ArmyBoyATC
Don Juan
Hi everyone. I know I'm new to the site but I've been reading for a couple of weeks and finally decided to join up. I wouldn't say I'm a master Don Juan but I get mine I can assure you of that.
I wanted to contribute to the site. I didn't want to beat a dead horse with approaches, text game etc. I wanted to talk about something that seems to be avoided and a question I've seen asked multiple times..... Drumroll please............... STYLE.
Lets get down to primal basics. In the wild, all the males are the pretty animals. Don't believe me? Read a book bro. The objective is to attract females! Isn't that what we are here for? Attract them to you! Stand out from the average. You are a DJ. You are above average. Look the part.
You're a man, stop dressing like a teenager. Throw those printed T's, tennis shoes and baggy jeans in the garbage or use them for household chores.
Lets get started.
Style is the most beneficial thing you can have. I get approached and complimented on my style regularly. First step is to stay on top of style. Get a subscription to Esquire, GQ and mens health magazine. They have great style tips, what's in, what's out and where to buy stuff.
Everyone is unique. You have your own style. This is not a one stop shop thread. Just advise to give you that boost into your own style. Basic rules and some of my own personal looks. Once you find that style, the one you see yourself wearing, you must plan. You need to create a budget, know what you need as far as how many shirts, pants, socks, shoes, etc, and then go shopping.
Guys, style can make or break you. You're not gonna go hit up the chick who is dressed like crap at the bars or clubs right? Same with her. The more approachable you look, the easier it is to approach. It's called "peacocking". Get noticed with an awesome wardrobe and use it to your advantage. It can up your game exponentially.
Lets start at the bottom with undershirts. "Why is this important? I've been wearing the same undershirts for years and its never been a problem." That IS the problem. The undershirt is your first layer of defense from sweat and odor. It is on the front lines of a battle with your skin and all the BS is secretes. Because of this, it has a very short life before you start looking like Joe Dirt.
Undershirts should be plain in color, no logos or writing. The collar should lay flat and neat with no wrinkles and should fit somewhat snug against you. It should not be visible through your over shirt. A wife beater outline through your shirt makes you look trashy and broke. See you at the trailer park. Don't be afraid to add different colors to spruce up outfits.
"How do I tell when it's bad or time to get a new one?" Simple, when you buy undershirts, save one from the package and hang it up. Every couple of weeks of usage and washes, compare the ones you do wear to the "display" shirt and if yours aren't as white, the collar is stretched (bacon neck), pit stains etc then toss them and go buy more. The higher quality of undershirt you buy, the longer it will last.
How to wear it: if you're wearing an extremely casual outfit like polo, jeans and sneakers then its ok to see your undershirt up past your collar. If you're dressing up fancy with a button down shirt, slacks and shoes then you should not be able to see your undershirt. Nothing is worse than someone wearing a nice outfit with a button down shirt and 4" of his undershirt is sticking up and stretched around is neck. You look like an 80 year old man. Bro, go buy some V necks. Show that manly chest off and for god sakes, shave it!
I personally wear V necks all the time so I don't have to worry about it at all. Why test the limits? I treat undershirts like underwear. I just don't show it. Makes things simple and clean.
Where to buy it: Walmart if you're ballin on a budget and if you're just ballin then places like banana republic and American apparel have nice options that will look great and last a long time.
I wanted to contribute to the site. I didn't want to beat a dead horse with approaches, text game etc. I wanted to talk about something that seems to be avoided and a question I've seen asked multiple times..... Drumroll please............... STYLE.
Lets get down to primal basics. In the wild, all the males are the pretty animals. Don't believe me? Read a book bro. The objective is to attract females! Isn't that what we are here for? Attract them to you! Stand out from the average. You are a DJ. You are above average. Look the part.
You're a man, stop dressing like a teenager. Throw those printed T's, tennis shoes and baggy jeans in the garbage or use them for household chores.
Lets get started.
Style is the most beneficial thing you can have. I get approached and complimented on my style regularly. First step is to stay on top of style. Get a subscription to Esquire, GQ and mens health magazine. They have great style tips, what's in, what's out and where to buy stuff.
Everyone is unique. You have your own style. This is not a one stop shop thread. Just advise to give you that boost into your own style. Basic rules and some of my own personal looks. Once you find that style, the one you see yourself wearing, you must plan. You need to create a budget, know what you need as far as how many shirts, pants, socks, shoes, etc, and then go shopping.
Guys, style can make or break you. You're not gonna go hit up the chick who is dressed like crap at the bars or clubs right? Same with her. The more approachable you look, the easier it is to approach. It's called "peacocking". Get noticed with an awesome wardrobe and use it to your advantage. It can up your game exponentially.
Lets start at the bottom with undershirts. "Why is this important? I've been wearing the same undershirts for years and its never been a problem." That IS the problem. The undershirt is your first layer of defense from sweat and odor. It is on the front lines of a battle with your skin and all the BS is secretes. Because of this, it has a very short life before you start looking like Joe Dirt.
Undershirts should be plain in color, no logos or writing. The collar should lay flat and neat with no wrinkles and should fit somewhat snug against you. It should not be visible through your over shirt. A wife beater outline through your shirt makes you look trashy and broke. See you at the trailer park. Don't be afraid to add different colors to spruce up outfits.
"How do I tell when it's bad or time to get a new one?" Simple, when you buy undershirts, save one from the package and hang it up. Every couple of weeks of usage and washes, compare the ones you do wear to the "display" shirt and if yours aren't as white, the collar is stretched (bacon neck), pit stains etc then toss them and go buy more. The higher quality of undershirt you buy, the longer it will last.
How to wear it: if you're wearing an extremely casual outfit like polo, jeans and sneakers then its ok to see your undershirt up past your collar. If you're dressing up fancy with a button down shirt, slacks and shoes then you should not be able to see your undershirt. Nothing is worse than someone wearing a nice outfit with a button down shirt and 4" of his undershirt is sticking up and stretched around is neck. You look like an 80 year old man. Bro, go buy some V necks. Show that manly chest off and for god sakes, shave it!
I personally wear V necks all the time so I don't have to worry about it at all. Why test the limits? I treat undershirts like underwear. I just don't show it. Makes things simple and clean.
Where to buy it: Walmart if you're ballin on a budget and if you're just ballin then places like banana republic and American apparel have nice options that will look great and last a long time.
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