Walk of Defeat

[Raven125]

Tonight i got to finally test out what i have learned so far from this site... i did notice a differance, because i was able to be myself and wasn't shy to say anything... i was noticed by absolutly no girls in a more than friendly way, i attempted to play with them and kino but it all failed.

Towards the end i just went up and talked to them in a normal fashion, the response was the usuall, they laughed when i made jokes and we had some intresting convos.

Once again though i think i have proved to be a nice guy, but now a nice guy with self esteem and balls. Overall i feel that i failed as i didnt even get a second glance when i was leaving.

Anyone think they know why i cant stop being so nice around girls... no i dont let them walk over me anymore either... i mean im just being me and that makes the girls think of me in a friendly way, not the way i want.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

hold up... your 13?
Where are you picking chicks up? At 13 I was liking chicks but I was still trying to break myself of pokemon and DBZ, lol. Give it time, and keep approaching. Right now the girls might not be ready or whatever, but if you keep it up, at such ayoung age, you can really take the world by storm...

 

[Raven125]

Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
hold up... your 13?
Where are you picking chicks up? At 13 I was liking chicks but I was still trying to break myself of pokemon and DBZ, lol. Give it time, and keep approaching. Right now the girls might not be ready or whatever, but if you keep it up, at such ayoung age, you can really take the world by storm...

im one of the few people who hasnt made out and in reality ive never kissed or been kissed by a girl... besides on the cheek which is just weak. I think that shows they are ready

 

[PiHiPlaya]

There are some people on this board that are in their mid 20's and still haven't been kissed. Trust me Keep practicing.... girls change ALOT in 2 years!

 

[VIVAlasVEGASBaby]

I'm 14 and I haven't been kissed, but high school starts in a month or so, and there i will be king!!!!!!!

 

[Sammo]

Originally posted by Raven125
im one of the few people who hasnt made out and in reality ive never kissed or been kissed by a girl... besides on the cheek which is just weak. I think that shows they are ready

No big deal, i was the same as you when i came here, except 2 years older.

Seriously dude, stay on task, stay focused, keep on track, and things WILL start to change.

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by Raven125
Tonight i got to finally test out what i have learned so far from this site... i did notice a differance, because i was able to be myself and wasn't shy to say anything... i was noticed by absolutly no girls in a more than friendly way, i attempted to play with them and kino but it all failed.

Towards the end i just went up and talked to them in a normal fashion, the response was the usuall, they laughed when i made jokes and we had some intresting convos.

Once again though i think i have proved to be a nice guy, but now a nice guy with self esteem and balls. Overall i feel that i failed as i didnt even get a second glance when i was leaving.

Anyone think they know why i cant stop being so nice around girls... no i dont let them walk over me anymore either... i mean im just being me and that makes the girls think of me in a friendly way, not the way i want.

keep up the effort but know that your efforts might not be successful, a lot of the mindset, and skills shown at this site will not work with young girls.

it sounds to me that you are not being yourself, i didnt get a clear picture of the situation, but these girls, so young, may not even really be interested yet.

they may think a boy is cute here and there and maybe even want to hold hands but they dont really know what they want

keep up thegood work you are makin more progress than many

key things to work on are mindset, and developing into the person that you want to be.

 

[Captain Anonymous]

Girls of 13 are usually very insecure, don't know what or who they want, and will go for the cutest / most popular guy on offer.

Read the articles here, they aren't aimed at your age, but the general theme will still apply. Pay special attention at the ones aimed at becoming popular at school.

Things are more simple, confidence and popularity will win you the chicks.

Good luck.

 

[tracy Jaks]

Sto thinking about it so much, do something else, you willl just get yourself down, and then that will lead to low self esteem, and the chicks do not like that 1 bit.

 

[Kwah]

At 13 I had chicks showing me their tits. Somewhere along that line I lost that skill 13 was a good year for me that and 14.

 

[numlock]

Raven125 -- you are in EXCELLENT shape. It sounds to me that you are well on your way to becoming a well-liked, excellent conversationalist. This status is so hard to obtain at the delicate age of 13, but it sounds like you're on the right track. As everyone else is saying, at 13 years old, girls have no idea what they want. It's so true that they go for the most popular, or the best looking. But don't worry, in a few years they'll mature out of all this crap.

Keep it up, and as you reach your last years of highschool and enter college (when girls are more sane), you'll be attracting girls like you never imagined because you were able to master basic conversation and DJ skills at an early age. In fact, you're setting yourself up for life.

 

[xanderbaz]

Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
hold up... your 13?
Where are you picking chicks up? At 13 I was liking chicks but I was still trying to break myself of pokemon and DBZ, lol.

Dude... DBZ was some good sh*t.
If I knew then (when I was 13) what I know now, I'd be a rich mofo. Keep it up and you might get to be a king by 18. Just stick around.

 

[heteropedro]

Raven! Im 13 about to turn 14 in 3 weeks. Whens your b day? Yes I'd say we're lucky asses for finding this site. We have HUGE advantages over anyone our age. Whats your aim? Oh yeah and I've been kissed. A few times. But not with don juan material.

 

[Raven125]

Originally posted by heteropedro
Raven! Im 13 about to turn 14 in 3 weeks. Whens your b day? Yes I'd say we're lucky asses for finding this site. We have HUGE advantages over anyone our age. Whats your aim? Oh yeah and I've been kissed. A few times. But not with don juan material.

May 4th, 1990... aim is djivory8.

 

[NYC Dude]

I found this site a little longer than a year ago, when I was 13, and this site and the information contained in it helped me greatly. Even though many of the girls I knew were *****es, I went into High School the next year and within a few weeks became an entirely new person. If I hadn't come to this site after I had a serious one-itis, I would be the loser you laugh at when you walk by him, and I would still have that one-itis. Now that I look back at her with my new mindset I think "ass-ugly" rather than "goddess."

 

[aBAzLLnA]

At 13 I had chicks showing me their tits. Somewhere along that line I lost that skill 13 was a good year for me that and 14.

hey kwah, what tits did you see?! lol maybe a nipple or two, but tits?

anyway

please, there is no such thing as defeat. you didnt **** up, you didnt mess up, you didnt lose, you didnt win. your expecting too much at one time, baby steps my friend, baby steps to success.

gotta learn how to walk before you run.

~ivan

 

[MetalFortress]

Originally posted by VIVAlasVEGASBaby
I'm 14 and I haven't been kissed, but high school starts in a month or so, and there i will be king!!!!!!!

You're not even in high school yet and you're already in the DJ Bible?

Dayum.