Venue Change

[SHChamp]

Bombshell HB9.5, have met a couple of times, she moved to another country. Told me she'd be in my country for two weeks, texted her a couple of days after she landed, didn't get a response till a week later (Low Interest). Text back and forth is literally a couple of days in between every time. She responded with standard, boring questions about how I was, so I wanted to cut this off:

Me: "Who cares, don't be so boring. Listen, I have an extremely busy week ahead of me, but it would be nice to catch up and have some fun. I am going to have go for a run this Saturday at Venue A, join me if you can catch up."
Her: "Sounds fun! Deal, awesome."
Me: "Ah, so you're not afraid of getting sweaty, good. Meet me at Venue A at 11:00 o'clock and bring running clothes."
Next day
Her: No!! Let's meet at Venue B. Venue A is too far for me, and Venue B is also close for you, right? (It's not)
Me: No, let's meet at Venue A for now, and next time you're around again we can run where you want to.
Her: Awh, come on. Venue B please!! Because Venue A is really far for me.
Her: And I have a lot of stuff to do, since I am leaving the next day.

I didn't respond to this yet, because usually speaking they agree after I don't budge. To be honest, I don't feel like supplementing to her, especially since it's kind of a hassle for me to get to her choice of venue and she's not prioritizing meeting me even though she proposed it in the first place before coming here. I might be overthinking this, but not sure how to respond to this, what do you all think?

 

[marmel75]

This is a little different, as you have limited time to see her and there is no real long term potential here. Your only goal should be to bang her.

As such, the only way you can actually do this is to see her.

1) If you want to be bold, maybe say something like "Well, since we can't agree to a place, why don't you just come over to my place for a drink or two first and we can decide where to go from there." Obviously "Where you go from there" is going to be the bedroom to rail her senseless for a few hours...but you leave enough ambiguity where she can justify coming over in her mind and not think of herself as a "slut" for doing it..."it just kind of happened"...

2) Alternatively, you could stick to your guns and say Venue A...if this was a first date then I'd probably suggest this. But it isn't.

3) Or you could suggest a 3rd venue...you are changing, but you are also not caving to her wishes. This is a neutral move---its a compromise. You neither strengthen nor weaken your position.

4) Or you could cave and go with Venue B. You likely will get to see her, but she might not be too impressed by your willingness to go along with whatever she wanted to do.

My play would be to go for either 1 or 3. 4 will likely lead to you seeing her but not getting laid. 2 will likely lead to you not seeing her but "keeping your frame" and your d!ck in your pants that night.

 

[marmel75]

So what happened OP?