valid reason for breaking up

[acekilla]

ok heres the story

this is my first girlfriend ever

when we first went out we had sex the first night and many other times within the first three months

the she tells me that she is pregnant from the first night we had sex(no condom damn i ****ed that up)

so after that for the next two months we have not been having sex at all not matter how many times i try to intiate it she keeps saying no
the most i get is a tease or some brief dry ****

we hardly have an opportunity to much of the time but when we do she still says no

like tonight i had the house to myself till tommorrow afternoon but all she did was wash her clothes then act like we was about to then stop check on the clothes then stop trying all together and sit on my bed and watch tv and say she had to go home early instead of staying the night

the thing is its not cause she's pregnant cause she already has a daughter and told me she had sex alot with her former boyfriend when she was pregnant before

she said the reason was because she was just baptized and a born again christian or some **** like that talking about she won't have sex with me until we get atleast engaged then i cursed her out talkin about why do i have to wait till we are engaged when your old boyfriend didnt have to put up with that to have sex

then i just told her to **** off and she slammed the door and i drove off

i don't think its fair that i have to do all this **** to get what other people already got with less effort and why do i have to wife her when she's got a kid that is mine and a kid thats not

so am i in the right or wrong

 

[NRM]

Well, you did have unresponsible unprotected sex with a woman you barely knew for a whole day. You do have to end up taking responsibility for your actions and you do have to deal with a woman you did not know much about when you had sex with her.

It does seem harsh on you, but you do have some blame to take.

 

[Unregistered]

So she's keeping the baby?

What I don't understand is why it took her three months to find out she was pregnant. How late does she have to be before she begins to suspect anything?

If anything, you should break up with her for not even knowing what a ****ing period is.

 

[Vini Vidi Vici]

bad, bad, bad...

I think you're worrying about the wrong matter here. You`re gonna be a father, you`re gonna have a child to take care of for the rest of your life. And you`re only thinking about banging this girl! You sound like a sexmaniac, like a teenager who keeps thinking about pu$$y 24-7.

You know what a man is?

A man is someone that want to improve in every aspect of his life. Sex is nice, but it`s not everything. Sometimes there are things that are way more important than sex.

Be a man! See what you`re gonna do with the baby, and then start thinking about your sex life.

Don`t you think it is more important?


P.S.: Personally, I`d dump that girl. But take care of the baby. Face your responsabilities.

 

[DJ_Dork]

ha ha

 

[DJ Alejandro]

VVV has said everything you need.

1.) you f*cked up, suck it all up and take responsibility.
2.) respect her decision and her beliefs.
3.) you're gonna be a father; act like one.