I know because in the real world most people shrug it off. Anyway you all keep judging me pretending you’re out here really living it’s really telling, no it really is.

So these girls are barebacking under the assumption that you are not sleeping with anyone else? Is it just that they aren’t asking or you are telling them you aren’t? Or they think it’s a relationship? From what you told me they don’t seem to think it’s a relationship of any kind. I mean the text you shared implies that she knows it’s just a hook up which is why she said you didn’t have to go over because she can’t put out due to being sick. Women who assume it’s a relationship of some kind wouldn’t say that.

Of course you probably aren’t the only one who had an STI, but Murk you are the only one bragging about barebacking three girls.

And if all you’re doing is hooking up with them, I would put money on at last one of the three of them f**king other guys in addition to you, and probably without a condom. Like I’m trying to explain to you that a girl, who provides easy lays without protection and without a defined relationship status ( ie exclusivity) is most likely of questionable value no matter how hot, fresh, clean she looks. Do you think people who walk around with Hep B or herpes don’t bath or brush their teeth or hair?
Come on now. You really dig living on the edge, I hope for your sake it doesn’t catch up with ya.

 

[Pogejr]

So these girls are barebacking under the assumption that you are not sleeping with anyone else? Is it just that they aren’t asking or you are telling them you aren’t? Or they think it’s a relationship? From what you told me they don’t seem to think it’s a relationship of any kind. I mean the text you shared implies that she knows it’s just a hook up which is why she said you didn’t have to go over because she can’t put out due to being sick. Women who assume it’s a relationship of some kind wouldn’t say that.

Of course you probably aren’t the only one who had an STI, but Murk you are the only one bragging about barebacking three girls.

And if all you’re doing is hooking up with them, I would put money on at last one of the three of them f**king other guys in addition to you, and probably without a condom. Like I’m trying to explain to you that a girl, who provides easy lays without protection and without a defined relationship status ( ie exclusivity) is most likely of questionable value no matter how hot, fresh, clean she looks. Do you think people who walk around with Hep B or herpes don’t bath or brush their teeth or hair?
Come on now. You really dig living on the edge, I hope for your sake it doesn’t catch up with ya.

Fascinating how you shame a young lady you’ve never met because she put out.

To the original poster, it seemed like a test to me. I probably would’ve rescheduled but I like your play as well. Good luck and let us know how it turns out.

 

[AJ84]

Fascinating how you shame a young lady you’ve never met because she put out.

To the original poster, it seemed like a test to me. I probably would’ve rescheduled but I like your play as well. Good luck and let us know how it turns out.

Most of the men in the manosphere lament that society no longer shames women into being respectable ladies.

Just doing my part to bringing it back to the good olde days .

 

[Murk]

So these girls are barebacking under the assumption that you are not sleeping with anyone else? Is it just that they aren’t asking or you are telling them you aren’t? Or they think it’s a relationship? From what you told me they don’t seem to think it’s a relationship of any kind. I mean the text you shared implies that she knows it’s just a hook up which is why she said you didn’t have to go over because she can’t put out due to being sick. Women who assume it’s a relationship of some kind wouldn’t say that.

Of course you probably aren’t the only one who had an STI, but Murk you are the only one bragging about barebacking three girls.

And if all you’re doing is hooking up with them, I would put money on at last one of the three of them f**king other guys in addition to you, and probably without a condom. Like I’m trying to explain to you that a girl, who provides easy lays without protection and without a defined relationship status ( ie exclusivity) is most likely of questionable value no matter how hot, fresh, clean she looks. Do you think people who walk around with Hep B or herpes don’t bath or brush their teeth or hair?
Come on now. You really dig living on the edge, I hope for your sake it doesn’t catch up with ya.

In short, they’ve never asked, one said I can do what I want just don’t let her know, she busy flat out with work finishing at midnight during the week and studying English, I see her whenever she’s free I doubt she has time for anyone else but if she does fair play to her.

Another is only seeing me and pushing for exclusivity.

The girl in the OP has said she’s not seeing anyone else (I didn’t ask) and again all her free time is with me.

None of these girls are receiving calls/texts like I am when we are together, I’ve checked phones when they are not around and no msgs on the home screen from men. I can only assume I’m the only one but it counting on it.

AJ you never let a guy inside you raw that wasn’t your bf? Actually don’t answer that we all know the answer. Am I supposed to always wear condoms because someone might have herpes/hpv? What a boring life no thanks.

 

[redskinsfan92]

Fascinating how you shame a young lady you’ve never met because she put out.

To the original poster, it seemed like a test to me. I probably would’ve rescheduled but I like your play as well. Good luck and let us know how it turns out.

She shamed her for not using protection.

 

[AJ84]

In short, they’ve never asked, one said I can do what I want just don’t let her know, she busy flat out with work finishing at midnight during the week and studying English, I see her whenever she’s free I doubt she has time for anyone else but if she does fair play to her.

Another is only seeing me and pushing for exclusivity.

The girl in the OP has said she’s not seeing anyone else (I didn’t ask) and again all her free time is with me.

None of these girls are receiving calls/texts like I am when we are together, I’ve checked phones when they are not around and no msgs on the home screen from men. I can only assume I’m the only one but it counting on it.

