I post this because I tire of DOC Love's thread topics about men gaming women. YOU CANNOT COMPARE LIFE TO THE STAGE THAT IS HOLLYWOOD. Nothing there is real. If anything, Hollywood has a secret contract with each other to constantly generate as much controversy and drama so that life offstage mimics life onstage and people constantly have CRAP to talk about.
Moreover, alpha, dj, afc, are just f-ed up titles. Who cares what one is?
Is an Alpha male someone who is the supreme top of the crop? Should we mimic him in the hopes of attaining? If you mimiced an ALPHA/DJ male, would you be an Alpha/DJ male?
No. You would STILL be the same. You'd be an AFC, because the AVERAGE FRUSTRATED CHUMP Follows OTHERS. So even if he's FOLLOWING a program that might yield success, he's still a Chump that hasn't learned his lesson because HE DOES NOT OWN HIS life. The programs that he follows do. The women he seeks to possess, actually possess him, because he foresakes his own uniqueness, all for the chance to POSSESS/OWN/OR experience a certain woman. The very fact he HAS taken this so-called trail actually NEGATES his growth or accension to another level of BEING. Sad, isn't it?
IMO, anytime we try to control or have some "intention" with a woman, it backfires. Rather, a guy knows when to hold 'em, and when to fold 'em. He lives for the moment, mind always on the present, and with and through full passion. In that, he's free. His mind doesn't rule him, he rules his mind. Negative thoughts are no different than the negative banter heard from the news, friends, family, naysayers, AFC's, or girls who hate on his "freedom" (a bushism if there ever was one).
You can't FORCE a woman into anything, and there's rarely tactics that are foolproof. They might work 50% of the time, but even then, the other 50% you might lose them. Tactics such as those should be examined to see if they are becoming of a valuable person, of an honorable person, and of a conscious person. The tactic itself denotes the quality of whom you will attract. Using the CALL RULE normally only works on a specific crop of women. Likewise, women who use tactics on men, will only get certain men, quite often too. You should think of who you are and what message your sending out through your actions. I've never found game-playing to be a worthwhile strategy when trying to meet women and get-laid. WAITING on a girl is foolish, in almost all respects. That's just one such "dumb" idea.
The reason it came up is because guys will call, and call, and call, with no purpose. He's too afraid to ASK her out, or to ASK to hang out with her. It SHOULD be assumed you're on the same level. If her answer isn't yes, then throw it down. Why wait? What does she not know about you or need to know to even just meet for a little bit? It's fairly logical if you pay any mind to it.
If you're gaming scores of women at once, then call when it pleases you. And call with a purpose. If you juggle multiple plates, when you call, be ready to plan something, or expect her to want to plan something. As I learned in the past, girls who eagerly want to see you, even if you're dating other's as well, will hit you on the spot with wanting to see you. So if you call, don't be BS-ing her and putting off. Stoke her interest MORE by accepting and WANTING to do something. If you honestly don't WANT TO, NEXT her. This is ALL about WANT and PLEASURE.
In the end, if you're a husband or boyfriend or just a fun date, the MORE YOU WANT TO, the better you'll be, the more she WILL WANT to. This compounds on itself, because as she's excited, so too will you be. And what predates ALL of this is her interest in you. If you have a woman you have to CONVINCE, you'll forever be convincing her, unless something miraculous happens, which it rarely does.
To me, the Dj bible, this site, and sites like are meant to BRING down illusions, not build walls and protocols and procedures and modes of operating. That was PRECISELY the problem that brought you here. You, and I, were locked into the trap of the mind, operating on ONLY a set schedule, by directions. Operating within the confines of set protocols is fine for an operational society, but very POOR for living your life to the fullest.
A-Unit
Moreover, alpha, dj, afc, are just f-ed up titles. Who cares what one is?
Is an Alpha male someone who is the supreme top of the crop? Should we mimic him in the hopes of attaining? If you mimiced an ALPHA/DJ male, would you be an Alpha/DJ male?
No. You would STILL be the same. You'd be an AFC, because the AVERAGE FRUSTRATED CHUMP Follows OTHERS. So even if he's FOLLOWING a program that might yield success, he's still a Chump that hasn't learned his lesson because HE DOES NOT OWN HIS life. The programs that he follows do. The women he seeks to possess, actually possess him, because he foresakes his own uniqueness, all for the chance to POSSESS/OWN/OR experience a certain woman. The very fact he HAS taken this so-called trail actually NEGATES his growth or accension to another level of BEING. Sad, isn't it?
IMO, anytime we try to control or have some "intention" with a woman, it backfires. Rather, a guy knows when to hold 'em, and when to fold 'em. He lives for the moment, mind always on the present, and with and through full passion. In that, he's free. His mind doesn't rule him, he rules his mind. Negative thoughts are no different than the negative banter heard from the news, friends, family, naysayers, AFC's, or girls who hate on his "freedom" (a bushism if there ever was one).
You can't FORCE a woman into anything, and there's rarely tactics that are foolproof. They might work 50% of the time, but even then, the other 50% you might lose them. Tactics such as those should be examined to see if they are becoming of a valuable person, of an honorable person, and of a conscious person. The tactic itself denotes the quality of whom you will attract. Using the CALL RULE normally only works on a specific crop of women. Likewise, women who use tactics on men, will only get certain men, quite often too. You should think of who you are and what message your sending out through your actions. I've never found game-playing to be a worthwhile strategy when trying to meet women and get-laid. WAITING on a girl is foolish, in almost all respects. That's just one such "dumb" idea.
The reason it came up is because guys will call, and call, and call, with no purpose. He's too afraid to ASK her out, or to ASK to hang out with her. It SHOULD be assumed you're on the same level. If her answer isn't yes, then throw it down. Why wait? What does she not know about you or need to know to even just meet for a little bit? It's fairly logical if you pay any mind to it.
If you're gaming scores of women at once, then call when it pleases you. And call with a purpose. If you juggle multiple plates, when you call, be ready to plan something, or expect her to want to plan something. As I learned in the past, girls who eagerly want to see you, even if you're dating other's as well, will hit you on the spot with wanting to see you. So if you call, don't be BS-ing her and putting off. Stoke her interest MORE by accepting and WANTING to do something. If you honestly don't WANT TO, NEXT her. This is ALL about WANT and PLEASURE.
In the end, if you're a husband or boyfriend or just a fun date, the MORE YOU WANT TO, the better you'll be, the more she WILL WANT to. This compounds on itself, because as she's excited, so too will you be. And what predates ALL of this is her interest in you. If you have a woman you have to CONVINCE, you'll forever be convincing her, unless something miraculous happens, which it rarely does.
To me, the Dj bible, this site, and sites like are meant to BRING down illusions, not build walls and protocols and procedures and modes of operating. That was PRECISELY the problem that brought you here. You, and I, were locked into the trap of the mind, operating on ONLY a set schedule, by directions. Operating within the confines of set protocols is fine for an operational society, but very POOR for living your life to the fullest.
A-Unit