Was she flirting?! Or Being nice?

[yankees13]

Ok

Got confused today a little lol. Went to Sephora today, to get a new cologne this chick was helping me out...Was friendly throughout convo.. So i got frustrated because i didnt know what to get, so i asked her what do you like? She responded" I like alot of stuff".. I was like no i mean in colognes?

Then she was like oh ok. She shows me some stuff sprays it on etc.. The she asks are you from here? And i was like yea. Then i ask why? She says i have an accent and look European?! What the hell i was born and raised in NYC and she has a nerve to tell me i have a accent? IS that good or bad?

So i was on the subway thinking? Was she flirting, being friendly or what?.. Any opinions

 

[SLIKKER_THAN_AVG]

I would say shes naturally flirty, and that she was also being friendly because that is what her job entails..that is JMO though.

She may have a thing for the eurpeans so if thats the case, you need to get back to that booth and close son! Turn that subway the f*ck around and get those digits.

 

[Mr. Mystery]

I recently let this stuff confuse me. And I never should have, no man should.

Don't worry about whether or not she likes you.

If you like her make a move, but don't waste time trying to figure out whether or not she like you, go after what you want.

Your in the driver's seat.

Mr. Mystery

 

[Quick]

Always have a healthy suspicion around salesgirls and waiters. There are a lot of them that see flirting as part of their job description. If she's really flirtatious and you think it might be personal, you've got to ask for her number. Then you'll know for sure.

 

[Mazman]

I would say she was being friendly.

I don't know if I'm dense, but it doesn't sound to me she was flirting at all.

 

[Starman]

Was she being friendly or flirty??

What DIFFERENCE does it make? you didnt get her #.

 

[Nickster]

Same type of message again

It seems that there are so many of these messages out there. Does this mean she likes me, or is she just being friendly. As stated before, IT DOESN'T REALLY MATTER! If you like her and feel that there's some chemistry, make some sort of move. It's a huge compliment for a girl to get ask out! Especially by someone decent like yourself.

There is no shame in getting turned down. Everyone gets rejected, and I mean everyone! Be a man. If you're going to play quarterback, you're going to have to take some hits. Only then will you be able to complete a pass (pun intended). There is no permanent record that keeps track of your female successes and failures. You will not be branded for life. Make her reject you, and don't give up before then!

So get out of your analytical little world where you've thought each situation, each conversation, each action to death. Your better than that. Do what you want (while being respectful) and let whatever happens, happen.

 

[mahon83050]

Originally posted by yankees13
Ok

Got confused today a little lol. Went to Sephora today, to get a new cologne this chick was helping me out...Was friendly throughout convo.. So i got frustrated because i didnt know what to get, so i asked her what do you like? She responded" I like alot of stuff".. I was like no i mean in colognes?

Then she was like oh ok. She shows me some stuff sprays it on etc.. The she asks are you from here? And i was like yea. Then i ask why? She says i have an accent and look European?! What the hell i was born and raised in NYC and she has a nerve to tell me i have a accent? IS that good or bad?

So i was on the subway thinking? Was she flirting, being friendly or what?.. Any opinions

Remember this, always follow your gut feeling. If you think a chick digs you, she probably does. Of course, there is no 100% way to know that for sure, but ask her out if "you think" she digs you. BTW, when chicks ask you alot of personal questions that is a good sign. However, since she was in the customer service field it may be hard to tell.

 

[tx_xp]

Originally posted by yankees13
Ok

Got confused today a little lol. Went to Sephora today, to get a new cologne this chick was helping me out...Was friendly throughout convo.. So i got frustrated because i didnt know what to get, so i asked her what do you like? She responded" I like alot of stuff".. I was like no i mean in colognes?

Then she was like oh ok. She shows me some stuff sprays it on etc.. The she asks are you from here? And i was like yea. Then i ask why? She says i have an accent and look European?! What the hell i was born and raised in NYC and she has a nerve to tell me i have a accent? IS that good or bad?

So i was on the subway thinking? Was she flirting, being friendly or what?.. Any opinions

This is flirting for sure, doesn't mean she would go out with you or anything but she is showing some interest to she how you would react.

 

[killerasp]

People raised in NYC have accessts that they dont realize.

For instance...i dont pronounce my R's. so when i say stairs it sounds like "stais".