Walking Fine Line Between Being a DJ and a "Nice Guy"

[8daapple]

Hey everyone, I've been reading alot about being a DJ and how not to be an AFC.

We all know girls love the DJs.

I'm just wondering about how to deal with this girl which whom I am currently seeing. I want to be a DJ but also show flashes of being a gentleman and do some nice things for her once in a while.

Does being nice, put me back in AFC territory? I guess I'm confused between maintaining a DJ disposition all the time, and when to be a respectable gentleman.

 

[bigneil]

We're always in the 49% to 51% margin between nice guy and assh*le, myself leaning to the latter.

 

[Konada]

Have self-respect, reciprocate if necessary

 

[zekko]

I want to be a DJ but also show flashes of being a gentleman and do some nice things for her once in a while.

How about being yourself and how you want to be and eff all this fake sh!t.

By the way, lots of guys do the gentlemanly thing to great effect, especially if they are doing it sincerely, as it sounds like you would. Just as long as you don't lose your self respect, and remember you are a man. It also helps to have multiple options.