Viper423
Senior Don Juan
Ok, so there is this girl that I like and I know that she used to like me. The reason i say used to is cause i'm not sure if she does anymore. Here's what happened....we both go to different schools and so i asked her to my prom then she asked me to hers. Well, i took her to my prom like 2 weeks ago and i turned into a complete nice guy that night. I still kinoed a lot...grabed her hand a lot, we held hands a lot, i put my arm around her waist when we were standing by each other...I thought i actually did a good job. When i took her home at the end of the night I kind of awkwardly kissed her on the cheek...i had to grab her face and turn it cause she started to walk inside.
This girl has never had a boyfriend before but i know that she has messed around with some guy before just for the hell of it. Well, the day after, she's talking to her best friend which is also one of my friends, and she tells her that I'm just too nice. So my friend tells me this, and i realize that maybe i was a nice guy that night, even though i purposely was trying not to be and kinoed a lot. Anyways, since then I've been thinking that this girl isn't worth my time to work on since she's never been in a relationship before.
Well, I've pretty much stopped calling her and stuff. So yesterday she calls and asks me to go the movies with her and some of her friends. Well, she messages me today and asks me where i want to eat and stuff for her prom. Well, I've taken the whole "screw it" attitude now with her and things in general and it seems as though she's coming back after me.
My question is, if I play my cards right, ie. start acting like i was when i first attracted her and saying screw it with things like i am now, could i still get her? Also, since she's messed around with some guy before just for the hell of it, what if after her prom I just say," Look, I don't want a relationship and I know you don't either, I just wanna mess around. So if you want to then cool, if not, then thats fine too." My other friend who knows her better then i do told me i should say this cause he thinks she'll actually go for it.
This girl has never had a boyfriend before but i know that she has messed around with some guy before just for the hell of it. Well, the day after, she's talking to her best friend which is also one of my friends, and she tells her that I'm just too nice. So my friend tells me this, and i realize that maybe i was a nice guy that night, even though i purposely was trying not to be and kinoed a lot. Anyways, since then I've been thinking that this girl isn't worth my time to work on since she's never been in a relationship before.
Well, I've pretty much stopped calling her and stuff. So yesterday she calls and asks me to go the movies with her and some of her friends. Well, she messages me today and asks me where i want to eat and stuff for her prom. Well, I've taken the whole "screw it" attitude now with her and things in general and it seems as though she's coming back after me.
My question is, if I play my cards right, ie. start acting like i was when i first attracted her and saying screw it with things like i am now, could i still get her? Also, since she's messed around with some guy before just for the hell of it, what if after her prom I just say," Look, I don't want a relationship and I know you don't either, I just wanna mess around. So if you want to then cool, if not, then thats fine too." My other friend who knows her better then i do told me i should say this cause he thinks she'll actually go for it.
You cool with juss messin aroudn, havin fun without being tied down? Most girls nowadays like to just mess around without emotional attachment.