waiting 2 days to call instead of 3?

[big weezy]

is waiting 2 days to make the 1st call too risky after meeting a girl at a house party on a friday night?

sunday is the best night to call generally buy valentines is looming next week and i want to secure this HB on a date in the next 2 days if possible, she may already have other dates set up, i dont care but i need to run my play at least.

is it too soon to call tonight and will i seem too eager or desperate because i called 2 days after i got the number?

i know the next day is a no-no so i avoided that, but is today still too soon?

 

[Iceberg]

2 days is fine. When I was less confident in my game, I'd wait 3 days.

But these days, I do whatever I want. If I feel like the situation requires a next-day call, I'll do that. If the girl thinks she's hot s***, then I'll wait 5 days.

Basically what I'm trying to say is, you should feel totally comfortable calling her after 2 days. That doesn't seem desperate at all.

 

[I'm in the Mood]

This may sound absurd to you, but you're actually doing the wrong thing.

The main point of waiting to call is to seem not-needy, however, your current mindset is something along the lines of "I don't know when I should call her so that she won't reject me..."

Stop that right now and pick up the phone, because it's obvious that you want to call her and set up a date.

You already know that you have the ability to pick up women, so there will be more out there just for you if this one doesn't work out.

Knowing this, why would you even wait two days?

Call her in one day if you'd like to, just be calm and confident about it.

Stressing about when you should call her will only build up falsified insecurity in your mind, and that will eventually cause your downfall if you don't learn how to deal with it right away before it gets to you.

is waiting 2 days to make the 1st call too risky after meeting a girl at a house party on a friday night?

sunday is the best night to call generally buy valentines is looming next week and i want to secure this HB on a date in the next 2 days if possible, she may already have other dates set up, i dont care but i need to run my play at least.

is it too soon to call tonight and will i seem too eager or desperate because i called 2 days after i got the number?

i know the next day is a no-no so i avoided that, but is today still too soon?

 

[big weezy]

i usually guage with how much time i spent talking to her and how quickly i got the number and also her IL with how long i should wait.

she's incredible, hottest girl at that party but talking to her she was very soft spoken and friendly, i was surprised actually. she was very tipsy though and dropped her phone while she was talking to me haha i should have said 'wow i didn't realise i had such an effect on you ' but i didn't but never mind.

i called just now, it rang 6 times and she didn't answer went to voicemail. its about 10pm here on a sunday night. ok maybe i didn't guage it that well, she was so tipsy when i got her number when she as reciting it she was acting so unsure about what it was and stumbled on the last 5 digits so when i missed called her it didn't ring but she didn't act panicing like oh no hes calling me im going to be found out.. but more confusion why it wasn't ringing her phone so she looked at it again, she goes 'oh maybe its 688, or is it 388' i go 'ok take my number and miss call me instead' she tells me to call her when im coming down and we'll go to that bar i mentioned. so i assumed her interest was ok despite her semi giving me a fake number. maybe im being ignorant.

bear in mind i dont think she saved my name to her phone when i kissed her goodbye and went back to my friends. i just showed her in my phone how to spell my name and left it.

anyway when should i call again? i was thinking leaving her 48 hours to get back to me and if she doesn't get back to me by tomorrow night call at lunch time on tuesday, does that seem needy?

 

[I'm in the Mood]

anyway when should i call again? i was thinking leaving her 48 hours to get back to me and if she doesn't get back to me by tomorrow night call at lunch time on tuesday, does that seem needy?

You're supposed to leave a message dude!

On the first phone call, if you have to leave a message, this is fun to do:
"Hey, this is big weezy. Quit playing hard to get and give me a call back! Bye."

You can call back and leave a message. Wait a week and if she doesn't respond, try again. Calling once a week is VERY non-needy and it shows interest in an attractive way like you don't give up that easily.

 

[everywomanshero]

Sometimes I call right away, sometimes I call in a few days, sometimes I never call them at all... most of the time it just depends on if I remember to call them or not. It turns out all different sorts of ways. I've banged girls I called right away and banged ones I called 3 weeks later. meh.

 

[big weezy]

I think I get it, you call based on how high her interest level was in you when you number closed. Which in this case I made a mistake cos she semi-tried to give me a fake number with 1 digit out but she was really drunk and the way she did it seemed as if she didn't know but I'm just being ignorant, she knew what her number was she just put on the 'oh I don't remember my number act' as she was giving it to me, its my fault for number closing too quickly. She didn't pick up last night and didn't call me back. When should I call again given that her I'll is probably about average? I need to get her on the phone to amplify any I'll I had before but if she doesn't pick up I can't do that so will have to text her. I don't think. She saved my number cos she was really tipsy but I have to assume she did (some girls don't answer calls from numbers they don't know) when do I make this call? I'm also assuming given how friendly she was on friday she's clearly single despite being stunning and with valentines coming up she