Want to get back at an ex AND have an easy way to approach HB10s?

Brighty

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After recently getting out of a bad relationship, there's nothing I want to do more now than to rub it into my ex just how much fun I'm having without her. This is a perfect way for people who just want to rub it in their ex's face in a nice and subtle way, while at the same time working on their confidence/approaching skills. And its simple and FUN!

Step 1: Acquire a camera

Step 2: Go to a party this weekend

Step 3: Find two hot girls, you literally have the entire party to choose from - don't treat it as though you're gaming them, treat it as though you're just grabbing them for a quick bit of fun. This should help ease your mind if your confidence isn't there yet. Because they're already drunk and they're looking for some harmless fun, you'll peak their curiosity when you grab them and tell them "you need them for this badass picture".

Step 4: Explain to the girls that you just got out of a relationship and you need to make your ex jealous, in a light, upbeat manner, smiling broadly. I suggest making up some sob story about you were cheated on or how she did something *****y (remember, keep it a light and happy mood!). And tell the girls that you need to get back at her by taking a scandalous picture with two beautiful girls. If you've got the right happy-go-lucky attitude and the party's got a general feel-good vibe to it, they will be more than happy to oblige.

Step 5: Start off light, have someone else snap a picture with your arms around these two girls. Then, with a smile say no that's too tame. Up the ante a bit, don't go too far with it, and feel free to command the girls on how to pose. Girls love taking pictures and they especially love getting back at *****es, and if you did your job right you set up your ex (real or imaginary) to be the ULTIMATE *****. The girls don't sense that you're trying to pick them up, so they don't have their guard up, and you'd be surprised how risque they may get as long as you have the right attitude. :up:

Step 6: Get your camera back and thank the girls for their time. Then introduce yourself. You guys have a fun experience that you three can share, you're already semi-comfortable around them, you've already demonstrated that you have social proof to other girls in the party and you've demonstrated that you have an attractive attitude. Aaaand presto! You're free to number close.

Epilogue: Even if you don't score with either of the girls, you now have a pretty epic photo album you can upload to Facebook and your choosing of a default that will make every guy on your friends list green with envy. And also because ex's check up on you habitually to see if your miserable or not, they'll be infuriated to see a girl much more attractive than them ALL over you... but wait. Not just one girl, TWO girls. Enjoy the potential social proof that this may bring you from here-on out.

I tested this out with fantastic results last weekend, I ended up making out with both girls at the same time and got a picture of it. A pity my family all has me as a friend on FB, but that one definitely is in an album that's pretty public to everyone but them :box:

Give it a try, let me know how it works for you.
 

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SharinganUser said:
This wouldn't work for me because nobody is allowed to touch my camera.
That is why you also get a cheap little pocket compact camera that you don't worry about or mind anyone else using! ;)
 

alwayslead8821

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I like it! Nice man I think I must have to do this weekend and it would be a true story also.
Thanks!
 

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rushing dude 123

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hm i have to disagree with this, which i am sure you anticipitated. For people who want to get back at their ex, they have bigger problems to worry about. The worst thing you can do to your ex is forget about her entirelly and it is the best medicine for yourself. It can be hard, but if people have such a deep desire to get back at there ex, it looks like the ex has already won.

However for social proof wise, i guess this is not a bad tactic to an extent if you have a few potential plates that have had you, may peack there interest.
 

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rushing dude 123 said:
hm i have to disagree with this, which i am sure you anticipitated. For people who want to get back at their ex, they have bigger problems to worry about. The worst thing you can do to your ex is forget about her entirelly and it is the best medicine for yourself. It can be hard, but if people have such a deep desire to get back at there ex, it looks like the ex has already won.

However for social proof wise, i guess this is not a bad tactic to an extent if you have a few potential plates that have had you, may peack there interest.
True, but the ex isn't going to know that. Unless he sends her a mesage saying, Hey check out my new pics!

Otherwise, she'll just browse facebook and think, "Oh sh!t, he forgot about me pretty quickly..."

But I think you're saying HE won't feel any better about the situation. And I agree. He just needs to move on and don't worry about her.
 

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No reason to try to get back at an ex. Move on with your life.
 

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Brighty said:
After recently getting out of a bad relationship, there's nothing I want to do more now than to rub it into my ex just how much fun I'm having without her. This is a perfect way for people who just want to rub it in their ex's face in a nice and subtle way, while at the same time working on their confidence/approaching skills. And its simple and FUN!
Sounds vengeful, petty, and catty, something a girl would do

You are a man, you are better than that

Now I understand what Pook meant when he said that being attractive is all about the proper mindset
 

ThatMysteriousGuy

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Brighty said:
After recently getting out of a bad relationship, there's nothing I want to do more now than to rub it into my ex just how much fun I'm having without her. This is a perfect way for people who just want to rub it in their ex's face in a nice and subtle way, while at the same time working on their confidence/approaching skills. And its simple and FUN!
That's quite a lot of work to put in for some girl who dumped you. And, this is a girly thing to do.

Doesn't it bother your logic circuits in the slightest that you're going to fake being with other women to show your ex how much women want you? Not to mention, the girls you're doing this will have fun with it because you're doing girl stuff with them so don't be surprised when they 100% certainly LJBF you and you have to find another set of girls to fake being with to upset the fake girls you were with.

Get it together man. Crap like this is girl stuff and you'll keep getting dumped until you stop it.
 

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