Wat Will U Do If U Are Me?

[HNSG78]

Hi fellow DJs....

Really need you guys to advise on what to do...

I have fallen in love with a girl who also has the same feelings towards me. I am 26 and she is 30 years of age.

However, she keeps refusing to confirm on our steady relationship status. Reason is she had broken up with her ex just 3 months ago.

We have been going out together and done the usual hugging, holding of hands and even pecked on the lips for once.

But I can feel that she is visibly troubled. So finally to settle this once and for all, I just met up with her and she dropped the bombshell that her previous ex had taken her first precious time - She is not a virgin anymore!

Please advise me on what to do. I love her but I can't lie to myself that I am not bothered by this fact.

Should I carry on the relationship? Please help..Thanks

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Dude, I hate to burst your bubble, but she probably had more than one man sexually - she is 30 years old!! This should be no surprised. If you want a virgin go for girls 23 and under, your chances are better finding one. I don't know what you mean by 'love' - since you only been togetrher 3 months - is this infactuation?

She is trying to act like a virgin and tried to fool you because she knows that is what you want from a girl, so she was acting like a virgin and deceived you in believing she was one! You just found out after 3 months?? HUH??? Only just got a kiss after 3 months??? Is she trying to become a virgin again?? You should be upset because you've been deceived by her actions for the last 3 months.

 

[ManOMan]

Maybe this is a Singapore thing, are women as prude and sexually repressed as you say?

Also, I can never understand how someone falls in love with another after 3 months?

You had better get over your pride into thinking you struck gold with a virgin, if she had an ex, chances are they were having sex 10 times a week for how many years?

 

[HNSG78]

thanks fellows for your replies...

Seriously, I really hope that what she said about her sex experience is true and that is, they did it only once.

But how do I find out whether she is telling the truth that her ex has sort of forced on her and she was the unwilling party? How many times did it happen?

I have never let her know that my intention is to find a virgin but I guess virgins aren't important nowadays right?