AJ you never let a guy inside you raw that wasn’t your bf? Actually don’t answer that we all know the answer. Am I supposed to always wear condoms because someone might have herpes/hpv? What a boring life no thanks.

Murk, when a woman says you can do what you want, just don’t let her know, assume that she is gonna do the same. Really, unless you have had the talk with her and have defined the situation as an exclusive relationship, assume it isn’t. Especially if they are giving it up easily.

Also, pushing for exclusivity doesn’t mean she isn’t seeing other guys. And not hearing or seeing her phone go off doesn’t mean she’s not getting texts. Don’t you know how sneaky we are? Lol

Not trying to make you paranoid but think about it, really. You’re not dating women in some Mormon polygamist compound in Utah, you are dating modern women were it’s the norm to date around and see what’s the best choice, just like modern men.

And I’m not shaming girls who want to be casual, it is 2019. But yes I am shaming these girls who are causal and not using protection. It’s beyond dumb IMO.

And no. I have never had unprotected sex with a guy who was not my bf and with whom I was not in a relationship.

I don’t find being STD free boring.

 

[Murk]

Murk, when a woman says you can do what you want, just don’t let her know, assume that she is gonna do the same. Really, unless you have had the talk with her and have defined the situation as an exclusive relationship, assume it isn’t. Especially if they are giving it up easily.

Also, pushing for exclusivity doesn’t mean she isn’t seeing other guys. And not hearing or seeing her phone go off doesn’t mean she’s not getting texts. Don’t you know how sneaky we are? Lol

Not trying to make you paranoid but think about it, really. You’re not dating women in some Mormon polygamist compound in Utah, you are dating modern women were it’s the norm to date around and see what’s the best choice, just like modern men.

And I’m not shaming girls who want to be casual, it is 2019. But yes I am shaming these girls who are causal and not using protection. It’s beyond dumb IMO.

And no. I have never had unprotected sex with a guy who was not my bf and with whom I was not in a relationship.

I don’t find being STD free boring.

OK, they are fvcking all and sundry. We'll all end up with herpes soon don't you worry, I'll be sure to post when that happens too so you can revel in smugness.

Anyway I have a question, my nurse friend said a UTI/water infection will clear up ASAP when you take anti biotics so she thinks this girls is lying to me. I just spoke to OP girl on the phone and she still wants me to stay over tomorrow. I kinda hoped we'd just go for a meal, chill for a bit and I'd be able to go home to my own bed and possibly wank. Why is this girl wanting me to still come over and spend the night with her without sex. I'll tell you why, she's sprung, she loves my snuggles, my kisses, I've known her 12 days, this is what I do to women. If only you were in London AJ you'd be on rotation and be none the wiser quicker than you can say "I usually use condoms... but just this once".

Night x

 

[sazc]

Wait.... WTF is a 'water infection'?! A UTI?

I'm under the impression you can't catch a UTI. A UTI isn't even considered an STD...

 

[AJ84]

OK, they are fvcking all and sundry. We'll all end up with herpes soon don't you worry, I'll be sure to post when that happens too so you can revel in smugness.

Anyway I have a question, my nurse friend said a UTI/water infection will clear up ASAP when you take anti biotics so she thinks this girls is lying to me. I just spoke to OP girl on the phone and she still wants me to stay over tomorrow. I kinda hoped we'd just go for a meal, chill for a bit and I'd be able to go home to my own bed and possibly wank. Why is this girl wanting me to still come over and spend the night with her without sex. I'll tell you why, she's sprung, she loves my snuggles, my kisses, I've known her 12 days, this is what I do to women. If only you were in London AJ you'd be on rotation and be none the wiser quicker than you can say "I usually use condoms... but just this once".

Night x

Hahaha Murk you keep it real, you are who you are lol.

I would not gloat if you got herpes. I have no ill will towards you or anyone else on the site.

A UTI can take days to clear up yeah. They can be painful too so would be understandable if she didn’t want to mess around that much.

Also, one of the side effects of taking anti-biotics is yeast infections especially if it’s a broad spectrum antibiotic. So she may have a yeast infection and not want to mess around for that reason.

It’s nice that she wants to see you anyway, and I’m not saying that none of these girls like you Murk because they seem to.

Would love to visit London, but I have zero interest in being a plate on some guys rotation lol. That’s not my thing but enjoy and do consider protection not just for STDs but in case one of these girls tries to hook you with a surprise pregnancy which I recall was a recent scare you experienced with another plate.

 

[sazc]

The symptoms of the infection, specifically the burning on urination and the dire urge to go when you dont have to, do clear up immediately. But the bacteria that caused the infection is still present in the bladder, that can take a few days to clear out.

She asked you to sleep over because she is probably feeling better.

 

[Mazer]

I remember the few times I hit it raw. It was always because I had too much to drink and couldn’t control myself. I got “caught up” in the moment. These days I’m more responsible when it comes to using protection. Pregnancy worries me more than STDs.
I would just hang out with her and bang her out on the next date.

 

[Spaz]

UTI is not a big deal.

Tons of women get it and it's easily cleared off with antibiotics.

So much drama in this thread for a simple UTI..boggles the mind.