Here are my tips:
1. You will need a digital camera. Do not use any kind of camera which will need developing. Forget polaroids also...poor quality and waiting 1 to 2 minutes for the pics to develope are a waste of time.
2. You will need the photography session to be a kind of 'spur of the moment thing'. Have the camera ready, but, have it laying there on the side of your bed.
3. Start with regular foreplay. The kissing, hugging, all that jazz, back massage, candles, oils..whatever floats the boat.
THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF THE FOREPLAY IS TO MAKE HER FEEL SEXXXY, ALIVE, AND COMFORTABLE...BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY..SEXXXYY!!
COMPLIMENT HER BODY. Tell her how sexy she looks, how soft her skin feels, how her hair smells sweet. Bottom line, make her feel comfortable.
4. Slowly reach for camera. When you take pictures, don't start with that spread eagle money shot. This is all about patience.
5. Start taking seductive pictures of her with her clothes still on. Ask her to pose, will you compliment her body. Take seductive pictures with both of you there. You kissing her, you touching her...etc.
6. Put the camera down, then start undressing her. And keeping with the foreplay: COMPLIMENT HER BODY. Tell her how sexy she looks, how soft her skin feels, how her hair smells sweet. Bottom line again, make her feel comfortable.
7. When her shirt is off, take a 'lingere model' shot of her in her bra and panties. Keep with the compliments. Tell her how freaking turned on this makes you....chances are..she'll want to keep turning you on.
8. Put the camera down, AND START HITTING THAT SH*T
****NOTICE HOW YOU HAVEN'T TAKEN ANY NUDES OF HER YET?
9. Ok...while in the middle of hitting it..reach for that camera...my favorite position to do this is doggy or when she's going down on me. Start taking pictures. Keep with the compliments and LET HER KNOW HOW THIS IS TURNING YOU ON!!! If you run into interference....just keep telling her that its VERY SEXXY, and when you guys are done that you can both look at them together.
Now..it can go two ways from here..
She can either keep on going..letting you take those pics of you and her naked...its probably something she's done in the past and has no problems with it...so mission accomplished.
or..
She will get uneasy..and may ask you to delete those pictures.
When she asks you to delete the pictures. Don't put up a fight. Put down the camera and finish the baby making session. When it is over, watch the pictures together, and let her know how much it turned you on that night. Then slowly delete the pictures. While deleting them, keep on re-enforcing how seductive and how sexxy she looks. Plant in her head that its such a shame that you guys have to delete the pictures. But, dont pout and be a p*ssy about it. Just do it. Before deleting them all, tell her that you want to at least keep ONE of the 'lingere shots' for your mental reference. Something for you to think about when she's not there.
The point of all this is to ease her mind that you aren't a perverted jerk that will show all his friends and paste it to his personal website. Once her mind is at ease, she will most likely want to do it again. BUT..
YOU HAVE TO REALLY TRUELY SHOW HER THAT IT TURNED YOU ON SO MUCH. YOU HAVE TO LAY THE COMPLIMENTS THICK!!!!!
At the next baby making session, the doors are wide open now. When round two comes, pretty much do the same thing listed in these steps. The more she does this with you, the more likely she won't worry about deleting them in the future.