Was I almost a sucess?

[D'light]

ok, first im just going to say, I have never had sex before and I think this was the closest ive ever come.

First off, im a freshmen in college, and im very inexperienced in this.

Last saturday night, I went out to a party. I was just having a good time and macking up on the chicks until I was waiting in line to piss. I starte talking to this girl there and we got on to the subject of the music. I asked her if she wanted to dance, and she said sure. I was in front of her in line, so I waited for her to go. When she came out, we went to the dance floor and grinded it up good. A few minutes later, my freind came and told me I was up in beer pong. The girl I was supposed to play with wasent around, so me and this other girl were going to play. Well, it turns out there was one more game to wait. We stood around next to eachoher massaging eachothers sides and i was rubbing her azz and stuff. My freind was like, d'light, ask her back to your room and tap that. This girl didnt go to my school, so I was like, sure its worth a try. I asked her back, she said she doesnt do that one night stand stuff, I said good thing, thats pretty nasty. I was very drunk, in case this comment doesnt make any sense. We kept waiting and I kept macking until her freind came up, the guy she was here with, and I met him. I met him and he left us. I kept working at it and, eventually he came back and said they had to leave. we kissed for a min, then she left.

Question: was that almost a sucess? I wanna bring a girl back next time, and if i stick to that kind of plan, do i have a chance of sucess. Thanks

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

The only real thing you did wrong was ask her directly to go back.

Most women want to be treated well, not like some easy lay. You directly implied that you wanted to go back and have sex.

That is too mechanical in delivery and makes her seem cheap and unimprotant. You need to get them excited and in an adventurous mood. Tell her the place is starting to get tired and ask her if she wants to bail with you and get some pizza or something. Then as you two are alone, you can start working it a bit more until you think you can get her back, She won't do it infront of her friends, I'd doubt.

The Bad Ass Canadian

 

[Slickster]

Bad Asses logic is bang on.

Try something like:

"Hey come here, I wanna show you something..."

Take her to your room and show her some pictures or something.
Then work it from there.

 

[princelydeeds]

Women almost never look at substance only your style. Even though both of you know that the only real reason to go back to your place, is to bone, you have to plresent it like you respect her and just want to spend quality time. Unless you know a woman well, never just come out and ask her for sex. Always be subtle and smooth. If you hit, she wants to be able to trick HERSELF and her friends, if they find out, into thinking that "it just happened." This is part of the anti slut defense. Slickster and Bad ASS are right on in their advice

 

[D'light]

thanks for all the great feedback, you guys sound like you really know your stuff.

oh well, we all make mistakes, thats one i wont make again