Using jealousy

[becker]

I thought I'd start a thread on this subject because it seems to be an interesting concept.

Take for example, the situation where a girl is not very into you because you're talking to her too much or seem like you're too "available". How can this be changed?

Well, seems to me like the only thing that can work is if you make her jealous somehow. The problem is that making a girl jealous only works if she is sort of into you. I personally am sick of this girl who says no to everything I ask her to do. It's totally ridiculous. Nobody could be that unwilling. Then there are these girls who I don't want at all throwing themselves at me. It's crazy, because it seems that in order to get the girl you want, you have to be into a girl that you don't like so that the girl you want sees it and gets jealous. Just one of the many ridiculous concepts that underlie our illogical society of women.

 

[becker]

Ok....maybe this isn't such an interesting topic

 

[Starman]

unfortunately Becker,

Jealousy is just a mechanism in women that triggers their low self esteem, insecurity and their intinct to compete with other women.

Once you get a girl jealous..she doesnt get turned on MORE to you..but her need for ATTENTION from you just grows..

once you give it to her..Game over. And using it forever with the same girl..will eventually get her bored and she will move on.

I think it works better in conjuction with making yourself more attractive and DJ seduction.

 

[becker]

Makes sense, Starman

 

[legolas]

Jealousy is what Christopher Tomasulo calls Pet Cemetary Persuasion(TM) (http://www.acceleratedpersuasion.com) If you can read that newsletter please do, as it is exactly about this.

Basically when you use such a method, you may get what you want BUT afterwards things will be completely different from what they were like before when you'd expect them to be the same. The newsletter is based on the movie called Pet Cemetary from which it takes the name, and if you've seen the movie, you'd probably understand it without reading the newsletter.

So be careful about using jealousy to get anything!!!

 

[becker]

Another good point, legolas, I guess it's not such a good idea. Has anyone done this and gotten good results? What about using jealousy to get her to stop playing games, then just work it from there?

 

[Starman]

Ive used jealousy to get girls to pay more attention to me..but it was more that ..they were motivated to get more attention BACK from me, by giving me more attention..reciprocation..so that they can feel that they are "more special" than the other girl in MY eyes.

but thats as far as it got..if that makes sense

 

[El Campeon 56]

Jealousy is simply a means in which one is envious of something you have offered to someone or been offered by others which you do not do to the person feeling the jealousy. This offering could be things you would do for another or emotional bonding you and another have shared. You can use this in scoring women to only a minor extent. There is no way you can totally take a girl you just met and get her to fall hard for you simply by making her envious of how amazing you are or how much girls flock to you. But subtly revealing what girls did in the past or what you shared with others and haven't yet with her as you grow to meet the girl will aid her in pursuing those same things with you, as she will want them as well.