Using her FRIEND ZONE

[SeldomSeen]

I know there are several post that relate to being put in the friend zone and I haven't had a chance to browse through them all but basically I wanted to approach the Friend Zone at a different angle. LJBF used to be an insult to me but then I started changing my perspective because not every girl you meet wants to date you. So what I did was instead of writing her off completely I saw her as an opportunity to meet more girls. I started making friends with a few campus cuties who were single and this led to more dating opportunities especially if you have a good reputation. Call it networking. Like making friends with someone who works in a company that you want to work for. Do it slowly and that friend may refer you. Hmmmmm

 

[Rev]

In my experience, most of the girls that LJBFed me were full of shyt and I never saw them again. If I envited them to do something they thought I was still trying to persue them and they flaked or fed me shyt. How to actually be friends with a chick who "just wants to be friends" would be a handy DJ skill.

 

[lil devun]

i think there may be some confusion with being "freinds" and being ljbf'd. being friends is a mutual agreement and it is what both sides want. ljbf is a one sided thing and the other person usually gets fvcked over

 

[affirmed]

Although it might not be very manly, a better plan might be to just genuinely be friends with girls you get a sense of low interest from. I'm sure pook and others would say you should ignore signs and go for the date, but if you're pretty sure or genuinely feel the networking potential is high enough to offset the missed opportunity, then it might be worth trying.

Of course this also goes back to social proof, even if she doesn't like you, just having her around makes you appear more desireable, this is why you should always be nice and charming to all females, even those you do not find attractive or wish to date.